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22/08/2026

Things I realized in my late 20s

Lately, I’ve been realizing that growing up is actually kind of weird.

When I was younger, I thought by this age, I’d have everything figured out.

A stable career.
Enough money.
A clear direction in life.
Maybe even a little house and a family.

But now that I’m here… I honestly don’t know what I’m doing half the time.

And I’ve realized that’s okay.

I realized that not everyone I started with will still be beside me.

Some friendships become distant.
Some people leave without any big fight.
And sometimes, you just outgrow each other.

I realized that I don’t have to say yes to everything anymore.

I can say no.
I can change my mind.
I can choose peace without feeling guilty about it.

I also realized that everyone is on a different timeline.

Someone I know might already be successful while I’m still trying to figure things out.

And honestly? Good for them.

Their progress doesn’t mean I’m failing.

I’m learning to stop comparing my behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel.

And maybe the biggest thing I’ve learned…

I don’t need to have my whole life figured out right now.

I’m still learning.
I’m still making mistakes.
I’m still changing my mind.

And maybe that’s what your late 20s are supposed to look like.

Not having everything together… but slowly figuring out what actually matters to you.

So if you’re in your late 20s and you feel like you’re behind— same.

Maybe we’re not behind.

Maybe we’re just taking our time. 🤍

— Mellow Pages

03/04/2026

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21/09/2025

What is the stand of the Armed Forces of the Philippines when there is corruption happening? Is it loyal to the state, or the government?

Let’s break it down using the Constitution, doctrine, and history.

1. The AFP is loyal to the State, not just the Government

According to Article II, Section 3 of the 1987 Philippine Constitution:

“The Armed Forces of the Philippines is the protector of the people and the State.”
“Its goal is to secure the sovereignty of the State and the integrity of the national territory.”

This wording is deliberate.
• The State is permanent — it includes the people, territory, sovereignty, and government.
• The Government is the temporary leadership — the current administration or elected officials.

So when the Constitution says the AFP is the “protector of the people and the State”, it means the AFP is not just a tool of whoever is in power. Its allegiance is to the Filipino people and the principles of democracy.

2. When corruption happens, the AFP is expected to protect the people and the Constitution

Corruption — especially when systemic — can threaten:
• The integrity of public service
• National security
• Public trust in government

In such cases, the AFP must side with the State and the Constitution, even if it means investigating or acting against members of the current government.

Historically:
• During the EDSA People Power Revolution (1986), top military officials (like Gen. Fidel V. Ramos and Defense Secretary Juan Ponce Enrile) withdrew support from the Marcos regime, citing corruption and abuse. They chose to support the people and democratic institutions, not the government in power.

3. Legal doctrine: AFP must remain apolitical, but uphold constitutional order

The AFP is bound by law to:
• Remain non-partisan
• Not engage in political activities
• But still intervene to uphold constitutional order, especially if the government acts outside legal bounds (e.g. a coup, or state-sponsored corruption)

This balance is delicate. The military should not interfere in politics, but must refuse unlawful orders or participation in corrupt activities.

4. So where does the AFP stand when corruption is happening?

The AFP should:
• Investigate and hold its own personnel accountable
• Support constitutional mechanisms (COA, Ombudsman, courts)
• Refuse to protect corrupt officials if doing so violates law or endangers the people

The AFP should NOT:
• Serve blindly under a corrupt administration
• Be used to silence whistleblowers or civil society
• Stage a coup or act unconstitutionally in the name of “cleansing” the government

Final Thought:

When there is corruption, the AFP’s role is to protect the Filipino people and the democratic State — even if that means standing against corrupt individuals in government.

Its loyalty is to the Constitution, not to any politician or party.

If you’re looking for a concise thesis-like statement, here it is:

“In times of corruption, the Armed Forces of the Philippines must uphold its constitutional duty to the people and the State, not the transient interests of any corrupt government or official. Its ultimate loyalty lies with the rule of law, democratic principles, and national integrity.”

08/07/2025

Some people will keep poking.
Keep testing your peace. Keep showing up in ways that feel heavy, loud, and unnecessary.

But here’s the thing:
• Not everything deserves a reaction.
• Not every energy needs to be matched.
• Not every situation requires your presence.

When you’re rooted in who you are, you don’t have to explain, argue, or defend your peace.

You just protect it.

So if they keep bothering you,

That’s on them.

If you stop responding,

That’s power.

You don’t owe anyone chaos just because they’re uncomfortable with your calm.

Stay grounded.
Stay soft.
Stay unshaken.

𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘺,
𝘢𝘶𝘳𝘢 ❤︎

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