Influence through Voice

Influence through Voice Cynthia is a voice coach, professional speaker (CSP) and best-selling author. She helps you develop

She helps you develop a powerful voice to be heard in a noisy world.

🗣️ 𝙑𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙈𝙞𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛 🗣️🗣️ Just wrapped up an incredible journey with a couple who specializes in healing and...
15/08/2025

🗣️ 𝙑𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙈𝙞𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛 🗣️

🗣️ Just wrapped up an incredible journey with a couple who specializes in healing and transformation work. The focus of our work was to help them uncover their true voices—voices that project power, impact, and authenticity.

They shared, “We were surprised and amazed to realize how our inner blocks showed up in the voice! What we’ve gained is more than voice improvement. We have grown so much as a person. We really appreciate the holistic work you are doing.” 🙏

❤️ That’s what moved me the most, their deep appreciation for how the voice reflects the whole person and for the holistic work that I’m doing. They didn’t just see this as “voice training”; they experienced it as holistic transformation.

😍 It’s a joy to work with people who truly understand the depth of voice work. It’s not just about sounding better—it’s about being seen, heard, and felt in the most authentic way possible.

🪞 Voice is a mirror of your self. As you develop your voice, you’ll often find yourself:

✅ Discovering deeper layers of self-awareness, for example, noticing how hesitations in the voice mirrored your internal doubts.

✅ Recognizing the connection between breath, emotion, and expression – realizing that voice is not just sound, but embodied energy.

✅ Feeling more aligned and confident in your personal and professional lives, because a strong voice reinforces presence and conviction.

Have you ever noticed how your voice shifts with your emotions, confidence, or energy? Your voice tells your story—what is yours saying?

☔ “I wish to hold an umbrella over you, for I, too, have been caught in the storm.”This saying, originally from a Chines...
12/08/2025

☔ “I wish to hold an umbrella over you, for I, too, have been caught in the storm.”

This saying, originally from a Chinese quote (因为我曾淋过雨,所以想为你撑把伞), explains the best what compassion is.

✅ Compassion, not empathy, has become one of the top qualities people want to see in a leader, especially in the past few years of crisis and chaos.

👉 Compassion is beyond that of “I put myself in your shoes and understand what you are going through.”

✅ Compassion is that of “Yes, I’ve been through the experience or the feelings that you are going through, and I understand personally the suffering, the pain, the desperation, the hopelessness... I am here to help you alleviate the suffering.”

💡 That’s the difference between empathy and compassion. Compassion comes from the place of loving kindness and is essential on the path to enlightenment in Buddhism.

Compassionate leaders are proven to foster trust, loyalty and engagement from employees. Compassion can't be cultivated with techniques. If it was so easy to be compassionate, everyone would have been enlightened. Compassion is a practice and cultivation of the heart. ❤️🩹

“If you are going through hell, keep going.” This is how you cultivate compassion 😂 well, one of the ways. It was through the experiences over the years of being bullied at work, living in fear, feeling voiceless, waking up in the middle of the night in cold sweat wondering where the next client was, facing the broken commitment from a partner and feeling helpless and hopeless ... that I've gained profound understanding of the struggles and sufferings of those who go unheard, who are suppressed, who live in fear, and who couldn't see light when surrounded by darkness.

🌪️ 🌀 ⚡ If I had not seen the darkness, if I had not gone to the rock bottom, if I had not been brought to my knees and faced the demons, how would I be able to tell you exactly what darkness, rock bottom and demons look like, feel like and taste like? Yes, I may be able to tell you from what I have read from the books and watched from videos. It forever stays in the head, the left brain, and will never touch your heart. 💗

“What is to give light must endure burning.” 🔥

I wish you wouldn’t need to experience any suffering in life to learn compassion. Unfortunately, that’s not how life is designed. You either just came out of a suffering, or are going through one, or are going to go through one. 😂 Since we are all going to go through suffering anyway, why not fully experience it, rise from it, and become a more compassionate person. “The phoenix must burn to emerge.” ❤️🔥

When you emerge, you relate to people in a profoundly deep way. Not only you’ll become a better leader, but most importantly, you become a better person.



