16/07/2025
'Huwag Matakot Magmahal Muli'
Masakit! Oo, sobrang sakit! 'Yong nagmahal ka ng tunay pero sa huli'y ikaw ang umuwing luhaan.
Marami sa atin ang biktima ng "one sided love". 'Yong bang pag-ibig na nakakasakal at nakakalason. Pinaasa! Nagpaloko! Nag-assume! Nagpagamit! Napakaraming kataga ang pwedeng itawag sa atin.
Some of us ended like a total mess. Nawawala sa sarili. 'Di makabangon. Nahihirapang tanggapin na wala na siya. Worst if you consider it as a traumatic experience and attempt to end your life.
You started to hate Cupid! The idea of love and being in love are allergic topics to you. Nakakasuka! Nakakasira ng modo! Nakaka-inis!
Honestly, 'di masama ang maging bitter. 'Di masama ang mahirapang mag-move on. Wika nga nila, "Love when it's real, it's scary and full of consequences." Hindi mo kasalanang nagmahal ka ng todo. Hindi mo kasalanang 'di ka nagtira para sa sarili mo. You took the risks, you failed and so what?
Atleast, you tried and gave a good fight. Alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi ikaw 'yong nagkulang at mas lalong hindi ikaw 'yong "selfish".
I am a victim of "one-sided love" too. My advice is for you to take your time. Take your time to be bitter, to be wasted and to be a different you until one day you woke up feeling refreshed and relieved. 'Yong time na nalasap mo na nang husto 'yong sakit. 'Yong kilala mo na uli ang 'yong sarili and knew your worth. 'Yong kaya mo nang maging happy ulit.
Recovery is a long process. However, it's worth it! You are healed by time. You are prepared by personal wisdom. And when that recovery process is over, tell your self that you are willing to be vulnerable again. Kaya mo nang magmahal ulit.
Embrace the recovery process. The scars will make you stronger and wiser. Huwag mong sanayin ang sarili mong maging mag-isa after that traumatic love experience.
Trust me, napskasarap magmahal!