23/07/2025
๐ง๐๐ ๐ข๐ฉ๐๐ฅ๐ช๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ โ ๐ฃ๐ข๐ฆ๐ง-๐๐ฅ๐๐๐จ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก.
It's indeed, a paradoxical mindset shift, before we intrusively said "how I wish I had already graduated" and after graduation there were uttering "I hoped I didn't graduate to soon." Life is always subjected to be understood โ wearing it's shoes of experience and walk a mile on it.
In a world of searching for settling down โ where the level of its pandemonium reigns unchecked, emotionally and mentally is not immobilized neither its effect is ephemeral โ the difficulties of adjusting, the pressure, the comparison, and figuring out how to respond โ all are overwhelming. Somehow, others settled themselves or easily found their path, and others are still searching. There are people who opt to rest for a span of time โ by not be affected by pressures and time, and there are also people who chose to start early their venture and navigate life's uncertain offers.
Life after graduation โ another journey awaits, different from past experiences. It's a peculiar yet adulting approach-based journey where maturity is incorporated and practicality should exercised. In the realm of expectation, pressure arises โ it's both an opportunity and motivation to trigger the drive to tap into one's natural potential.
Additionally, life after graduation is filled with unexpected surprises that cannot be halted nor dictated. It's a journey of no longer pursuing just wants, but meeting the needs that must be met. It's a life that no longer thinking yourself but including the situation of the people surrounds you โ especially your family.
Moreover, on the brighter side of it โ even thou it's a life that obliviously filled with complaints yet dominated with innate understanding and contributing to self-learning. It's with shoes who experiencing a mud path, a gloves touching different stem thorns, and a tree that got wet and dried, and wobbled by calamities โ led someone to develop courage in every battle arise, be resilient in whatever failure or defeat has come, and be empathetic in life's inevitable harsh circumstances.
At the end of the day it is in God's hand โ our fate that creates our life's itinerary, our time โ where our dedication shines as diamonds, our purpose โ living the life for us and in helping others.
Wait โ we have different time, appointed time distinctly for us.
Place โ a perfect place that our true potential naturally exudes.
Environment โ a therapeutic and filled with a supportive colleague.
Have patience and be empathetic. God has already planned something for us, we only need to wait and let God exudes His Omnipotence.