Fahad Qaseem

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09/11/2022

"Main bara ho gya hun"

This is something I've heard a lot and I've said a lot. But I never found an answer to "Insan bara kab hota hai?"

I think I found my answer today.

"Insan qadam qadam aagay barh k bara hota hai, aur har qadam aap ko alag tareeqay se bara karta hai."

Here's a list of few steps that may account for your growth, and you must (fortunately or unfortunately) experience most of these to actually taste the reality of life:
11. AN ACCIDENT; It can be a road accident, a fire, a narrow escape from death or an extremely embarrassing situation at a public place.
12. TRAVELLING TO A NEW PLACE ALL ALONE; Everyone is confident until you get to be in the middle of a city, where you don't have the local sim card (means no Internet), you can't speak the local language.
13. SETTING UP A NEW APARTMENT; You need to rent a suitable place, start making all the furniture and kitchen accessories from zero, and manage the expenses, food, bills and landlord all at the same time.
14. A HEARTBREAK; Very cliche but true. You are the best teacher of your own self when you repair from a real heartbreak.
15. MARRYING YOUR DAUGHTER OFF; You find a new life in form of a daughter, you pour in all the little efforts to make her a strong little human being and one day, you've to trust someone from this world to give her away forever.

Don't treat this as a wish-list, or a to-do list 😅 All of these things are important but these are meant for the right time.

I am not an elder myself and I yet have to cry for a lot of things in life.

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09/11/2022

07/11/2022

"Main bara ho gya hun"

This is something I've heard a lot and I've said a lot. But I never found an answer to "Insan bara kab hota hai?"

I think I found my answer today.

"Insan qadam qadam aagay barh k bara hota hai, aur har qadam aap ko alag tareeqay se bara karta hai."

Here's a list of few steps that may account for your growth, and you must (fortunately or unfortunately) experience most of these to actually taste the reality of life:
6. FIRST CHILD-BIRTH; This is the moment when you realise that life is bigger than you. It has to continue. And you've to do something for more than your own tangible lifespan.
7. A BANKRUPTCY; This is when you break down and you have to pick yourself up piece by piece and stitch together everything.
8. VISIT TO COURT/POLICE STATION; That's where the most ugly reality of our society exists.
9. LOOSING A CLOSE FRIEND; This can be a death, a friendship trauma, a toxic ending or anything bad.
10. FAILURE IN YOUR DREAM FIELD; Dreams do come true, but picking up on another dream if one didn't come true is the real skill of life.
Don't treat this as a wish-list, or a to-do list 😅 All of these things are important but these are meant for the Don't treat this as a wish-list, or a to-do list 😅 All of these things are important but these are meant for the time.

I am not an elder myself and I yet have to cry for a lot of things in life.

🙄 💙