16/01/2026
Someone asked me, "Nwakpataraku, how do you get these beautiful and high value women so easily?"
At first, I made him understand that it's not juju or charms. It's values and I'm going to explain..
The truth is that, it takes a high value man to get a high value woman. If you want a high value woman, you also need to be the man with values.
In this generation, as men say they don't want to settle for less and leftovers, women are not ready to settle for less or end up with a man without values.
You have to agree with me when I tell you that a woman does not stay where there's no benefit.
A woman must see value in you before deciding to be with you.
When a woman says ‘Yes’ to you, it's not necessarily because of emotional connections or attraction. It's based on your values.
There was this beautiful oyibo lady I approached. We exchanged contacts. I got home and texted her. She read the message and didn't reply. I didn't text her again. She thought I was one of the hungry men in Europe, looking for Oyibo to get my documents.
So one day, I posted a picture of me and my teams when we were designing a website for a client. She viewed the status and later that day, she replied to my message. I stayed a day before opening her message and still didn't reply even after reading it.
Two days later, she called me on WhatsApp. I wasn't busy but I declined her call and didn't call her back the same day. I stayed two days before I called her back and told her I've been busy with a project I'm working on with my teams.
She asked, "You're into Tech"?
I said yes...
She was like; "wow that's great. I'm sorry I delayed before replying to your message. It wasn't intentional."
From that day, she became very serious with me. She was the one doing the texting, calling and checking on me.
While we were on call one day, she asked me why I didn't persist in texting or calling even when she ignored my messages. I told her the place I came from, our men don't chase after women..
Women respect high value men. It's not bragging, it's just the fact. When I say no woman has ever declined me, it's not coming from a place of pride or ego. It's simply because they see the value.
If people like Davido, WizKid or Burna Boy decides to marry 30 women this year, a lot of women in serious relationships would break up with their current boyfriends to accept their proposal.
Now the question is; Are they accepting WizKid or Davido because of emotional connections? The answer is No!
It's not because of emotional connections but because of the benefits and values they see in them. That's just the fact.
This is why as a Man, you need to stay focused in your hustle and committed to your grind...
And the sad truth you need to believe is that, if as a man you're finding it difficult to get a woman, it means you're far behind and you need to work on yourself. When I say a woman, I don't mean a hookup girl. I'm talking about high value women with dignity.
It takes a high value man to get a high value woman. That Oyibo lady thought because she is a Medical Doctor, then I'm just a man from the street who wants to survive through her. But I proved her wrong.
Take your grind seriously. Even in families, the high value men are more recognised and respected.
Let me close this sermon with a lugali proverb that says, "A man with money even his manhood eats healthy."
I am Master Nwakpataraku