26/08/2025
Date 2 with another Swedish đžđȘ man
I matched with him on Tinder. Letâs call him Doctor because he really was one.
We chatted briefly on the app before he asked me out on a date. I agreed, not even knowing at first that he was a doctor. He offered to drive down to my city to meet me. Since I live in the countryside, he picked me up near where I live, but I didnât give him my home address or phone number. I wanted to make sure he wasnât a strange or unsafe person before sharing such details. After all, a date should happen outside, not inside my home.
He picked me up, and we drove into the city for dinner. Over the meal, we talked about his work, Swedish politics, social issues, cultural differences, my masterâs studies, and life in Sweden. The conversation flowed easily. At one point, he commented on how stylishly I was dressed and asked if I planned to start a fashion brand after finishing my degree. I told him no it wasnât a career goal, but rather something I grew up with and loved as part of who I am.
We talked about his career, his family, and his hobbies. He came across as a responsible and respectful man, careful with his words. He shared that he was divorced and had a daughter.
We met again for a second date, this time to play tennis, his favorite sport. He was patient and even offered to teach me. After tennis, we went swimming, and later ended the evening with dinner at a restaurant. Like the first time, he dropped me off where he had picked me up and drove home.
By then, I felt comfortable enough to give him my phone number. He wasnât weird at all, on the contrary, he was responsible, honest, and well-respected in the Swedish medical profession. Later that night, he sent me a message. He said he would like to take things seriously and asked what I thought about starting a committed relationship with him.
I was surprised. Thatâs too fast, I thought. I was only just beginning to know him. I decided to take a few days to think about it. By the third day, I was ready to talk to him about it. But when I finally messaged, he told me he had already moved on.
He said, âI waited for your reply but didnât get any, so I went on a date with another woman the next day. Now weâre serious. I donât like to date more than one person at a time itâs either one or none. When you didnât reply, I moved on because Iâm serious about settling down and donât have time to play around.â
I wished him the best. That was the last time we spoke.
He is a responsible man. A one of a kind.
Most men on the app are dating many women at the same time.
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