P.S. This is an excerpt from my upcoming book, Develop Your Leadership Voice. Get pre-order notification here: https://www.routledge.com/Develop-Your-Leadership-Voice-How-to-Speak-with-a-Powerful-Voice-that-Assures-Unites-and-Influences-People/Zhai/p/book/9781032979830

The wait is over! Well, almost 🤭🤭🤭 One more month to go!Get your pre-order notification here:https://lnkd.in/gWNpyrXz (L...
06/08/2025

The wait is over! Well, almost 🤭🤭🤭 One more month to go!

Get your pre-order notification here:

https://lnkd.in/gWNpyrXz (LINK IN BIO)

Thank you Craig Valentine Peck Kem Low Ron Kaufman Robin Speculand Barney Wee, Ph.D. for your kind endorsement for the book! 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you everyone who has supported me along the way to make the book a reality! 🙏🙏🙏

💡 “Before the program, I thought I knew what I didn’t know. I thought I just needed to work on breath and tonality of my...
05/08/2025

💡 “Before the program, I thought I knew what I didn’t know. I thought I just needed to work on breath and tonality of my voice. Now I realized I don’t even know what I don’t know!” A client shared.

That’s often the case for not just my clients, but most people.

🗣️ People often say to me, “Ah, voice, well I’ve done singing and I know how it works.”

The fact is, there’s a BIG difference between the singing voice and the speaking voice. I performed singing in schools and I sing very well. 😉 From both my own experience and my clients’ experience, I’d tell you how big the difference is between the singing voice and the speaking voice.

🌿 Growth stops when you think you know what you think you know. 🤭 Growth also stops when you think you know what you don’t know.

Shall I encourage you to learn what you don’t know or even what you think you know? No. 😂 For most people, they have to hit a wall, get bruised all over and bleed then they realize it’s time for them to learn, myself included. 😂

What I do encourage is that you stay curious,

🤔 “Hmm, I wonder what that is...”
🤔 “I wonder how that works...”
🤔 “I wonder where this leads me ...”

When you stay curious, life becomes more fun and learning becomes easier.

🪴 May you grow with ease and fun.

“It’s a shame that most people are walking around half breathing.” A voice coaching client shared yesterday, “And I was ...
01/08/2025

“It’s a shame that most people are walking around half breathing.” A voice coaching client shared yesterday, “And I was one of them! Now that I could breathe properly, I really feel the benefit.”

🗣️Before we started working, he often felt breathless while speaking. It got even worse when he was nervous. “Sometimes I’m not even breathing!”

🗣️One and a half month into the coaching, he happily reported, “I feel more relaxed now and my voice sounds different, more confident I would say.”

🌀“And we are only getting started.” I laughed,”Your voice will be even better when you’ve worked on resonance.”

“I’m really looking forward to that!” He then said, “You are really doing meaningful work. More people should benefit from this.”

🙏“I’m so glad to hear you say this. It is clients like you that assures to me that I’m on a mission.”

🫁Proper breathing is not only the foundation to a more powerful voice, but also your life force. Unfortunately, the majority of the the population is not breathing properly and fully. As a result, most speak with a voice that sounds holding back and show up in life pre-occupied and not fully being who they are.

🌿Breath is associated with how we take in and give out life. Change your breathing, it will change your life. The caveat, you must make proper breathing a habit.

🫁Keep breathing!

𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴.🤯 “I really don’t like this part of me, constantly worrying about the different possible wo...
28/07/2025

𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴.

🤯 “I really don’t like this part of me, constantly worrying about the different possible worst scenarios. When that happens, my mind just freezes and I couldn’t speak fluently any more.” A client recently shared. “I tried to work on that but I have not seen any progress. I’m fed up.”

“Fed up with yourself?” I smiled.

“Yes! How can I improve that?!” He was frustrated.

“The first thing that you might want to do is to accept that … accept who you are, that you are someone who is constantly worried.” I shared. “That’s how you are wired. There’s nothing wrong with that.”

“I don’t see others constantly worrying about the worst scenarios!” He wasn’t happy.

“Well, they are struggling with other problems.” I laughed, “that you are not aware of and of course they won’t tell you.” 😉😉😉

💡“What you resist, persists.” - Carl Jung 💡

🔄 When we refuse to accept ourselves - whether it’s anxiety, insecurity, or any other perceived flaws - we are launching internal battles that’ll end up in self-criticizing, shame or guilt. The “flaw” persists (or worsens) because resistance gives it energy. What’s worse is that the brain interprets resistance as a threat, and it’ll lead to more stress. And the result? We’ll stay stuck.

