The Tootie Show

09/18/2025

I saw this post….

Truth is, life can turn upside down fast — and that’s scary. But instead of sitting in the fear, we’ve got to shift the focus. 💡 Bad months happen, but so do good ones. The key is pushing forward, staying positive, and refusing to quit.

Yes, the world feels heavy right now, but if we choose optimism, mindfulness, and resilience — we can flip the script. Every setback can be a setup for something better. 💪 Keep moving forward, because even though there are hard days ahead, there are brighter ones too.

If you stay stuck in negative thinking, chances are you’ll spiral further down. If you give up, yeah… you might end up in that dark place. But why let that be your story? Bad months happen, depression hits, and life throws curveballs — but that’s when you’ve got to fight like a soldier, stand back up, and push through. 💪

Negativity will drag you under, but positivity and persistence can lift you out. You can’t control everything, but you can control your mindset and your effort. And that shift makes all the difference. 🌟

09/18/2025

🌟 Keep Pushing, Even on the Hard Days 🌟

I know a lot of people are going through tough times right now — and trust me, I feel it too. I have my own hard days, even the ones where I want to quit and just drop everything. But here’s the truth: we can’t stop there. We’ve got to keep moving, keep pushing, and keep chasing what drives us.

For me, it’s my dreams and my goals that keep me intact. They’re my fuel when my tank feels empty. What’s your drive? What’s your passion? What’s that thing that gets you out of bed even when life feels like one big messy “s**t show”? (because let’s be real — sometimes it does 😂).

And listen — my messenger is always open, and if you have my number, you can reach me anytime. A lot of people say they don’t have anyone to talk to, but the truth is… sometimes we just don’t reach out. I get it, keeping it in feels easier. But you’re not alone. Don’t be afraid to speak up.

Maybe it’s the early winter blues, maybe it’s just life being life — but either way, we don’t have to stay stuck in it. We can choose happiness, even if it’s just in small doses each day. Shift your perspective. Focus on progress, not the problems. 💪

So here’s my challenge to you:
✨ What keeps YOU going?
✨ What’s one passion, goal, or dream that makes you push forward?

Drop it in the comments — you never know who might read it and feel inspired too.

09/16/2025

🌟 Welcome to Tootie’s World! 🌟

I’ve been working hard in the studio and I’m proud to share something special with you all — my brand-new EDM/house track 🎶💚 This time, I turned it into a full video on my YouTube channel, featuring the song along with pictures that capture my journey so far — from my LLC paperwork to my first logos and snapshots of building Tootie’s Social House and The Tootie Show.

This track is the heartbeat of everything I’m creating: a restaurant, bar, live venue, community hub, and podcast space that’s all about music, connection, and good vibes. 🎤✨

It’s only the beginning, but I wanted to let you in on the ride. Check out the video, listen to the track, and take a peek at the progress behind the dream. 🚀

👉 Watch it here:

This track is a high-energy fusion of electronic, EDM, dance, house, and deep bass — crafted to set the tone for everything I’m building.It’s more than just ...

09/16/2025

I’ve been working hard in the studio, and I’m excited to finally share my second song drop! 🙌💚 This one is live on SoundCloud tonight — an EDM-inspired dance/house track that brings the energy and sets the vibe.

I’m already working on my next project — a full rap track — so stay tuned because that’s coming soon. But in the meantime, I’d love for you to check out this one, show it some love, and dance it out with me. 🕺✨

This is officially my second full track ever made… and I’m really proud of myself for putting it out there. 🚀

This track is a high-energy fusion of electronic, EDM, dance, house, and deep bass — crafted to set the tone for everything I’m building.

It’s more than just music — it’s the official sound of Tootie’s Social House 🎶✨ Coming soon: a one-of-a-kind restaurant, bar, live music venue, and community hub right here in Green Bay, WI. And of course, the home of my podcast, The Tootie Show 🎤.

This song is the kickoff anthem to the movement — a taste of the energy, creativity, and good vibes you can expect from everything under the Tootie brand. 💚

Turn it up, share the love, and join the journey. 🚀

The beat drops, the vibes rise. 💚✨ This is just the beginning… Welcome to Tootie’s Social House & The Tootie Show!

This track is a high-energy fusion of electronic, EDM, dance, house, and deep bass — crafted to set the tone for everything I’m building. It’s more than just music — it’s the official sound of Tootie

09/13/2025

What I Learned From an Unexpected Encounter The Other Night

The other night, I ran into someone from my past — someone I’ve had tension and drama with before. Honestly, it could have been awkward. But instead of brushing it off or being rude, I chose to stand tall, stay respectful, and have a short conversation.

Here’s what I realized:

You don’t have to be best friends with everyone.

You don’t have to re-open the door to toxic energy.

But you can still be kind, cordial, and respectful in the moment.

