26/09/2025
The damage to the system is caused by external forces, as well as our own incompetencies and misbehaviors. We beat about the bushes, but neglect the of discord nourishing in our homes. Its bad smell has hypnotized the new generations, and they are expected to run away from the family system. I am going to write a few of them.
• Women’s filthy and muted rascality.
• The criminal silence of men.
• The full pressure of the family on a single .
• A well-stretched for a woman with a weak background.
• Immoral activities like tactics, conspiracies, showiness, hypocrisy, and jealousy.
• A peak-level comparison and contrast among children.
• An ignorant nature and the bitterness of seniors.
• The control of the home is in the hands of a powerful and uncivilized individual, who follows the rule of “might is right”.
• A practice of backbiting and talebearing.
• A war of personal interests.
Recently, some families in society have presented an image of international politics. One is America or Israel, some of them are spectators like Muslim countries, and one of them is a sycophant like India. They join each other and make someone like Palestine. The children of this Palestine are slaves of the rest. In schools, they look for such friends who absolutely lack a family system, and they all live in their own world. Some queens of these houses become activists on social media, and the rest, who have no access to social media, carry the same ideas of a feminist.. The boys from these houses find shelter abroad. An emerging trend among youth to go abroad is due to the agony they have experienced in their past.
Its solution doesn’t lie at the end of the family system. Its solution lies in introspection, self-accountability, responsibility for one's own temperament and behavior, a release from the psyche of oppression, and focus on what I can do for him. Instead of why doesn’t he understand? The ladies should become pious to relatives and get rid of the habit of bad blood. Men shouldn’t keep silent like culprits in houses. They should develop a fair environment. The ladies should not treat men merely as earning machines but treat them like the leaders of the house. The men should not take decisions on abetting women but under the light of Sharia. It’s mandatory to enforce sharia in homes with wisdom and insight. They have to learn the ABCs of Islamic knowledge and also make their ladies learn it. It not only requires knowledge but practice as well.
All of us should accept the importance and status of each other. Prefer to support and stand with each other in weal and woe over personal interests. The women should hold their horses. When their emotions dominate them, they don’t care for anyone. My humble request to them, don’t take revenge for your own bearded hardships from someone else. They must behave well with the other children of their family, along with their own children. Don’t expose your reality when you're alone.
These are bitter words. Try to understand them so as to work on these problems. Otherwise, you will see your children become psychopath, increasing mannerlessness in society, the end of the family system, and you will close your eyes.
