07/08/2025
⚜️🌐⚜️If everyone takes care of themselves, there will be no need to save anyone. There will be no more humiliated, insulted, lost, abandoned. Because if you have realized responsibility, it is impossible to be a victim anymore. You understand that everything that happens to you, you do to yourself. Or others do to you on your own initiative, or with your consent, or due to your inaction. But no one wants to be the one who no longer needs to be saved. People want to be victims - this is where all these structures of social consciousness and behavior are built, when in any incident, from a trifle to a catastrophe, the first reaction is to hope for a savior, and the second is to look for scapegoats. And since a savior almost never comes from somewhere outside, all forces are thrown into looking for scapegoats. Who is to blame? Who should be punished? Often, the saviors themselves are hit. They saved the wrong people, the wrong people, at the wrong time. As soon as you make a mistake - and you will always make a mistake - and you are already on the scaffold. But in reality, if a savior is needed, it means that everyone is already too late. It means that no one has coped with their task. Heroism is needed only where people do not do their job, giving birth to crises. This is the same mechanism that does not allow victims to grow into something more. Destroy all saviors from the outside, do not save anyone and never, so that the victim has no choice but to deal with what is happening with his own hands and find a savior within. And let all victims see the culprits in themselves too, so that the desire to find the culprit and punish him immediately crashes against his own reflection in the mirror. In reality, we just need independent people who are ready to take responsibility and solve problems in their lives, without demanding anything from others. Only such people are capable of survival. And only such people are capable of real mutual assistance between the self-sufficient, and not hysterical attempts by some drowning people to save other drowning people, as a result of which everyone drowns. Vadim Ragnarek
