17/09/2026
This "High Value Women" and "Men should have a Provider Mindset" issue is going in circles. Lahat may pinaglalaban at walang nagpapa-awat.
The picture on the left is a woman preaching to other women na dapat ang pipiliin nilang lalake ay yong may provider mindset. Yong kaya kang Gastusan, kaya kang pakainin, kayang ibigay ang luho mo. In short "Practical" mindset daw dapat ang mga babae. To be completely honest? There's nothing wrong with that standard. The only flaw sa argument na yan is kung iisipin mo na porket may "Provider mindset" na ang isang lalake ay automatically "good lover, husband and partner" na ba siya? I have seen a lot of men who can provide and spoil their girlfriends & wives but also cheat. In other words, ang PROVIDER mindset is NOT EQUAL to "Good-loyal-loving Partner".
In fact, some men who can provide tend to be controlling and dominant. Because money is power, it's an EGO BOOSTER. May mga lalake din na average lang ang kakayahan to provide but are consistent and caring. So kahit saan, naka DEPENDE parin talaga sa tao yan kung gusto ka niyang i pursue at alagaan regardless kung may makukuha siya in return o wala.
Girls, be a STRONG Woman, not just a WOMAN with HIGH STANDARDS.
Most women want a man that's already established. A strong woman will be part of his struggle, survive it, succeed together and build an empire.
Girls what you should pray to find instead is a man who is actually trying. A man who has dreams and do his best to achieve them. A man who will make you the pillar of his ambitions. A man will strive to be better for himself and for your future together. It won't matter kung galing siya sa mayamang pamilya o hindi. What will matter the most is kung SIYA BA YONG LALAKENG INILAAN NG DIYOS PARA SAYO.
These men on the left side are the problematic ones.
Hindi ang BABAENG may mataas na standards ang problema dito. Kundi ang mga LALAKENG ayaw gumawa ng paraan para i level off ang standards mo. These are the kind of guys who will give up and run during tough times. The kinds of men who will not strive harder to reach your level. If a man wants you in his life, HE WILL DO HIS BEST TO KEEP YOU THERE. If he's currently below you in terms of financial capability, he will work hard and be productive to achieve his goals.
The value of a woman is not based on her p***y!!!!! She is more than that. Ilang mga babae na ang nakasiping mo bago din kayo nagkakilala? 😒
Men or women, the key to a long lasting and successful relationship is reciprocating and consistency while putting God at the center of the relationship.
Tara Kape?
||engr.jaydee
