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𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐁𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚?The media should be a force for truth, but then, what is truth?Is it whatev...
22/07/2025

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐁𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚?

The media should be a force for truth, but then, what is truth?

Is it whatever aligns with the latest progressive cause? Or is it the steady ground of time-tested institutions and moral frameworks?

This piece provides a broad analysis of our national broadsheet's approach to LGBT reporting. What we found is a deeply concerning one-sidedness.

Singaporeans should read carefully, not just for what’s said, but for what’s assumed, omitted, and emotionally pre-loaded.
Because once editorial tone becomes indistinguishable from activism, critical thinking erodes and public trust evaporates.

Singapore media’s coverage of LGBT issues has shifted from neutral to affirming, shaping public morality while shutting down dissent.

Singapore agrees that mums and dads both matter.So why are LGBT activists pretending that they don't?This piece exposes ...
15/07/2025

Singapore agrees that mums and dads both matter.

So why are LGBT activists pretending that they don't?

This piece exposes how same-s*x parenting campaigns in Singapore unjustly erase what every child needs - their mother and father.

Same-s*x parenting campaigns in Singapore contradict government support for fathers and mothers and challenge societal beliefs on what children truly need.

Only one way to process your feelings. LGBTQ s*xuality for children. Legitimising vigorous pushes to reshape how we thin...
10/07/2025

Only one way to process your feelings. LGBTQ s*xuality for children. Legitimising vigorous pushes to reshape how we think about marriage, s*xuality and gender with the banner of charity status.

Pink Dot wants you to believe that this is equality.

We examine their claims, and leave you with one question: is Pink Dot's scorecard about equality, or cultural domination?

From healthcare, to media, to the non-profit space, Pink Dot's scorecard seeks not equal treatment, but cultural domination.

Redefining family. Rewriting policy. Reshaping norms. That's what Pink Dot's "equality scorecard" really seeks.Pink Dot ...
09/07/2025

Redefining family. Rewriting policy. Reshaping norms. That's what Pink Dot's "equality scorecard" really seeks.

Pink Dot wants you to believe that the way family, housing, and laws on employment discrimination and end-of-life matters work in Singapore treats LGBTQ individuals unequally.

In Part 2, we show you why that's not the case.

From marriage and adoption to employment, end-of-life decisions, and housing, Pink Dot’s LGBTQ equality scorecard enforces a radical redefinition of family.

What if not all calls for ‘equality’ are really equal?
09/07/2025

What if not all calls for ‘equality’ are really equal?

Like things should be treated alike, and unlike things unalike.You may recall that Pink Dot published an "equality score...
08/07/2025

Like things should be treated alike, and unlike things unalike.

You may recall that Pink Dot published an "equality scorecard" last year claiming to show the ways in which the LGBTQ community is still not treated equally.

We unpack Pink Dot’s claims of unequal treatment on 377A, how schools approach LGBTQ issues, and gender identity in Singapore to determine if they're real cases of inequality, or ideological demands dressed up as "equal rights".

On 377A, how schools approach LGBTQ issues, and gender identity, Pink Dot’s LGBTQ equality scorecard confuses special treatment with equal treatment.

You’ve heard about “the gay gene” and that g**s are “born this way”. Science now shows that’s not true.A 2019 study chal...
25/06/2025

You’ve heard about “the gay gene” and that g**s are “born this way”.

Science now shows that’s not true.

A 2019 study challenges the genetic basis of homos*xuality, prompting a reevaluation of this narrative.

Here's the TL;DR.

Equality is a worthy goal - when correctly understood.But today, LGBT activists have hijacked equality to argue that sam...
23/06/2025

Equality is a worthy goal - when correctly understood.

But today, LGBT activists have hijacked equality to argue that same-s*x marriage is the same as heteros*xual marriage, and that biological gender is the same as self-determined gender.

This article examines where they've gone wrong and uncovers what equality really means.

When equality is misapplied, it breeds confusion. This piece unpacks the moral assumptions behind modern equality debates.

𝐏𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐃𝐨𝐭 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓: 𝐃𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲As we head into the weekend, Pink Dot 2025’s theme —“Different Stor...
20/06/2025

𝐏𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐃𝐨𝐭 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓: 𝐃𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲

As we head into the weekend, Pink Dot 2025’s theme —“Different Stories, Same Love” — sounds warm and fuzzy, complete with a carnival-like atmosphere that celebrates “love” and “acceptance”.

But here’s the question nobody’s asking. 𝐀𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐬𝐭?

Pink Dot glorifies “love in all its forms”, especially through “chosen families” made up of friends or same-s*x partners. But when family is redefined as fluid and self-declared, we begin to erode the stable commitments that have long held Singapore’s social fabric together.

How?

Because biological families are the vehicle in which children are raised, and “𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬” 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝’𝐬 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐟𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.
Not all expressions of love are equally beneficial for a child’s development. We ignore that reality at our peril.

