15/09/2025
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A Narcissist Would Rather Impress a Stranger Than Care for Their Own Family
One of the most painful realities of dealing with a narcissist is recognising where their priorities truly lie. Instead of investing energy into their family—the people who need them most—they are often more concerned with impressing strangers. A narcissist thrives on external validation. Compliments, admiration, and approval from others give them the ego boost they crave. Sadly, this comes at the expense of those closest to them.
At home, family members may experience neglect, criticism, or emotional distance, while outsiders see a charming, generous persona. The narcissist’s need to maintain this image means they put effort into appearances: buying gifts for acquaintances, showing off achievements, or going out of their way to look supportive in public. Meanwhile, their own family may feel invisible or unimportant.
This behaviour isn’t about love—it’s about control and image management. Strangers offer fresh admiration, while family members may see the cracks in their mask. For a narcissist, one source feeds their ego, while the other threatens it.
Recognising this pattern can be painful, but it also validates the reality many families face. Their neglect is not your fault—it’s a reflection of their need for attention at any cost.
For more information about understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse, click the links below.
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Check these out!
Behind The Mask: The Rise Of The Narcissist
https://a.co/d/czX7KT2
15 Rules To Deal With Narcissistic People.: How To Stay Sane And Break The Chain.
https://a.co/d/g4H2bxG
A Narcissists Handbook: The ultimate guide to understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C87NNBNP?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_dp_VKQZHN0VXE8W4WXTQQ20
Boundaries with Narcissists: Safeguarding Emotional, Psychological, and Physical Independence.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ583RL8
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: A Guided Journal for Recovery and Empowerment: Reclaim Your Identity, Build Self-Esteem, and Embrace a Brighter Future
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