
16/08/2025
Shop Talk @ Eason #22
𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗰𝘁 𝘃𝘀 𝗙𝘂𝗻: 𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗪𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱?
Today I spoke with the mum of a 5-year-old who just had a trial lesson with one of our male instructors. She asked if we could arrange another trial — this time with a female teacher who’s experienced with kids and can “play” with her daughter.
I introduced one of our early-twenties female instructors who’s great with young children and has 4–5 years of teaching experience. The mum was happy… until she started comparing with the male instructor:
✅ 10+ years’ teaching experience
✅ Students winning awards in national competitions
✅ 100% DSA success rate
❌ Less likely to joke with her daughter — his style is more direct, and the child would need to follow instructions closely.
She seemed conflicted.
I suggested that since her daughter is only 5, maybe the priority now is to cultivate her interest in music first. I told her to try lessons with the female teacher, then ask her daughter how she feels about both.
𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆: Every child is different. Some thrive with structure and discipline; others blossom when they can play and explore.
What about you? If it were your child, would you choose the strict, results-driven teacher or the fun, kid-friendly one?
𝙇𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙘 𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙? 𝙇𝙚𝙩’𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙖 𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙛𝙞𝙩.