I had just finished a long shift, I was tired, but I still took the time to listen, talk, and be kind. Does this mean we’ll ever be close again? No. But it does mean I can treat someone with dignity in public, even if we’re not walking the same path anymore.

Because here’s the truth: hate never heals. Respect does.

Kindness doesn’t mean weakness. It means you know your boundaries, but you also know the value of treating people with dignity — even when you disagree, even when history is messy.

🌎 Drama can keep going, toxicity can linger, and sometimes the hardest choice is knowing when to step back. There are moments where you have to block people for your own peace — and that’s okay. But respect can still exist without closeness. You can be polite, kind, and cordial — without inviting someone back into your circle.

We all have different opinions, different views, different ways of living. That doesn’t mean we have to choose hate. If we really want a better world, we start with kindness — even toward people we’ll never be close to again.

💡 Respect isn’t weakness. Respect is leadership.

And that’s the culture I’m building at Tootie’s Social House:

People first. Respect always. Community over conflict.

That’s growth. That’s community. And that’s the future I’m building.

09/13/2025

The Story of the Wash Rag

Two days ago—on Thursday—I was working the evening shift at my regular job, running the steak special table. Things had slowed down a bit when I noticed an older lady sitting in one of my booths, waiting on her Italian food. She had ordered a few of the specials, and the kitchen was preparing them fresh.

As she sat there, she came up to me and asked, “Is that you that smells so good?” I laughed and said, “Yeah, most likely—it’s probably my perfume. I get that a lot.” She told me how much she loved the scent, and we started chatting. She was the sweetest little old lady—kind and full of warmth.

A little later, she went back to her car. When she returned, she had her knitting with her. She looked at me and said, “When I get done with this, I’m going to give it to you. It’ll be a wash rag, because you’re such a sweet person—you’re so kind, bubbly, and you’ve got a beautiful smile. And you smell so good!”

I told her she didn’t have to do that, but she insisted. Her food came out before she was finished knitting, so she asked, “Are you going to be here tomorrow?” I told her I’d be working 6 to 2, and she said, “Perfect. I need to come back for some shopping tomorrow anyway, since the sale I wanted doesn’t start until then. I’ll finish it tonight and bring it back.”

I honestly didn’t think much of it—I figured it was just a kind thought.

But the next day, while I was working a very busy shift, she walked back in. She stopped me and handed me the knitted wash rag she had promised. With a smile, she said, “Thank you again for everything you do—for your personality, and for loving people.”

I was stunned. Something so small, yet so big at the same time. She really did it.

This moment warmed my heart and reminded me why I love working in customer service. Yes, I have my tough days, and sometimes my personality feels like it needs lifting, too—but this is why I do what I do. You never know what someone is going through, and just showing them love and kindness can start a ripple effect.

This wasn’t at my own business—it was at my regular job—but it’s exactly the kind of kindness I want to bring into my future business, too. Simple, genuine connections that remind people they matter. Because at the end of the day, that’s what makes all of this worth it.

09/11/2025

My heart goes out to all the lives lost and affected by yesterday’s tragedies — from Charlie Kirk, the podcast host who was shot, to the students hurt in the Evergreen High School shooting in Colorado, to 23-year-old Iryna Zarutska, who was killed on the train. Every life matters. I’m not here to debate politics or take sides. My podcast and my mission are about uplifting, spreading kindness, and bringing people together. Hate only divides us further. Let’s remember to send love, compassion, and prayers to all the families hurting right now.

09/09/2025

✨ I’ve been connecting with a lot of leaders and entrepreneurs on LinkedIn lately — learning, growing, and seeing so much truth in what’s being shared. As I grow as an entrepreneur myself, it’s opening my eyes, and I can’t help but share it forward in the hope it sparks change for someone else too.

👉 I think a lot of leaders need to read this:

Too often, leadership gets caught up in the image, the title, or the corporate side of things. But here’s the reality: without the employees on the ground — the ones serving customers, keeping things moving, and holding everything together — the business doesn’t survive.

True leadership isn’t about walking around like you’re untouchable. It’s about noticing the struggles your team is facing, checking in, and asking: “How are you doing? What can I do to help?”

Real leadership isn’t just about results. It’s about teaching at someone’s pace, noticing their challenges, and creating a space where they feel valued. Because when your team feels supported, your business thrives.

And here’s the truth: when good workers keep leaving, that should be an eye-opener. Something is broken. It’s not always about chasing the “perfect image.” Sometimes the best thing a leader can do is focus on their people first — because when your people are okay, your business will be okay.

💡 Food for thought: Too many leaders get lost in the image and the corporate world, forgetting about the employees who actually keep the business alive. Without them, there is no company. Maybe it’s time more companies step back and ask not just “How is the business doing?” but “How are our people doing?”

