Mommy Jes

Mommy Jes seek peace,
and ๐“…๐“Š๐“‡๐“ˆ๐“Š๐‘’ it. Psalm 34:14

In so many ways,God you have been so good to me. ๐Ÿ™
19/05/2025

In so many ways,
God you have been so good to me. ๐Ÿ™

Siyam na bwan na rin pala ang lumipas,Simula ng ika'y aking isinilang.Di na alintana ang pagod at puyat,t'wing nasisilay...
18/05/2025

Siyam na bwan na rin pala ang lumipas,
Simula ng ika'y aking isinilang.
Di na alintana ang pagod at puyat,
t'wing nasisilayan ngiti mong kay ganda.

Labis ang pasasalamat sa Dyos Ama,
Kapwa tayo dalawa'y pinagtibay Nya.
Nariyan rin 'yong Ama, nakaalalay.
Lubos na pagmamahal, handang ialay.

Di man marangya ating pamilya Anak,
Pangako, Ito ay pagsusumikapan.
Tutuparin ang pangarap sa pamilya.
Tayo'y uusad, liliwanag ang buhay.

๐Ÿ“Mommy Jes (05.18.25)

โ€”โ€”๐™ƒ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ฎ 9๐™ข๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ก๐™™, ๐™๐™ฎ๐™ค! แฅซแญก

Let me share you this;Sabi nila โ€”Pag-nagkaanak ka na, mawawalan ka na ng kaibigan.I disagree.Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyan...
16/05/2025

Let me share you this;
Sabi nila โ€”Pag-nagkaanak ka na, mawawalan ka na ng kaibigan.

I disagree.

Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang buhay, pinagkakaabalahan, pinagdadaanan at priorities. And to think na "mawawalan ka ng kaibigan" when you started a family at pagnagkaanak ka, Mali ang mindset mo.

Kung ikaw busy, busy rin sila. Let's understand other people. Hindi porket hindi ka na nila nakakausap, nakakamusta, nakakasama eh wala na silang pakealam sayo. Busy lang din sila sa buhay nila. Katulad mo, Busy ka rin sa binuo mong pamilya.

Oo, Nakakatuwa na may mga taong nakakaalala satin, pero kung yung mga taong inexpect mo na alalahanin ka eh hindi na nagpaparamdam baka this time sila naman ang need mong alalahanin.

Ika nga โ€” Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Let's just be more kind & soon magkakasama-sama din ulit kayo. โ˜บ๏ธ

To my people, Iloveyou all. Let's catch up soon. ๐Ÿค

"Madaling maging ama, pero mahirap magpaka-ama."Madaming lalake ang gustong-gusto maging Ama pero hindi alam ang respons...
13/05/2025

"Madaling maging ama, pero mahirap magpaka-ama."

Madaming lalake ang gustong-gusto maging Ama pero hindi alam ang responsibilidad na kadikit nito. Akala nila pag-nagtatrabaho sila para sa pamilya hanggang doon na lang yung dapat na gawin nila. Na porket nagpapasok sila ng pera sa isang pamilya eh okay na yon. Sana maunawaan nyo na hindi kabawasan ito sa pagkalalaki nyo ang pagpalit ng diaper ng anak nyo, ang magtimpla ng gatas para sa anak nyo, ang makipaglaro sa kanila pagkauwi nyo galing trabaho, ang pakainin, paliguan at patulugin ang anak nyo pag wala kayong pasok, ang makiramdam sa pagod ng nanay ng anak nyo, ang pagsalubong sa mag-ina mo ng nakangiti pagkatapos ng maghapon na hindi mo sila nakasama, Ilan lamang ito sa mga simpleng bagay na makakapagpasaya sa asawa nyo.

Pag ginawa mo itong mga ito, Magiging masaya ang asawa mo, at ang buong pamilya nyo. Tulungan, Hindi sumbatan, Makinig at makiramdam.

Always remember being a provider father is not enough. Your presence to your child & wife is what really matters the most.

To all fathers that are very hands-on with their child and giving a helping hand to their spouse, You're a MAN! And You're doing amazing! ๐Ÿค

Sabi nila pag nag-resign daw ako sa trabaho at nag-alaga na lang ng anak ay: "Mabobored ka", "Hindi ka na mahinirapan ny...
07/05/2025

Sabi nila pag nag-resign daw ako sa trabaho at nag-alaga na lang ng anak ay: "Mabobored ka", "Hindi ka na mahinirapan nyan mag-aalaga ka na lang ng anak.", "Masasabayan mo ng matulog anak mo." etc, etc.

