21/12/2025
For six years of marriage, I never suspected my wife of cheating
Not once
Then, a few weeks ago, something changed
My wife started hiding her phone. She even put a password on it.
This is a woman who, for six years even while we were dating, never used a PIN. Her phone was always open. I had unrestricted access
Now, I find her whispering on calls
Stepping outside to talk on the phone, even hiding and chatting on the phone
I wanted to confront her. But I didn’t want to tip her off. I needed proof
I wanted to catch my wife cheating red handed so I can deal with her ruthlessly
Infidelity is my one and only deal breaker. We discussed it while dating. I told her about my past, about how betrayal broke something in me that never fully healed.
You can do anything to me, lie, steal, whatever but never ever cheat on me. I can unalive you. I told her how my ex cheated on me and I never could trust again
So when I noticed the signs, my mind went to one place.
How could she do this after six years?
After three children?
After everything I provide, everything I give?
I don’t deny her anything. I don’t mistreat her. She lacks nothing.
So I waited patiently and planned carefully.
One day, she entered her password without knowing I was watching. I memorized it.
Now I just needed time to check her phone
That was the hardest part.
She’s always on her phone. Cooking, in the restroom, even when we’re sleeping, it’s under her pillow and she’s a light sleeper. The bad thing is I’m not. I sleep before her and I sleep deep.
Opportunity never came…
Until it did.
She went for vigil one night. Came back exhausted and fell into a deep sleep.
That was my moment.
I picked up her phone, my heart pounding, ready to finally confirm my fears
I wasn’t prepared for what I found out
There was no evidence of her cheating
Instead, there was evidence of me!
All the noods I’ve been sending to different girls here on IG and TikTok, receipts of money I’ve sent for transport and hotel lodgings…
Even the segz videos I made and locked in my phone, she had them all!
This woman had quietly built a full CIA and FBI standard investigation on me!
And the most frightening part?
She never confronted me
Not once
She still smiles, still cooks, still laughs, and even makes love to me anytime I want. As if nothing is wrong
Like what kind of a woman is this? Isn’t she a psycho cos no normal human being will do this
I deleted everything I found. I don’t know why — panic, or maybe fear
She woke up later.
And I know she knows that I know.
I’m waiting for her to confront me, instead she is cooking Jollof rice everyday and egusi soup for me
I’ve stopped eating her food
I barely sleep
I’ve lost weight
I’m not at peace in my own house again
I’m tired
And now I don’t know what scares me more —
what I did…
or the silence of a woman who knows everything and chooses to say nothing
Should I confess?
Should I apologize?
Or should I keep waiting for a confrontation that may never come?
I’m tired
Please advise me
The End
Ajebo Writer
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