16/10/2025
NO WOMAN just wakes up and decides to be distant, cold, guarded, or TOXIC. That attitude you see? That tone in her voice? That wall she built? It came from somewhere. From betrayal. From being lied to, disrespected, and let down TOO many times. Women are naturally loving and soft, but if you keep HURTING someone who only wanted to love you right, don't be surprised when that love becomes PROTECTED.
The walls she built aren't just barriers; they're shields forged from the pain of past battles. Each brick is a memory, a scar, a tear shed for someone who didn't deserve her love. The thorns she wears aren't just for protection; they're a warning sign, a message to those who'd dare to hurt her again. She's not cold; she's cautious, having learned that love can be a double-edged sword.
You might see her strength as a facade, but it's actually her resilience. She's been through the storm and emerged stronger, wiser, and more discerning. She's not the same naive, loving person she once was; she's a warrior, battle-hardened and fiercely protective of her heart.
Don't mistake her guardedness for weakness. It's a sign of her intelligence, her ability to recognize the signs of danger. She's been hurt before, but she won't let it define her. Instead, she'll use those experiences to build a fortress around her heart, ensuring that the next person who tries to hurt her will face a formidable opponent.
So, if you're looking to get close to her, be patient, be genuine, and be willing to earn her trust. It won't be easy, but it'll be worth it. She might just surprise you with her depth, her passion, and her love. But if you're not willing to put in the effort, don't be surprised when she shows you the door. She's not looking for players; she's looking for someone who'll love her like she deserves.