09/07/2026
Chapter 28: Choosing Me
Happy 28th Birthday, Benj.
Wow. We’re getting closer to 30.
First of all, how are you? How was being 27? Did you enjoy it?
Looking back, 27 wasn’t perfect. There were a lot of lessons, disappointments, happy moments, and surprises. Some days were heavy, and some days reminded you why life is still worth living. But no matter what happened, you made it here.
And I’m so proud of you.
Last year, you promised yourself that you would learn to love yourself more. One year later, I can honestly say you’ve come a long way. You’re not completely there yet, but you’re doing so much better than before. Keep choosing yourself. Keep protecting your peace. Keep loving the person you are becoming.
For your birthday this year, I don’t wish for expensive gifts. My birthday gift to you is clarity. I hope you become wiser in every decision you make. I hope you become financially smarter and learn to handle your money well. Remember, healing your inner child is important, but don’t forget to take care of your future too.
And one more thing—always choose the people who choose you. Life is too short to keep chasing people who don’t see your worth. The right people will never make you question your place in their lives.
This birthday is extra special because it’s my first time celebrating outside the Philippines. Celebrating my 28th birthday in Taiwan is something I’ll always remember. It was beautiful, unexpected, and filled with happy memories. I got to celebrate with my partner, Jez, his mom, Maris, and our family. We laughed, sang karaoke, and simply enjoyed being together. I couldn’t ask for a better way to welcome another year of life.
So here’s to 28.
May this be the year you become wiser, stronger, kinder to yourself, and more confident in the path you’re taking. Keep growing. Keep believing in yourself. Keep chasing the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Happy Birthday, Benj.
I love you.
Enjoy your twenties while they last. Make every year count.
📝: Thirdy