27/03/2024
12 THINGS YOU MUST DO AS SOON AS YOU GET MARRIED 🤵👰
There are many things an unmarried person will do and go away with, but once you are married, it comes with repercussions that will hurt your marriage dearly and hurt people in your life. So once married, you must do the following:
1. STOP SPENDING TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X ALONE:
Once you are married, you need to stop hanging out with the opposite s*x. No matter how innocent this may look, it will hurt the one to whom you are married and may even lead you into an illicit relationship that will hurt your marriage. As a rule, avoid the opposite s*x once married; it's a great way to honour your marriage vow and show respect to your spouse.
2. STOP FLIRTING:
Don’t ever flirt with anybody once married; don’t play with anybody’s emotions; you may not come out of it without hurting somebody.
3. CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH YOUR EX.
Break all contact with old boyfriends or girlfriends. You may need to delete some numbers; you may need to unfollow some people on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. This shows that you are responsible and truly committed to your marriage vow.
4. STOP NIGHT CHATTING
Stop night chatting with anybody, male or female; if you must do it, it must be with the permission of your spouse, and that must be very important, and it must not happen often.
5. NEVER TAKE OFF YOUR WEDDING RING:
Always put on your wedding ring; it shows you are responsible, committed to your marriage, and ready to be faithful.
6. NEVER HIDE THINGS FROM YOUR SPOUSE.
You are to be totally open and vulnerable to your spouse. No secrecy, no darkroom, no hidden agenda.
7. FLEE FROM P**N:
Though p**n is bad for everybody, it is worse for a married man or woman to be hooked on p**n. P**n addiction had destroyed many homes. People fled from p**n.
8. NEVER SPEND UNACCOUNTED TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X:
Infidelity is not just about sleeping with someone else; it begins when you begin to spend time with the opposite s*x, which must not be open to your spouse.
9. FLEE CLUBBING:
There is nothing beneficial in clubbing for a married man or woman; no matter your explanation for it, clubbing will hurt your marriage dearly.
10. AVOID ALCOHOL:
Flee from alcoholic drinks; it hurts marriage and encourages s*xual infidelity and violence in marriage.
11. AVOID NIGHT CRAWLING:
Evening is family time. Get back to your home in the evening; returning home by midnight or 1:00 am does not show you are responsible; it will hurt your marriage.
12. NEVER HAVE S*X WITH ANYONE ELSE:
In marriage, you are only permitted to sleep with your wife or husband; you are not permitted to sleep with anybody else. Once you begin to sleep with anyone other than your spouse, it begins to hurt your marriage, even if your spouse is not aware of it.
REMEMBER: When we are in marriage, it's a big advantage to be a couple to avoid those 12 tips that kill your happiness. So, these would be the guidelines for us if you want a happy relationship. Also, pray always with the help of our Almighty Loving God, and we won't fail in marriage life. God bless us all.