✅ Start to accept who you are. That’s the first step to change it. It’s not to passively accept that and do nothing. It’s to stop launching battlers with yourself, therefore to stop the vicious cycle, so you can move to more effective actions.

✅ When you start to accept who you are, you’ll find a quieter mind and space to improve and evolve.

☮️ What battles are you launching upon yourself? Time to make peace with yourself.

Be like Johnnie Walker. Keep walking 🤣🤣🤣Recently, in a series of workshops I conducted, I received overwhelmingly positi...
23/07/2025

Be like Johnnie Walker. Keep walking 🤣🤣🤣

Recently, in a series of workshops I conducted, I received overwhelmingly positive feedback—nearly perfect scores (5/5!), with a few 4s sprinkled in. Many participants highlighted how my experience and deep understanding of their needs made the sessions truly impactful.

This got me reflecting: Mastery indeed takes time. 🕰️ In the early days of my 15 years of journey, I wished for faster progress, instant expert status, or greater impact. But the truth is, your understanding of your customer’s needs and your skills can only be sharpened through experience, trial and patience. 🌱

We live in a world that often glorifies overnight success, but real growth happens in the quiet, persistent effort behind the scenes. If you‘re feeling impatient in your own journey, remember—every lesson, every stumble, and every small win is building the depth that others will one day recognize and value. 💪

Keep honing your craft. Mastery isn’t a sprint—it’s a walk. Keep walking. 😉😉😉

🛑 Disclaimer: It’s not like I drink a lot, especially Johnnie Walker. 🤣🤣🤣



Would love to hear your thoughts—have you experienced a moment where patience led to a breakthrough? Share below! 👇

“Wonderful things have happened to me ever since we started working. It’s like miracles!” A client shared with me recent...
07/07/2025

“Wonderful things have happened to me ever since we started working. It’s like miracles!” A client shared with me recently.

“I don’t know what you did, but I believe your positive vibration has brought a lot of luck to me. I really appreciate your energy, your aura!”

🌀 What really happens is that when you work on your voice, you elevate your own vibration. 🌀

✅ Voice is vibration. Everyone’s unique voice sends out a specific vibrational frequency. Your current voice sends out the frequency that reflects the current state of you, including physical, mental, emotional and even spiritual if you believe that. Your current state might be distorted due to physical tension, stuck emotions, accumulated trauma, negative experiences, etc. And your vibrational frequency, your voice, reflects all of that.

✅ When we work on your voice, your vibrational frequency, it will change your current state. Full resonance, full and optimised vibration optimises and uplifts your vibrational frequency. That’s why after clients have developed their full voice, they felt elevated, “I don’t why but I just feel good!” many clients have shared. 🔥🗝 Well, that’s the secret: when you feel good, you start to attract wonderful things to your life!

To have wonderful and miraculous things happen in both your voice and your life, don’t hesitate to reach out to me!

“GOOD MORNING, EVERYONE!”A client leads a global team focusing on cyber security in financial industry. He needs to spea...
04/07/2025

“GOOD MORNING, EVERYONE!”

A client leads a global team focusing on cyber security in financial industry. He needs to speak and present in conferences regularly.

“My content is boring by nature. How can I improve my voice 🗣️to be more interesting so they won’t fall asleep?”

I asked him to present the beginning of his presentation.

“Good morning everyone. I’m happy to be here. Here’s the agenda of my presentation.”

Me 🤦🏻‍♀️, “No matter how interesting your voice is, ‘good morning’ won’t get them excited about your presentation.”

As I further looked through his entire presentation, it was structured as a textbook,

📕- Welcome and Introduction
📕- Objectives of the Presentation
📕- Understand Cybersecurity
📕- Best Practices
📕- Conclusion”

“With a presentation as this, no wonder they’ll fall asleep.” We both laughed.

💡“To grab and keep their attention, you’ve got to work with how attention functions, not how your logical brain works.”

We ended up working on restructuring his presentation before helping him speak with an engaging voice.

🔥To speak to influence and inspire, you can’t just work on one area, for example, your voice, while leaving the other areas to fall short. It’s a complete package.

✨ Speaking skills encompass a combination of several key elements, voice, body language, what you say (such as word choice, content, structure), audience engagement, your unique speaking style, etc. Each of the elements plays an indispensable role for leaders to speak to be heard and to influence and inspire.

