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25/10/2024

Helping a friend TOP URGENT!
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21/09/2024

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05/08/2024

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25/07/2024

10 lessons from the book "The Difference Between Advising and Shaming" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie highlights the distinctions between constructive feedback and harmful criticism.

1. Intent Matters: Advising aims to help and support the person, while shaming intends to belittle and demean. The motivation behind the words significantly impacts how they are received.

2. Respect and Dignity: Effective advice respects the recipient's dignity and self-worth. Shaming, on the other hand, undermines a person's sense of value and can cause emotional harm.

3. Constructive vs. Destructive: Advising provides constructive feedback that can lead to improvement and growth. Shaming is destructive and often leaves the person feeling worse about themselves without a clear path forward.

4. Focus on Behavior, Not Person: Advising addresses specific behaviors or actions and suggests ways to improve them. Shaming attacks the person's character or identity, making it personal and hurtful.

5. Empathy and Understanding: Good advice comes from a place of empathy and understanding. It considers the person's circumstances and feelings. Shaming lacks empathy and often ignores the individual's context.

6. Encouragement vs. Discouragement: Advising encourages and motivates the person to do better. It is supportive and uplifting. Shaming discourages and can lead to a decrease in self-esteem and motivation.

7. Long-term Impact: Advising fosters a positive long-term impact, building trust and encouraging continuous improvement. Shaming can have long-lasting negative effects, damaging relationships and causing emotional scars.

These lessons highlight the importance of delivering feedback with care, empathy, and respect to support and uplift others, rather than tearing them down.

01/04/2024

HOW TO HANDLE QUARREL IN MARRIAGE

The best for your marriage is not to quarrel at all. But if you must quarrel, you must learn to fight fairly, please bear the following in mind:

1. No physical combat; leave that to garage boys.

2. No foul language.

3. No threat of divorce or separation.

4. No condemnation, criticism or comparison of your spouse with other people.

5. Avoid referring to previous quarrels.

6. Speak the truth in love without shouting.

7. Do not reveal the secrets of your spouse to outsiders.

8. No silence treatment. Keep on talking in love to your partner until you can resolve the issue.

9. Self-blame system. Avoid blaming your spouse. Rather, note where you were wrong; do not be blind to your errors. No self-righteousness because it takes two to tango. Accept your mistakes humbly.

10. Apologize generously to your spouse.

11. Break the ice of malice.

12. Think positively about your spouse and marriage; no thought of divorce or separation.

13. Forgive when you are hurt.

14. Use the auto-suggestion system. Speak positively to yourself about your spouse. You can say something like this: “David (call your name), why do you fight your wife? You have nothing to gain. Why can’t you stop quarrelling and give peace a chance and let the Holy Spirit take control in this house?” Repeating positive statements like this will release your heart from anger and bitterness and give room for easy reconciliation.

QUARRELLING RULES

Couples should prepare adequately to handle quarrels by setting certain rules for themselves. These should be put in place when there is no quarrel and both parties should adhere to them. Some of them are:

1. Never to go to bed unless you have settled your dispute.

2. Never to report yourselves to third parties, except to a trained pastor or marriage counsellor.

3. Never to shout or hit each other no matter what happens.

4. Continue to eat together and sleep in the same room no matter what happens.

5. Continue to love each other even during a crisis.

6. Make family altar a must, no matter what happens.

7. Always call for reconciliation when there is a dispute.

8. Always report each other to God.

9. Always suspend any disagreement when children or visitors are around.

10. Do all your “battles” in your bedroom but in love. Don't quarrel in public

11. Let the man have the final say but the wife should be allowed to talk and influence the man, while the man must listen and consider the wife’s point of view.

As you adhere to these guidelines, I pray grace to enjoy your marriage rest upon you in Jesus Name.

God bless you!

© Bisi Adewale

27/03/2024

6 REALIZATIONS WORKING ABROAD:

1. YOU CAN’T GO HOME ANYTIME YOU WANT.
Akala ng iba ayaw mo lang umuwi kasi nag eenjoy ka na sa ibang bansa. Pero madami dapat i-consider hindi lang ang “pamasahe”. Kung pwede nga lang every 6 months umuwi or more.

2. IT IS TIRING AND EXHAUSTING BUT YOU NEED TO KEEP GOING.
Pero kapag kausap sila dapat masigla ka o masaya. They can tell their problem but sometimes, you cannot tell your own problem kasi ayaw mo sila mag-alala. “Keep going” is no longer an option, it is now an obligation.

3. TRUST FEW PEOPLE. (I WOULD NOT SUGGEST THE OLD SAYINGS “TRUST NO ONE”)
Real friends, real people are “heaven-sent angels” in different images. It is hard to give your trust to strangers, kahit kabayan pa, but when you meet real ones, treasure them. People come and go, but real ones stay.

4. HOMESICK AND OVERTHINK HAPPENS FREQUENTLY.
Pano sila, pano siya, pero hindi mo minsan matanong pano naman ako? Some souls cry and suffer silently and it is hard to overcome overnight. Too many things are rumbling in your mind: existential crisis, chasing dreams, getting older, and your family’s situation.

5. BEING ALONE MOST OF THE TIME.
There are times na wala kang support system kundi sarili mo lang. You are afraid to get sick, you are afraid to fail, you are afraid to break into pieces. Even though it is hard, always hold yourself together and take care of yourself.

6. PRAYER WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR UNSPOKEN MESSAGES.
Whether you are religious or not, we always want to speak what’s on our minds- our cries, our rants, our plans. The only safe place to send our messages is through prayer 🙏🏻☝🏼.

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20/03/2024

𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐍𝐀 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐋𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐈𝐃 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭.

Pursuant to BSP Memorandum No. M-2016-019, please be informed that the Professional Identification Card (ID card) issued by the Maritime Industry Authority (MARINA) is considered as a photo-bearing ID document issued by an official authority. This is comparable in quality with those issued by the Government Service Insurance System (GSIS), Social Security System (SSS), and Land Transportation Office (LTO), and eligible to facilitate financial transactions for the holders of MARINA issued ID card.

The MARINA Professional License ID also qualifies as Republic Act (RA) 1080 eligibility, equivalent to a Career Service Eligibility.

In case any commercial bank refuses to recognize MARINA Professional License ID as a photo bearing identification card, you may refer them to the cited BSP Memorandum. Alternatively, you may inform us through e-mail at [email protected] or the BSP of the name of the bank.

For information and guidance.

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20/03/2024