30/01/2026
PSA and POV
I was supposed to post it yesterday, but I was trying to muster up my thoughts and feels from what happened.
Jan 29, around 12:41pm, three of my officemates and I just had lunch at this mall (Robinsons Galleria) and we were on our way back to office. We were walking at the pedestrian crossing when a car was sooooo close to hitting me. So close that I was just inches away from being bumped by the car’s front.
Before we attempted to cross on the other side, we were looking sideways to check if there are no vehicles close enough to pass. And since we saw the vehicles were still far from us, we crossed. There were also two folks we don’t know who crossed along with us. However, I was the one close to the side of the vehicles so if any vehicle would attempt to hit, I will be the first to feel it.
Going back, this particular vehicle for sure saw us that we were already crossing, but he pumped up the gas thinking we would move back and let him pass. If I was crossing in the wrong lane, I might have done that. But I know and it’s so obvious that path looks like a pedestrian crossing, so we walked. Good riddance, he stepped on that break and it worked, cause if not, he could have brought someone that time at the Medical City or we might have ended at the police station.
Back in the office, my colleagues were even telling me I should have hit the car’s hood or screamed, but no. All I said with my angry face “what the f*** was that?”.
Last night, in my mind, I was thankful that God never allowed it to happen. He knows how much there is still the need to keep going for myself, my family and the people who could be part of my life. At the same time, of course, I got scared and worried if the other scenario could have happened. There was also a part of me that got reminded anything can happen to us and there’s uncertainties. Thus, we really have to make the most out of our lives, despite hardships.
However, there’s also a society related thought lingering in my head. From the situations I have been seeing here in social media, it’s just somehow disappointing that our country could’ve been at par with others if 1) there aren’t greedy, corrupt officials and 2) if the majority of the masses are disciplined enough to abide by simple rules or laws. Sadly, discipline or proper decorum isn’t a habit to majority here in this country. The ones calling it out are the ones being called out. There are those who even defend such nuiances…I will go thru this further soon. For now, correlating to my experience yesterday, the fact that driver should have already slowed down, seeing pedestrians crossing at the ‘proper’ lane, he could have slowed down and waited for us to cross. Not to stop just because in that split second he realized he could have harmed a family’s breadwinner (supporting 2 senior citizens) and friends’ or colleagues’ confidant.
So to that driver of the car NCU7148, wala sanang makaexperience sa mga malalapit sayo nung muntik mo nang iparanas saken. Get your act together every time you will drive. I will keep the other thoughts to myself…
For commuters or pedestrians, make sure to follow the simple rules like walking on pedestrian crossings or lanes (kahit kairita yung ibang LGU’s na ndi maayos ang lanes and crossings sa areas nila).