Cheng

Cheng "A LESS THAN ordinary woman with EXTRA ordinary God."

What I don't like the most is being taken advantage of.. I mean, who does want it? ..I've already encountered a lot of ...
16/04/2026

What I don't like the most is being taken advantage of.. I mean, who does want it? ..

I've already encountered a lot of people with different attitude and characteristics in my 20 years of existence and I value them so much - each of them, but among those people there are also some who took advantage of me..

Siguro naisip nila madali lang Akong e manipulate kaya nila nagawa yun..

What they didn't know is I know what they're doing but I keep on being silent not because I wanted to be treated that way but because I don't want to think bad about them..

Nung mga panahong tinake advantage yung pag trato ko sa kanila.. masakit pero wala akong ginawa.. hinayaan ko lang..

I still treated them nicely and show kindness despite the fact na alam ko na Ang motibo nila..

I'm still getting along with them and I gave what I could offer to the table..

I showed them how much I care for them and how they mean to me to the point that they get used of my presence and they got familiar with me..

Pero nung na hit na nila yung limit ko.. when I've had enough of them that's the time I suddenly let go.

I walked away without holding back..
I leave the table which we both share without hesitant..

I distanced myself from them because it's not good being with them anymore..

In short, Hindi ko na ma endure.. so I walked away..

Not just walking away like avoiding them or ignoring them.. it's literally packing my things and leave that place..

Those times when I let go they asked me " why all of a sudden?" " Hindi ka na ba talaga mapipigilan?" " Bakit?" " Pwede bang huwag ka nalang muna umalis?" " Biglaan naman yata?"

No, it's not so sudden.. I'm thinking it through from the beginning.. it's just that I don't speak what's in my mind.

In fact, pinaghandaan ko na..

Minsan kailangan mong umalis hindi dahil kailangan kundi dahil hindi na makakabuti para sayo kung mananatilu ka pa..

Alam ng mga taong nakasama ko kung ano ang ugali ko..

Ako kasi yung tipo ng tao na kahit kahit pagsalitaan mo ako ng hindi maganda ngiti lang ang isusukli ko sayo kahit nasasaktan na ako..

Some of them would say.. "masyado kang malambot sa iba", " masyado kang mabait", "madali kang maloloko pag ganyan ka", "masyado kang mapagmahal, baguhin mo ugali mo" etc.

Siguro ganun talaga ako.. at hindi ko yun babaguhin..

They won't hear bad things from me and I never talked bad about them to my other friends too

I just walked away naturally..

Walking away doesn't mean I don't care about them anymore.. I still do.. it's just that I don't allow myself being treated the way I don't deserve kung hindi ko na kayang tiisin..

I just don't like the idea of what they did but I still care for them..

And I won't hurt others by bad-mouthing them behind my back or gossiping them to others..

I will just let them experience my love; that's how I do my revenge..

Yes, I do revenge but I made sure it will leave a mark in their heart na hindi madaling makakalimutan..

Alam ko maaalala nila ako sa pamamagitan nun but more than that I want them to experience God's love through me..

Some may think being kind, softhearted and loving is weakness but for me.. it's power!❤️

Like how Jesus loves Judas.. I will also love people despite of their betrayal..

And to those people who treated me like that, I always love them.. walang nagbago.. ❤️😊

" Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good"
- Romans 12:21

DAG-A ANG DAUTAN PINAAGI SA MAAYO❤️

My mistakes are proof that I'm a human being..I often made mistakes in every area of my life at pakiramdam ko nilulunod ...
16/04/2026

My mistakes are proof that I'm a human being..

I often made mistakes in every area of my life at pakiramdam ko nilulunod ako ng disappointment sa mga pagkakamaling yun..

sino ba naman kasi ang gustong magkamali?.. everyone aspires to be the best and to do better and I'm one of them..

I always wanted to do better... in my work, in my decisions, in myself and in every aspects of my life pero hindi talaga maiwasan ang magkamali because mistakes will really happen inevitably..

Yung kahit ingat na ingat ka hindi pa rin maiiwasan na magkamali..

Sa trabaho.. nagkakamali ako.. but I'm grateful for those employer who even when they are irritated of me being a slow learner never scold me but spoke softly and explains slowly instead, like " ganito Kasi Yan.." " wag ganyan.. dapat ganito" " gawa ka ng notes para sa susunod alam mo na" " saan ka ba nahihírapan?" "Tanungin mo Ako pag may Hindi ka naintindihan ha?" Sadyang nakakagaan ng pakiramdam.

Sa workmates ko, nagkakamali din ako.. Minsan sila yung masisi dahil sa pagkakamali ko..

Iba yung pakiramdam na nadamay ang iba sa pagkakamali mo.. iba ang atake ng konsensiya pag ganun.. at nung humingi ka ng sorry ang maririnig mo lang ay
"okay lang yun.. Hindi naman kita sinisi eh.. misunderstanding lang yun" like wahhh ka bait..

Tapos yung iba eche cheer ka pa
" ganyan talaga yan kasi bago kapa lang" " okay lang yan.. Ako nga eh mas lala pa jan"
"wag mo isipin yun.. normal lang yan pag bago"
" Sa una lang yan" grabeee..

Nakakataba ng puso na merong sila na mas pipiliing umintindi kaysa manghusga..

Sa mga desisyon ko sa buhay.. I also did mistakes and I suffered some of the consequences..

Pag nagkamali ako sa mga desisyon ko sa buhay I keep on blaming myself,

Kasi yung totoo, walang gustong magkamali dahil hindi madaling magkamali lalo na sa mga desisyon natin sa buhay dahil bukod sa lulunurin ka ng pagsisisi.. people around you will criticize you too..

Yung tipong nilalabanan mo yung battle mo sa loob; nagre reflect ka, sinisisi mo na ang sarili mo, as in sobrang down mo na't lahat pero may laban kapa pala sa labas...

Hindi mo naman pwedeng sabihin na hindi ka maaapektuhan sa kanila dahil mapapansin mo talaga eh..

But I've learned to forgive others and myself.. I slowly accept the fact that I'm human being and mistakes is part of life kasi hindi naman kasi nangyari yun dahil ginusto ko..

Sadyang hindi lang maiiwasan talaga na magkamali..
Pero sa bawat pagkakamali ko na yun may mga natutunan ako..

I've learned to be a better me than who I am yesterday, mas naging maingat ako, mas naging mapagmahal sa workmates at mas naging submissive ako kay Lord sa mga desisyon ko sa buhay.

And to those people who choose to understand me being not perfect rather than blame me for what I did wrong, I appreciate them so much and I always mentioned them in my prayer..

Sa mundong ito sobrang daling manisi kaysa umunawa at sobrang daling manghusga kaysa magmahal kaya I thanked God I encountered them..

Thank you guys for making the world a better home for me❤️

Cheng

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