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26/05/2026

Helping A Friend
URGENT HIRING
Chief Officer
2nd Engineer
3rd Engineer
ETO
3rd Officer
Pumpman
Bosun
With Crude Oil Tanker experience
Just PM me.
No fees to be collected

07/12/2025

Helping a friend
Urgent Hiring

3 Chief Cook with Greek cuisine experience
15 Oilers with US Visa

No fees to be collected...
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13/10/2025

12/10/2025

Positions fade. Titles shift.
But how you make people feel? That lasts.

In a world obsessed with status, clout, and followers, it’s easy to forget the basics.
But the truth is, none of that matters if you treat people poorly along the way.

You might be someone’s boss today and their employee tomorrow.
You might be “up” this season and learning the hard lessons in the next.
Life is fluid. And roles are always rotating.

But kindness? Respect? Integrity?
That stuff echoes.
People remember when you showed up for them.
They remember how you made them feel safe, seen, or valued, even when you didn’t have to.

You don’t need a title to lead.
You don’t need a platform to make an impact.
Sometimes the most powerful influence is quiet, consistent character.

So here’s a gentle reminder: Power isn’t who’s above who, it’s how you treat people when you don’t need anything from them.

Honor the human.
Not the position.
Because who you are when nobody’s watching… that’s the real legacy.

💯 Be the person people speak about with gratitude, not relief.

10/09/2025

URGENT!!!
Looking for ETO with Tanker Experience
Salary Offer $7k/month
With complete onhand and valid documents
No fees to be collected
Just helping a friend.
Just message me...

25/10/2024

Helping a friend TOP URGENT!
Looking for 3rd Officer
OilChem Experience
Joining this end of October or 1st week of November
Please DM ASAP

21/09/2024

See you at SMX Convention Center, Pasay City

05/08/2024

Helping a friend...
Hiring for AB and OS
- Oilchem tanker and international experience
- complete and onhand documents
For those interested, pls message the following:
Full Name:
Birth Date:
MISMO SRN:
Vessel Type Exp.:
Present Rank/Position:
Months of Exp. in Rank:
Last Vessel GRT:
Higher License:
Last Agency:
Previous Salary:
Availability:
Contact Number:
Email Address:
Present Location:
All Docs On-hand and Valid?
US Visa Validity:
Medication/Maintenance:
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25/07/2024

10 lessons from the book "The Difference Between Advising and Shaming" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie highlights the distinctions between constructive feedback and harmful criticism.

1. Intent Matters: Advising aims to help and support the person, while shaming intends to belittle and demean. The motivation behind the words significantly impacts how they are received.

2. Respect and Dignity: Effective advice respects the recipient's dignity and self-worth. Shaming, on the other hand, undermines a person's sense of value and can cause emotional harm.

3. Constructive vs. Destructive: Advising provides constructive feedback that can lead to improvement and growth. Shaming is destructive and often leaves the person feeling worse about themselves without a clear path forward.

4. Focus on Behavior, Not Person: Advising addresses specific behaviors or actions and suggests ways to improve them. Shaming attacks the person's character or identity, making it personal and hurtful.

5. Empathy and Understanding: Good advice comes from a place of empathy and understanding. It considers the person's circumstances and feelings. Shaming lacks empathy and often ignores the individual's context.

6. Encouragement vs. Discouragement: Advising encourages and motivates the person to do better. It is supportive and uplifting. Shaming discourages and can lead to a decrease in self-esteem and motivation.

7. Long-term Impact: Advising fosters a positive long-term impact, building trust and encouraging continuous improvement. Shaming can have long-lasting negative effects, damaging relationships and causing emotional scars.

These lessons highlight the importance of delivering feedback with care, empathy, and respect to support and uplift others, rather than tearing them down.

01/04/2024

HOW TO HANDLE QUARREL IN MARRIAGE

The best for your marriage is not to quarrel at all. But if you must quarrel, you must learn to fight fairly, please bear the following in mind:

1. No physical combat; leave that to garage boys.

2. No foul language.

3. No threat of divorce or separation.

4. No condemnation, criticism or comparison of your spouse with other people.

5. Avoid referring to previous quarrels.

6. Speak the truth in love without shouting.

7. Do not reveal the secrets of your spouse to outsiders.

8. No silence treatment. Keep on talking in love to your partner until you can resolve the issue.

9. Self-blame system. Avoid blaming your spouse. Rather, note where you were wrong; do not be blind to your errors. No self-righteousness because it takes two to tango. Accept your mistakes humbly.

10. Apologize generously to your spouse.

11. Break the ice of malice.

12. Think positively about your spouse and marriage; no thought of divorce or separation.

13. Forgive when you are hurt.

14. Use the auto-suggestion system. Speak positively to yourself about your spouse. You can say something like this: “David (call your name), why do you fight your wife? You have nothing to gain. Why can’t you stop quarrelling and give peace a chance and let the Holy Spirit take control in this house?” Repeating positive statements like this will release your heart from anger and bitterness and give room for easy reconciliation.

QUARRELLING RULES

Couples should prepare adequately to handle quarrels by setting certain rules for themselves. These should be put in place when there is no quarrel and both parties should adhere to them. Some of them are:

1. Never to go to bed unless you have settled your dispute.

2. Never to report yourselves to third parties, except to a trained pastor or marriage counsellor.

3. Never to shout or hit each other no matter what happens.

4. Continue to eat together and sleep in the same room no matter what happens.

5. Continue to love each other even during a crisis.

6. Make family altar a must, no matter what happens.

7. Always call for reconciliation when there is a dispute.

8. Always report each other to God.

9. Always suspend any disagreement when children or visitors are around.

10. Do all your “battles” in your bedroom but in love. Don't quarrel in public

11. Let the man have the final say but the wife should be allowed to talk and influence the man, while the man must listen and consider the wife’s point of view.

As you adhere to these guidelines, I pray grace to enjoy your marriage rest upon you in Jesus Name.

God bless you!

© Bisi Adewale