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26/11/2025

“A real husband knows when to speak up — lalo na kapag asawa na niya ang nasasaktan.”

Hindi porket pamilya mo ang nagsalita, ayos lang na balewalain ang pambabastos sa asawa mo.
Hindi porket nanay, kapatid, o kamag-anak mo ang nagbitaw ng masakit na salita, ay mananahimik ka na lang.

Being a husband means choosing your wife, defending her, and standing by her — even when it’s hard.
Yes, even when it’s your own family.

Maraming lalaki ang pinipiling manahimik.
“Hayaan mo na,”
“Ganun lang talaga sila,”
“Masanay ka na.”

Pero tandaan mo, hindi responsibilidad ng asawa mo ang tiisin ang disrespect.
Responsibilidad mo ang protektahan siya — emotionally, mentally, at lalo na sa mga taong pwedeng makasakit sa kanya.

Ang pag-asawa ay hindi lang sweet moments at lambingan.
Kasama d’yan ang pagiging panangga.
You are her shield, her voice, and her safe place.
Kapag ikaw mismo ang unang-unang hindi kakampi sa asawa mo, sino pa?

Your silence is not neutral. Minsan, it’s betrayal.

Hindi mo kailangan makipag-away.
Pero kailangan mong magsalita.
Kailangan mong ipakita na asawa mo siya — hindi pwedeng apak-apakan ng kahit sino, kahit pa kadugo mo.

At sa mga asawa rin, deserve n’yong ipaglaban.
Deserve n’yong pumanig ang taong pinili n’yong makasama habangbuhay.

Choose her. Speak for her. Stand with her. Always.

~ ~ ~

26/11/2025

❌You should never speak ill about your wife to anyone then expect your wife to respect you.‼️

The moment you speak something negative about your wife to another woman, you're opening the door for an affair.

You're showing the gap in your marriage, and that woman can easily step in and fill it.

You say you don't feel appreciated by your wife? This woman now specialises in praising you.

You say your wife is always complaining? This woman becomes a specialist at complimenting you.

You say your wife gives you no peace? Voila! You now have a new comforter, always looking at you with tender eyes.

You may think you found a shoulder to lean on when you just opened a door to the abyss.

Starting affairs is easy, but stopping them is messy because the new person has their own expectations, and they don't always agree to be used and dropped like a tissue paper.

You may be thinking about the stress you're experiencing in your marriage, while they're thinking about the resource you are to their survival.

Most people who ruin their marriages don't intend to in the beginning. They just opened a small door without knowing how many evils would enter their lives through it.

It's always better to handle your issues with your spouse themselves or go to a therapist. Venting to a colleague at work or a female friend is a recipe for disaster.

26/11/2025

* * * When a mother * * *

A woman will never forget the time you stole from her during the most sacred stages of motherhood. If all she needed was love, care and support but was met with pain, neglect, and trauma - she may carry that forever. Because you didn't just hurt her... you robbed her of moments she'll never get back. Moments that were meant to be tender, not traumatic. And that kind of pain is hard to forgive.

The memories of those moments will linger, a constant reminder of what could have been. The exhaustion, the vulnerability, the joy and the fear - all overshadowed by your absence, your neglect, and your selfishness. The bond that could have been strengthened, the trust that could have been built, was instead broken, leaving scars that may never fully heal.

You robbed her of the chance to experience the beauty of motherhood without the weight of trauma. You took from her the opportunity to cherish those moments, to bask in the love and the wonder of it all. And for that, she may never be able to forgive. Not because she's vengeful, but because the pain is too deep, the loss too profound.

28/06/2025

You were a poem
read by someone
who never understood metaphors.

They held your pages,
but skipped your meaning.

They heard your words,
but never felt them.

You spoke in depth,
and they listened on the surface.

It wasn’t that you were too much,

you were just never meant
to be understood
by someone who only reads
to finish,

not to feel.😢

Masasanay ka din.
13/06/2025

Masasanay ka din.

Mahalin mo ang asawa mo higit sa pagmamahal mo sa mga barkada mo! dahil sa oras na dumaan ka sa mabigat na problema, asa...
24/05/2025

Mahalin mo ang asawa mo higit sa pagmamahal mo sa mga barkada mo! dahil sa oras na dumaan ka sa mabigat na problema, asawa mo lang ang aalalay sayo hanggang dulo!

I want to be Loved in a way I won't hurtand I wont to be worryctto📷
22/05/2025

I want to be Loved in a way I won't hurt
and I wont to be worry

ctto📷

I may not know everything but I know the energy. I know when it's genuine. I know when it's strange and I know when it s...
22/05/2025

I may not know everything but I know the energy. I know when it's genuine. I know when it's strange and I know when it shifts.

ctto📷

22/05/2025

In a relationship there are always 3 phases or stages.

📌The first is where everything is happiness, everything is nice words, there are no problems and everything is going well.

📌The second is when you start to know the imperfections of the person, meaningless fights start, (this stage is the most difficult since they are not always willing to fix things and that is why they quit).

📌And finally, the third is the most beautiful; when you really fall in love, and you see their perfect imperfections, when they know how to fix problems without the need for yelling or hurtful words, when you really learn to love.

Don’t fight over a man. If he’s showing interest in someone else, let him go. You deserve someone who is fully committed...
22/05/2025

Don’t fight over a man. If he’s showing interest in someone else, let him go. You deserve someone who is fully committed to you.

A truly good man will make you his priority, respect you, and set boundaries to protect your relationship.

You're not meant to fix a man who cheats. You can't make someone stay faithful, they have to choose to be because they respect and love you. If he doesn't, he’s not worth your time.

Yes💯
22/05/2025

Yes💯

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22/05/2025

Para sa asawa mong tambay sa banyo para di mainip😏

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