Mommy Phoebe and Her Girls

08/04/2026

One thing I’m learning as a single parent…

Kindness matters.
Gentleness matters.
Being loved in a soft and caring way matters.

But I’ve also learned that… it’s not the only thing that sustains a relationship.

As a mother, I already carry a lot emotionally, mentally, and financially. And while it feels good to be loved, I also need a partner who can stand beside me in responsibility, not just in affection.

Someone who can lead when needed.

Someone accountable with actions, not just words.

Someone is responsible for decisions, especially in difficult times.

And someone who values transparency because trust is not just given, it is built through consistency and honesty.

I used to feel guilty for wanting that.
Like maybe I was asking for too much.

But now I understand..

It’s not about choosing between kindness and capability.

It’s about finding someone who can offer both.

Because love is not just how someone treats you on the good days…

It’s how they show up when life requires leadership, structure, and strength.

To my fellow single parents..
We can appreciate a good heart, while still choosing what is sustainable for our future.

That’s wisdom.💚

24/03/2026

Proud of you ate Khorra Abais💕

13/05/2025

Thank you to my star senders, his 2nd time sir Manny B. Torres 🥰 & my 3rd star sender, Ma'am Casey C Stone 🥰💐
God Bless you always. Babawi rin ako sa inyo soon.☺️🤩

07/05/2025

Thank you to my ever first star sender sir Manny B. Torres 🏆

06/05/2025

Pet peeve?
People with no sense of responsibility and accountability.
Kanang naanad na gyud og salig — so ang mindset kay "okay ra, kay naa bitaw mubuhat o mubayad ana para nako."

And also, kanang mga tao nga walay sensitivity sa do’s and don’ts sa ilang palibot.
Like, hello? Common sense and awareness sad unta gamay.

Sadly, this kind of attitude is common in all places. Looy lang ang mga taong tarong kay mao affected ani nga mga batasan.

Good evening!

06/05/2025

Prosperity?
Ayaw pag-expect kung wala kay financial planning, discipline, ug self-control. Wala pa gani kay na-earn nga kwarta gikan sa imong kaugalingong paningkamot, pero kusog kaayo mangayo sa uban. There's ambition, pero walay lihok—daydreaming ra na.

Prosperity?
Pangitaan sa effort, dili pangayoon!

Proverbs 10:4-5
4 a slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes the rich.
5 he who gathers in summer is a prodent son, but he who sleeps in harvest is a son who brings shame.

06/05/2025

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26/03/2025

I'm not okay, I need to run, plus Ramen, Korean food, coffee, milktea, 10M, house& lot, Ferrari, bring Liza home🤣