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Sablayeña. In the rush of life, we sometimes forget to pause. This page is your reminder to take a breath, embrace beauty, and find joy in the little things.

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Lately, I’ve lost friends to tragic accidents. They weren’t the ones being careless. They were simply in the wrong place...
22/07/2025

Lately, I’ve lost friends to tragic accidents. They weren’t the ones being careless. They were simply in the wrong place, at the wrong time. It’s never “just one drink.” It’s never “just a quick drive home.” Too often, it's the innocent who pay the price.

You may have made it home safe, but have you ever thought about the emotional wreckage trailing behind you?

AN OPEN LETTER TO THOSE WHO DRINK TOO MUCH.

You say it’s harmless. You say you deserve the fun. You say it’s your way of coping.

But while you drown your worries in alcohol, someone who loves you is choking on fear.

Every drink you take, every hour you go silent, is a blade twisting in the heart of someone waiting, wondering if this is the night they lose you.

You step out thinking, "I need this." "I’ll be fine." "I can still drive."

But you don’t see the sleepless body curled on the couch. The red-eyed stare at the clock. The parent sitting by the door, whispering prayers into the wind. The panic building with every unanswered call. You don’t feel the dread that your next moment of “fun” could become their lifetime of regret.

You arrive late. Drunk. Oblivious. And you expect softness. You demand patience. You want affection from the very person whose peace you just shattered.

LET THIS SINK IN: Your drinking isn't just a vice. It's emotional abuse in disguise.

You’re not “just blowing off steam.” You’re gambling with someone else’s sanity. You’re trading their calm for your chaos. You’re forcing them to carry a fear they never asked for.

And when they finally speak up, when they cry, plead, shake in exhaustion, you call them nagging, dramatic, too emotional?

No. They are HUMAN. And you? You are selfish for ignoring their pain.

Good partner? Provider? Sweet when sober? It doesn’t matter.
If you choose another bottle over their peace, you’re choosing destruction wrapped in denial.

To the ones who drink too much: Grow up. Stop hiding behind excuses and start looking at the wreckage you cause.

And to the silent sufferers, the ones who stay, hope, and cry in the dark: Your pain is valid. Your boundaries are sacred. Your peace is not negotiable.

Real love protects. Real love shows up sober. Real love never asks you to trade your sanity for someone else's thrill.

You are doing what love looks like when it's tired... but still shows up.
04/07/2025

You are doing what love looks like when it's tired... but still shows up.

Stillness is allowed. So if today feels like one of those days when motion isn't necessary, that's perfectly valid. Rest...
16/06/2025

Stillness is allowed. So if today feels like one of those days when motion isn't necessary, that's perfectly valid. Rest, pause, breathe. The world will wait.

No need to rush, no need to make sense of it all at once. Healing from grief unfolds in its own time, in whatever way fe...
14/06/2025

No need to rush, no need to make sense of it all at once. Healing from grief unfolds in its own time, in whatever way feels right.

Hello, friends! These are for FREE. Fill your space with words that uplift, strengthen, and remind you of God’s faithful...
12/06/2025

Hello, friends! These are for FREE.

Fill your space with words that uplift, strengthen, and remind you of God’s faithfulness. These free desktop wallpapers aren’t just backgrounds - they’re gentle whispers of encouragement for every season.

Save the image or send me your email (drop it in the comments or a private message), and I’ll send it your way!

Planted with purpose, growing with grace. 🌱Life rarely unfolds exactly as we imagine. It shifts, redirects, and gently l...
12/06/2025

Planted with purpose, growing with grace. 🌱

Life rarely unfolds exactly as we imagine. It shifts, redirects, and gently leads us to places we never expected to be. Yet every step is intentional - every season, whether slow and quiet or uncertain and unsettling, is part of a greater design.

God plants us not randomly, but purposefully, in moments where we can learn, stretch, and deepen our roots. And when the time is right, when our hearts are prepared, when we have been strengthened, He moves us toward something even greater.

Bloom where you are, knowing His hands are carefully nurturing you, shaping you for a purpose beyond what you can see. 🌷

Happiness isn’t the absence of pain - it’s the presence of meaning. It's not about erasing hardships but embracing them ...
10/06/2025

Happiness isn’t the absence of pain - it’s the presence of meaning. It's not about erasing hardships but embracing them as part of your journey. It’s the quiet confidence that comes from knowing you've overcome, adapted, and grown.

-Sablayeña

In 2015, I moved to Sablayan. A place distant from the world I once knew. No close friends, just acquaintances. My world...
10/06/2025

In 2015, I moved to Sablayan. A place distant from the world I once knew. No close friends, just acquaintances. My world was my family.

Born and raised in Manila, I spent years surrounded by high-rise buildings that loomed over me, and the hurried movement of brisk-walking professionals set the pace of my days. That was my life - a structured, fast-moving world of ambition.

Then came the shift. Suddenly, the scenery changed. The towering skyline and city lights were replaced with wide farm fields, open skies, and a slower rhythm of life, refreshing yet unfamiliar. I left corporate work and stepped into government service, a world with processes I didn’t understand, jargon that felt foreign, and expectations I wasn’t sure I could meet.

I felt lost. Completely out of place. Uncertain. Unprepared.

That’s when I realized: it wasn’t just the work that intimidated me—it was fear of the unknown. I doubted whether I could excel here, unsure if I had what it took to thrive.

But fear, I learned, isn’t the enemy. It’s a signal, a push toward something greater. Instead of resisting it, I embraced it. As the saying goes, “Bloom where you are planted.”

I may not have understood government work at first, but I showed up. Learned. Adapted. Grew.

Now, ten years in Sablayan, I carry both happy and painful memories, each one shaping who I’ve become. The future? I still don’t know what it holds. But this time, I am no longer scared.

I finally understood what it means when they say: If you’re scared, DO IT SCARED. Because at the end of the day, what’s there to lose? If I stumble, at least I tried. If I fail, at least I gave my best performance.

And if I rise, I rise knowing I stepped into the unknown, UNAFRAID.

-Sablayeña

Have you ever felt like the world keeps rushing forward, but you just want to pause?-Sablayeña
09/06/2025

Have you ever felt like the world keeps rushing forward, but you just want to pause?

-Sablayeña

The moment we set them down, we make room for something lighter, something better.-Sablayeña
09/06/2025

The moment we set them down, we make room for something lighter, something better.
-Sablayeña

Happiness is never as elusive as we make it seem. It’s in the quiet mornings, the laughter shared over an old joke, the ...
09/06/2025

Happiness is never as elusive as we make it seem. It’s in the quiet mornings, the laughter shared over an old joke, the way sunlight filters through a window.

We complicate happiness by expecting it to arrive in grand gestures or perfect moments, when in reality, it’s already here—we just have to shift our perspective to see it. Sometimes, choosing happiness is simply choosing to recognize the beauty in what’s already ours.

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