Flayne's Poets

29/01/2026

It's time to put another barrier on,
just like how it was last time,
last time i was torn.

29/01/2026

You can't dissappoint a woman multiple times and expect her energy to still crave you, don't assume she'll wait forever for you to get it right.

03/12/2025

1. He replies – but only when it's convenient for him.
2. He's sweet – but only when he's bored or lonely.
3. He makes plans – but always "later," never now.
4. He talks to you – but never about anything serious.
5. He flirts – but never commits.
6. He checks in randomly – but disappears for days.
7. He calls you “baby” – but never introduces you to anyone.
8. He likes your stories – but never asks about your day.
9. He says “miss u” – but never makes an effort to see you.
10. He gets jealous – but won’t claim you.
11. He vents to you – but celebrates with someone else.
12. He compliments you – but keeps you a secret.
13. He texts late at night – but never invites you in the daytime.
14. He says “trust me” – but gives you nothing to trust.
15. He remembers your body – but forgets your birthday.
16. He gives attention – but only when the girl he wants ignores him.
17. He keeps you close – but never close enough.
18. He makes you feel chosen – then makes you feel crazy.
19. He treats you like a comfort – not a commitment.
20. He always comes back – because he knows you’ll be there.

17/11/2025

Watching him go from being obssessed with me to not even caring about me.

17/11/2025

You made me feel wanted, but suddenly... you said nvm.

17/11/2025

Nothing can make a man attractive, not until he yearn.

17/11/2025

if your partner brings up something that bothers them you get defensive. Dont change the fight is gonna continue to happen, if your partner got angry at you and expressed how they were feeling,your gold should be to listen to what they say, apologize for the behaviour that you showed, and then change the behaviour so it doesnt show up again

Your goal should not be intake the information, defend your wrong actions and then remains the same for the remainder of the relationship or expect that the fight will keep popping up.

17/11/2025

stop accepting "im sorry if you feel that way" as an apology.

Thats not remorse its often a dismissal disguised as an apology, real accountability sounds like
"i hurt you and i understand why".

Forcus on you response, not their recognition.

You cant see accountability from someone whos more commited to defend themselves than understanding you.

You can't change this: you can only decide if your willing to stay with someone who operates to push you away.

17/11/2025

i forgot that its not my role to teach grown adults a basic emotional responsibility

17/11/2025

When a man is doing something wrong, either a simple question, explanation feels like a threat for them, thats why he gets defensive getting mad is his way of making you fear him, or turn his wrong into yours more like gaslighting. Only a guilty man reacts like hes under attack.

08/07/2025

Sorry ngani

08/07/2025