01/07/2025
Stop settling for lazy men.
Stop settling for a lazy love.
You weren’t meant to carry it all. Not the house. Not the kids. Not the mental load. Not all alone.
You deserve a man who doesn’t call parenting “babysitting.” A man who doesn’t think helping around the house is a favor. A man who sees it as his responsibility, because he’s in it with you.
You deserve love that looks like..
“You cooked, I’ll clean.”
“I’ve got breakfast today, go sleep in.”
“Let me take the kids, you go breathe.”
“What needs to get done? We can do it together.”
I see those posts every day.
“I wish I could sleep like my husband.”
“I’m tired of doing it all.”
“I feel like a single parent, with a partner.”
“I just want help.”
Well, I’m here to tell you, you are not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong man.
The right man will be there to help out in all the ways you need, except he won’t even see it as helping. He will see it as him pulling his weight.
You will not have to beg for it.
You will not have to feel alone in raising your children.
You will not feel alone in the housework, bills, or cooking.
You will feel validated, loved, and understood.
You deserve a quiet morning where someone else is already up with the kids, just letting you rest.
You deserve to hear “you cooked, I’ll clean”.
You deserve to hear “you did the kids baths last night, I’ll do it tonight”.
You deserve to hear “I know it’s been a long day with the kids, so I made us dinner reservations” on a random Wednesday night.
You deserve to be doing the laundry, see him come in with music blasting on the speaker, and him saying “let’s finish this up together”.
You deserve to walk into the kitchen and see him cooking.
You deserve to walk out on a Sunday morning and see him making pancakes for you and the kids.
You deserve to never feel like you’re begging for him to be an active husband and father.
And I promise you. It exists.
Stop settling for lazy men. 🤎🤎