13/08/2025
The broken side of a man, women overlook
My daughter, there is something I need you to understand about men many women overlook. something
When a man is broken inside, he often does not speak. Society taught him from a young age to "be a man," to internalize his pain, to carry his burdens quietly. He has been conditioned to believe that showing his struggles makes him weak. And sadly, many women were never taught how to create an atmosphere where a man feels safe enough to share his heart.
You see, when your husband finally gathers the courage to open up to you, it is a fragile and sacred moment. But sometimes, instead of receiving him with gentleness, a woman may be upset with him, angry, or even mad at what she hears. Worse still, some women take those private confessions and later use them against him during a disagreement. My daughter, when you do that, it is like giving him a deep slap in the face not just with your hand, but with your betrayal. And from that day on, he will close himself off. You will wonder why he no longer talks to you, why he no longer approaches you the way he used to, but the truth will be that you broke the bridge he used to walk on to reach you.
This is why I want you to know creating an atmosphere for a man to open up is one of the most important parts of being a wife.
That atmosphere does not start with the food you cook or the smile you give when he comes home, although those matter. It starts from within you. It is in your tone, your patience, your willingness to listen without judgment, your ability to hold his secrets like a treasure that is not to be exposed.
If you are always focused on the fact that your man is not talking to you, you will miss the deeper question: Am I creating the space for him to feel safe enough to talk?
Remember, my daughter, that atmosphere is his emotional home who builds it.
So take care of your husband's heart. Make your words a shelter, your arms a refuge, and your presence a place where he can