“How do I sound calm when I’m stressed?”This has been a frequently asked question by clients and workshop participants.🌪...
20/06/2025

“How do I sound calm when I’m stressed?”

This has been a frequently asked question by clients and workshop participants.

🌪️The world we are living in seems to be chaotic and full of uncertainties. That brings stress, anxiety, impatience and irritability in people, accompanied with the desire to be able to manage one’s emotional reactions.

🔑One practice I’ve learned over the years and have shared with clients is the work on 👉 equanimity 👈.

☯️ Equanimity is a concept found in many philosophies and spiritual traditions, including Buddhism, Taoism, Stoicism, and yoga philosophy.

☯️ Equanimity is a remarkable ability to remain grounded, centred and present, regardless of what’s happening externally. It’s the ability to not get knocked off centre or reactive even when external situations are difficult, uncertain and chaotic; and even when you are emotionally triggered and the circumstances are out of control.

☯️‼️ One key point to take note on is that equanimity is NOT about suppressing emotions, but rather about experiencing them without being overwhelmed or controlled by them.

How can a voice help you cultivate equanimity?

✅ Develop a full voice. A full voice is a voice that’s projected from your body through proper breathing (diaphragmatic breathing) and full resonance.

It’s the opposite to a voice that most people speak with, a so-called “head voice”, a voice projected from the head, or more specifically, from the neck and above.

🗣️A full voice grounds you in the body. When there’s tension, caused by stress, nervousness, or emotional reactions, the tension will not end up in your vocal cords that causes your voice to shake or go high pitched, rather, you’ll sound calm. Many clients who have developed their full voice were surprised to discover they sounded calm even when they felt stressed or emotionally reactive.

Many clients often say to me, “Cynthia, you always sound so calm.” As a work in progress 🤭, I don’t always feel calm. Speaking with a fully resonated voice is definitely one of the key contributors.

✅ Before you could develop your full voice, there is one quick way to help you sound more calm and feel more calm, that is, whenever you feel emotionally reactive or irritated, deliberately slow down your pace. The effect of a slower pace needs no further explanation.

☯️ Equanimity is not a state that’s easily attainable. It is a state, as well as a capacity, to allow us to move through life with grace, freedom and wisdom. That’s a remarkable quality to be developed in the path to enlightenment.

💪 It requires ongoing self-development and advancement. When you could get even 50% closer to equanimity, you would become a leader whom people look up to and turn to in times of uncertainty for assurance and inspiration.



P.S. This is an excerpt from my upcoming book Develop Your Leadership Voice. Stay tuned for the book to be launched in Oct!

« The human voice is the organ of the soul. » - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.🗣️ Does your voice reflect your inner power? ...
11/06/2025

« The human voice is the organ of the soul. » - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.

🗣️ Does your voice reflect your inner power? Or does your voice reflect how insecure or troubled you are?

🎬 In my interview in the summit series, I shared with host .healing.arts ✅ how your voice reflects who you were and who you are, as well as ✅ how you can harness the power of your voice to own your power.

Don’t miss the interview, together with experts on other topics that’ll help you own your power and lead your way. Sign up for FREE HERE:

https://speaker.empoweringhealingarts.com/Cynthia-Zhai



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This is a dream coming true! I’ll be speaking end of June here 👇 in the Alps ⛰️, facing this lake! 😍😍😍The topic is 👉 Inf...
09/06/2025

This is a dream coming true! I’ll be speaking end of June here 👇 in the Alps ⛰️, facing this lake! 😍😍😍

The topic is 👉 Influence through Voice 👈

Your voice is more than a tool to convey information.

✅Does your voice sound trustworthy the moment you start speaking?
✅Does it command attention however long you speak?
✅Does it leave a strong impact whenever and with whoever you speak?

Most people think, to work on your voice is to work on your tonality or emphasis or pauses. You ain’t see nothing yet.

🌀The real power in your voice lies in your vibration. Voice is vibration. When you change your vibration, you’ll experience transformation that you never knew exists. And that’s what I love to see in people, the transformation that voice brings.

If you’d like to have the talk for your company, feel free to reach out to me!

Meanwhile, remember to dream! It might just come true in unexpected ways, like how it did for me! 🤩🤩🤩

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