โ€” the answer is No, ayan yung misconception ng karamihan about being a fulltime mom.

Ito yung mga bagay na ginagawa ng mga nanay na madalas hindi nabibigyang halaga ;
โ€ข Maglilinis ng bahay (magwawalis/maglalampaso)
โ€ข Maghuhugas ng mga pinagkainan/mga bote at gamit ng bata)
โ€ข Maglalaba.
โ€ข Magtutupi ng nilabhan pag natuyo na.
โ€ข Magluluto.
โ€ข Mag-aasikaso ng asawa (pero buti na lang swerte, ako ang inaasikaso. ๐Ÿคช)
โ€ข Mag-aasikaso ng anak (Papakainin/Papaliguan/Papadedein/Lalaruin/Papatulugin/Papalitan ng diaper/Papainum ng tubig/vitamins/Ipapasyal)
โ€ข Maglilinis ng mga laruan ng bata.
โ€ข Mag-sisideline kung kaya pa ng oras.

Odiba, Nagbasa ka lang napagod ka na agad.
Hindi lang 'to basta mag-aalaga ng anak. Isa itong obligasyon bilang isang Ina at asawa. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Sa sobrang dami mong kailangang gawin, need mo maging magaling sa "Time management", Dapat mabilis ka kumilos, Dapat attentive ka. Bawal ang tamad pero pwede magpahinga.

Pero syempre sa loob ng isang araw maswerte ka na kung makapagpahinga ka ng maaga.

That's why "being a full-time mom isn't easy, but it's definitely worth it."

ษช แด„สœแดแด๊œฑแด‡ แด˜แด‡แด€แด„แด‡ แดแด แด‡ส€ แด€ษดสแด›สœษชษดษข. ๐Ÿ’ซI am a people pleaser back then, I don't want other people to hate me, to judge me withou...
06/05/2025

ษช แด„สœแดแด๊œฑแด‡ แด˜แด‡แด€แด„แด‡ แดแด แด‡ส€ แด€ษดสแด›สœษชษดษข. ๐Ÿ’ซ

I am a people pleaser back then, I don't want other people to hate me, to judge me without any particular reason, I always talk, I always explain my side. I just wanted people to like me, to value me, to appreciate me, to accept me with all I am to the point that I am loosing myself na pala pleasing everyone & dati kase feeling ko it was the healthiest thing to do, Yung walang drama, no negative energy, walang judgment, just full of fun. Akala ko pag-kinausap ko na yung tao, pag kinompronta ko na sila dun na natatapos lahat.

I was wrong pala. I was wrong in believing that everyone & everything needs my attention.

So, getting older I realized, It's okay. It's okay to feel sad, It's okay if other people don't like you, It's okay to ignore, to not giving your full attention especially to unnecessary drama, to not give your full energy to everyone or to anything. Because life goes on, Even without you or without them.

That's why I prayed. I prayed hard & talk to God everything. He listened. He understood. He guide me to the right path, He eliminates those people that is not good for me, He gave me another chance to start over. To be the happiest version of myself, to have peace.

During my late 20's it makes sense, It all makes sense. Dun ko lang napagtanto lahat na; Ay! Kaya pala nangyare to, nangyare yan, kaya pala nawala to, nawala yan kase may rason. You just have to accept it, to embrace it, to feel everything for your own sake din naman, for your future self. And now, I am the happiest & I have my peace in my heart.

That is the reason why I am protecting my inner peace at all cost. Kase ilang taon bago ko 'to na-claim. Dugo't-pawis, Kailangan sobrang tapang mo. And it's all worth it. ๐Ÿค

05/05/2025

For me, Take this as an advice kung ayaw nyo edi wag Hahahahahaahha

If may mali sa ginagawa ng asawa nyo, Talk to her/him in private, wag nyo tigilan hanggat di naggets anong mali sa ginagawa nya kesa panay kayo post. Isa yan sa nakakasira ng relasyon lalo ng pamilya. Mas maraming nakakaalam, mas maraming nakikialam, try to communicate kase ako naniniwala ako na lahat nadadaan sa maayos na usapan kase kayo dapat umaayos nyan hindi mga friends nyo sa fb makikisawsaw lang mga yan tapos papayuhan kayo na "magbreak!" Hahahahahahahaha ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿคฃ

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I got 10 reactions and comments on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! ๐ŸŽ‰
05/05/2025

I got 10 reactions and comments on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! ๐ŸŽ‰

Stay hydrated ๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿคฃ
04/05/2025

Stay hydrated ๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿคฃ

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