I’m still learning and growing every day, but if even one leader takes this to heart, maybe we’ll start to see more workplaces built on respect, care, and true leadership. That’s the kind of change we need.

⚠️ Not trying to start anything — but let’s be real, this is a problem everywhere. And if we want better businesses, stronger communities, and healthier teams, we need to step up and take care of our people first.

09/09/2025

Stop telling yourself you’re not qualified, good enough, or worthy. Growth happens when you start doing the things you’re not qualified to do.” – Steven Bartlett

At the beginning, I didn’t think I could do half the things I’m doing now.

I never thought I’d become a server, learn how to bartend, or take orders in a fast-paced, high-quality restaurant. I doubted my ability to remember everything, but I surprised myself — and I was good at it. Not perfect (none of us are), but good.

I never imagined I’d have the confidence to go to shows and connect with people, host a podcast, do live interviews, or step behind the camera as a photographer and videographer. I never thought I’d rap, create DJ mixes, or — most of all — run my own business. Yet here I am, LLC in hand, working toward opening my own bar, restaurant, and podcast hub from the ground up.

It all started with moments of stepping out of my comfort zone and just doing it.

I’ll never forget one day at Buffalo Wild Wings: I was working as a host when a coworker fell, and suddenly we were one server short in the middle of a jam-packed shift. I didn’t freeze. I didn’t question myself. I jumped in — taking orders, grabbing drinks, helping guests. By the end of the night, my managers were saying, “She’s really good at serving.” That moment opened doors for me to host, serve, learn bartending, handle takeout, prep food, and more.

That was the birth of my growth. Not because I was “qualified,” but because I acted.

And here’s the bigger truth: for years, I was told what I couldn’t do — because of my disability, my health, or not having the “right” title on paper. Rejection after rejection tried to convince me I wasn’t enough.

But I AM enough. And growth doesn’t wait for permission slips. Growth happens when you step out, when you create your own path, when you choose to believe in yourself and put in the work.

That’s what I’m doing with Tootie’s Social House and my podcast — building something that reflects my vision, my values, and my fire.

So if you’re holding back because you don’t feel “qualified,” let this be your reminder: start anyway. The qualification comes in the doing.

✨ Growth begins in the moments you decide to be brave.

09/07/2025

🎤🔥 Been locked in the studio all day cooking up something special! It’s not quite ready to drop yet, but I couldn’t wait to give you all a little heads-up. This one isn’t a DJ track—it’s a RAP track! 💥 I’ve been grinding hard on it, and there’s still a few tweaks and edits left before it’s fully polished… but trust me, I can’t wait to share the finished version with you. 🙌🎶

09/03/2025

So I was watching this TV show the other night, and I couldn’t believe what I saw. A high-end restaurant in New York City was serving live octopus on a stick. Yes, live. You literally have to hold it a certain way, push it down your throat, and eat it while it’s still moving. It was honestly one of the most disgusting things I’ve ever seen in my life. I even had to look it up to make sure it was real and it turns out it is! It actually started in Korea as a dish called sannakji, where octopus is served so fresh it’s still wriggling.

But watching people do it? I couldn’t even handle it. The way it was suctioning onto their mouths, like a wrestling match between you and your dinner, just freaked me out. And on top of that, they were also eating bugs at this fancy restaurant. Bugs. On purpose. At that point I would rather just go hungry!

Now, don’t get me wrong I’m all about trying new things, stepping outside my comfort zone, and being adventurous. But an octopus crawling in my mouth? Nope. If it ain’t cooked, it ain’t happening. The idea of it suctioning to my throat makes me gag just thinking about it.

So here’s my question for you: would you dare to try it? Would you be brave enough to eat live octopus at a top restaurant just for the experience? Or are you with me, running in the opposite direction? 🐙😂 And just to be clear this will never be on the menu at my restaurant. But hey… if it was, who would actually show up to try it?

08/31/2025

You ever hear people say, “my s**t don’t stink”? Yeah, let’s clear that up real quick—YES. IT. DOES. 💩😷

When the person actually taking the s**t is trying to run away from their own bathroom like it’s a crime scene… that’s when you know it’s bad. I about killed myself in there. 🤦‍♀️😂

And here’s the kicker: apparently, my body decided to get real creative. I’m not giving it away 👀 but let’s just say my 💩 came out in the shape of a full-on capital letter. How is that even possible?! Like, is my gut trying to send me coded messages now? 🙃

Antibiotics, probiotics, yogurt, or not—nothing prepared me for that masterpiece. Unique? Yes. Deadly? Also yes. 🚽🔥

💬 Real talk though—has anybody else ever gotten weird shapes (full-size alphabet letters 👀) out of their s**t?! Because this is 100% a podcast-worthy conversation now. 🎙️😂 Tune in and let me know!