A just society shouldn't treat deliberately removing a father or mother from a child's life as normal or acceptable. Doing so means we treat something that would usually be seen as a tragedy (a child growing up without a mum or dad) as just another lifestyle choice. And we do this not for the child's benefit, but to satisfy adult desires. But it’s the children, who have no say, who suffer most when adults reshape the family to suit themselves.

Pink Dot is campaigning hard to promote the idea that any configuration of adults constitutes a family. But in doing so, it erases the biological and relational distinctiveness of motherhood and fatherhood, substituting those sacred roles for whoever happens to be around.

A le***an couple with no male involvement? “No problem” according to family reconstructivists. One partner will just try to“play the role” of a dad. But the scientific truth is that these aren’t merely social roles; they are deeply rooted in nature. Mothers and fathers bring different but complementary strengths to a child’s development — neurologically, emotionally, and relationally.

The lesson here is that s*x matters. 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.

Or perhaps the le***an pair will call upon the services of an unrelated male uncle or grandfather. The problem here is that statistically speaking, nobody cares for a child like their own biological parents. And children have a right to nothing less than that level of dedicated care.

Yes, some single mums and step-parents are heroes. But we don’t normalise fatherlessness just because some rise to the occasion. We don’t celebrate broken homes just because some kids survive them.

Singapore cannot speak of “commitment” to children when biology, structure, and long-term responsibility are treated as optional, in service of an adult-centric agenda. A child’s need for both a mother and a father is not a social construct. It is a human truth. A truth that doesn’t bend to adult preferences.

At Pink Dot’s family panel, sociologist Teo You Yenn said: “If we want to pay more than lip service to ‘family values,’ we would do well to embrace families of all shapes and sizes.” That’s applause-line activism. It sounds generous, but it leaves us unable to answer the most basic question: 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞 𝐚 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲?

When we open the door too wide, we don’t expand the meaning of family, we strip it of meaning altogether.

Every year, Pink Dot floods the public square with emotional anecdotes — personal stories intended to “show the world that q***r relationships are just as real, worthy and deeply human” (Clement Tan, Pink Dot Spokesperson). But in a world of manipulation and propaganda, Singaporeans should be wise to ideological movements which use empathy to bulldoze reality.

We must see through the rhetoric. Words like “love” and “inclusivity” may be repeated like mantras, but they gloss over how adult-benefitting “families” will radically reshape the lives of children.

Singapore’s future depends on putting children’s rights before adult affirmation. Because if everything is a family, then nothing really is.

Want to know more about what happens when the definition of family is up for grabs?

🔗 Read more: https://regardless.sg/how-activists-are-quietly-changing-singapores-understanding-of-family/

You may have seen the LGBTQ movement paint itself as merely about “tolerance” and “equality.” But what if LGBTQ activism...
18/06/2025

You may have seen the LGBTQ movement paint itself as merely about “tolerance” and “equality.”

But what if LGBTQ activism is no longer just about acceptance, but reshaping society through law, education, media, and even moral pressure?

In our latest article, we unpack how “inclusion” became transformation and ask if we are conflating justice and acceptance with a radical ideology that undermines the very foundations that form society.

LGBTQ activism has shifted from protection to domination, demanding cultural transformation under the guise of inclusion and equality.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐳𝐚 𝐖𝐚𝐫: 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐞'𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐊𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐔𝐬Contempt kills conversation. And in the Gaza debate, it’s doing worse. It...
12/06/2025

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐳𝐚 𝐖𝐚𝐫: 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐞'𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐊𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐔𝐬

Contempt kills conversation. And in the Gaza debate, it’s doing worse. It is splitting societies that aren’t even in the firing line.

Psychologist John Gottman calls contempt the “sulphuric acid” of marriage; it’s his most reliable divorce predictor. Eye-rolling, sneers, moral one-upmanship. Once these things seep in, the relationship breathes its last.

If contempt will kill a blood-bond as close and sacred as a marriage, what do you think it will do to mere community ties, where something only as thin as shared experience and maybe a nice little red passport bonds us?

𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩 𝐀: 𝐆𝐚𝐳𝐚 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭

Those who sympathise with the Palestinians see an overwhelming power gap. F-16s versus handmade rockets, M-16s against slingshots and Tel Aviv’s Washington allies versus Gaza’s rubble. And all this is against an evocative historical narrative of injustice through displacement and occupational heavy-handedness. It's all very evocative. Sympathy flows to the underdog.

Fair enough.

Unfortunately, this well-meaning sympathy slips all too easily into simplistic grievance when Palestinian weakness is mistaken for innocence. It’s a Marx-tinged move: oppressed equals virtuous, oppressor equals wicked. Critical-theory vibes.

𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩 𝐁: 𝐈𝐬𝐫𝐚𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭

This camp backs Israel’s right to defend itself, but it isn’t blind. They’ve watched Israel fight for survival in ’48, ’67, ’73; they recall peace offers spurned; they know the centuries‑old hostility that predates the state. And they still flinch at every image of dead children.

Crucially, they try to hold space. They weep for Palestinian civilians who want no part in this war and even extend reluctant empathy to Gazans who cheered the 7 October abductions, seeing them as products of relentless ideological grooming. Victims come in layers, they argue, but that doesn’t exonerate militants or overseas activists who bay for Jewish blood.

What grates most is Camp A’s blanket narrative of universal Palestinian victimhood, a slogan that sweeps Hamas - the gunmen who filmed themselves murdering teenagers - into the role of “resistance fighters.” Any hesitation to applaud is framed as cruelty.

Add the media's bias where reports routinely and uncritically cite “Gaza health officials” as if they were the WHO. Frustration deepens. Politicians repeat “cease‑fire” without mentioning the 130 hostages still underground or the rockets that keep flying. Meanwhile, Palestinian deaths have passed 55,000. Holding all those truths in one head is also emotionally exhausting.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐨𝐦𝐛: 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲

Everyone insists they’re the level‑headed one. That's the story we tell ourselves. We posture as neutral arbiters while marinating in feeds tuned to our bias. If we won’t admit our own tilt to ourselves, how can we be honest in public?

When disagreement mutates into “I’m good, you’re evil,” contempt metastasises. That corrodes the social compact as fast as it undoes a marriage. Multi-faith Singapore cannot afford that rust.

Worse, passion rewires perception. Friends we once trusted for their cool‑headed rigour: lawyers, researchers, teachers, now repost shrill infographics and other-demonising memes where arguments used to be. One catches themself wondering: "If they can’t see kidnapping and indiscriminate rockets as clear-cut wrongs, am I the one out of step?" Meanwhile, from Camp A’s screen, another voice mutters: If basically carpet bombing Gaza isn’t clearly genocide, have we traded conscience for ideology?

We scroll different algorithmically curated, bias-feeding timelines, cite clashing casualty tallies, apply incompatible moral yardsticks. The floor for any shared conversation simply collapses.

𝐒𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐓𝐨 𝐁𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐦?

If you still want dialogue, try this— and good luck.

1️⃣ Lead with your lens. Admit your bias up front. It signals honesty, lowers shields.

2️⃣ Steel-man first. Then offer your view.

3️⃣ Ask, don’t jab. “What shaped that view?” beats “Explain yourself.” Curiosity beats contempt.

4️⃣ Name the pain. Grief for Palestinians, trauma for Israelis—validate both before debating.

5️⃣ Use stories over stats. One hostage’s diary or one Gazan doctor’s log cuts through number-numbness.

6️⃣ Meet offline. Algorithms reward outrage; kopi-c-kosong rewards civility.

7️⃣ Keep verbs hard, adjectives soft. “Rockets hit Ashkelon” is clearer (and kinder) than “brutal Zionist assault”.

8️⃣ Hold the tension. Complex conflicts stay complex. Sit with it; don’t rush for neat endings.

9️⃣ Guard common ground. Free worship, zero hate speech and civic peace. Frame every point inside those values.

🔟 Recruit bridge-builders. Clergy, teachers, and union leaders and people trusted across lines. Can model calm disagreement.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐇𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐓𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐅𝐢𝐱 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬?

Is neighbour‑to‑neighbour dialogue enough? Bridging a Gaza‑sized gulf demands the unglamorous labour of muzzling our own outrage and listening across the aisle. In Singapore, raised on a paternalistic, father‑knows‑best government, grassroots deliberation isn’t exactly muscle memory. How realistic is a nationwide, ground‑up effort?

Maybe the state must step in again—not with press releases or ministerial venting sessions, but with clear, firm lines: stop the divisive theatrics, protect minority communities, and map a fair way forward.

Yes, the teenager nation in us resists more paternalism. But if we want to survive this season before contempt metastasises into something much darker, perhaps idealism can take a backseat while pragmatism leads for now.

If contempt wins, we don’t just lose an argument; we risk the society we’re trying to protect. Perhaps if we all tried less to be spokespersons for our tribal alliance, and remember that we were all friends once upon a time, we might come out of this with our nation intact.

You’ve heard about “the gay gene” and that g**s are "born this way”. Science now shows that’s not true.A 2019 study chal...
12/06/2025

You’ve heard about “the gay gene” and that g**s are "born this way”.

Science now shows that’s not true.

A 2019 study challenges the genetic basis of homos*xuality, prompting a reevaluation of this narrative.

Our latest article breaks down the data, exposes the ideological spin, and invites a critical rethink of one of today’s most culturally powerful narratives.

We’ve been told that g**s are ‘born this way,’ but the science delivers a devastating blow to the "gay gene" hypothesis.

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