Cheyenne Robinson

04/16/2025

One of the simplest (but most overlooked) tools for boosting confidence in and out of the bedroom:

Journaling.

Not the “Dear Diary, today I ate oatmeal” kind—but real, raw reflections on what lights you up, what makes you feel powerful, and what you’re ready to let go of.

Here are 3 quick prompts to try this week:

1. When do I feel the most confident?
2. What parts of my body do I love today?
3. What’s one desire or boundary I want to explore more?

It’s all about getting curious and building trust with yourself.

Self-awareness is s*xy.
And journaling is self-love in action!

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04/14/2025

Monday mood: Let’s clear up one of the biggest myths about intimacy.

Myth: If you’re not instantly “in the mood,” something must be wrong with you.
Truth: That’s not how most bodies—or brains—work.

Desire doesn’t always show up out of nowhere. For many people, it builds after things get started. This is called responsive desire, and it’s completely normal.

You’re not broken. You’re not “low drive.”
You might just need space, safety, and the right kind of spark to let desire unfold.

Understanding your body’s cues and patterns is one of the most powerful forms of self-trust you can build.

So this week, give yourself some grace.
Slow down. Tune in.
Your body doesn’t need to rush—it just needs to be heard.

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04/11/2025

Did anyone else graduate without ever learning how to talk about what they actually enjoy?

Spoiler: “good” intimacy doesn’t just happen. It’s built through communication, curiosity, and confidence—and most of us were never taught how to explore that in a safe, pressure-free way.

That’s why I created the Yes-No-Maybe-So Pleasure Menu—a totally free worksheet that helps you explore your likes, boundaries, and “I’m-not-sure-yets” at your own pace.

Whether you’re solo or partnered, it’s a great way to start those healthy, open convos.

Grab it here:

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10/26/2024

My typical weekend usually starts with me sleeping in until 7 or 8. I make a grocery store trip, do one big house project, content creation, then other chores. I usually find time within the weekend to take Lizzie to the self dog wash as well.

Sometimes, I will also treat myself to an iced coffee too!

When I’m not doing chores or errands, I’m probably watching a new tv series, diamond painting, or just relaxing. ☺️

This weekend, I went to HEB, worked on de-cluttering my bathroom, and rearranged furniture in my office.

I started watching this series Misfits on Hulu. It’s an old one, but it intrigued me! Robert Sheehan is in it, who I recognized from the Umbrella Academy. It also has Antonia Thomas, who I’ve seen in the Good Doctor! It also has Iwan Rheon and I couldn’t figure out why I didn’t like him, but it’s because he played Ramsay Bolton in Game of Thrones.

To be honest, the show isn’t that great but I do like sci-fi and it’s fun to see these actors when they were in their early 20s.

But all in all a pretty typical weekend for me!

Do you have favorite actors that you enjoy watching?

10/25/2024

It’s so weird calling myself a homebody, but since the pandemic I’ve really become someone who enjoys being at home. 🏡 

I used to go out the bars most weekends in my 20s, but that’s the last thing I want to do these days. I’d much rather relax, go sightseeing, checkout a new museum, have a game night, or try something new.

Being alone at home most of the time, I can be as loud as I want. No need to turn the tv down or worry if I’m using the living room too much. It def had its pros!

I do somethings feel a bit lonely, but I stay pretty busy with work, content creation, and spending time with Lizzie McGuire 😊

I always thought I’d have a partner, kid or two, and family by now, but that has not been in the cards yet.

For now, I’m enjoying solace in solitude and taking this stage of life day by day.

Do you consider yourself a social butterfly or homebody?

10/24/2024

When I look back at my career, it isn’t hugely surprising where I ended up in my corporate job, but my side business is a whole other story.

My first time as an entrepreneur was selling gel pen tattoos on the play ground, then later I made handmade cards. I really enjoyed making cards.

I loved writing too. Especially, creative writing.

But, I loved public speaking the most. It’s actually why I picked Public Relations as my major, but honestly PR is mostly all writing so I obviously had no clue what public relations really meant 😆

I worked a few retail jobs growing up, then spent most of my late teens and 20s as a server in my home town then later at Texas Roadhouse.

At junior college, I also did a semester on the newspaper. One of the stories I wrote was about a woman I had a class with that had challenges with addiction. The story covered how it impacted her family and how she was able to get help and heal.

My favorite teacher at TJC was my English professor, and I always got A’s on my papers too!

I later went to UT Austin, but the difference from a small city like Tyler to a big city like Austin post breakup was over stimulating to say the least.

It wasn’t long before I was back home and started working at the local radio station. I really loved working with small businesses and getting to create creative radio campaigns for them and write their radio scripts too.

But I just knew that I needed a job that was more innovative and would help me grow. That’s one thing about me, I don’t like stay stagnant. I like to grow. While we all have setbacks in live and sometimes just naturally go backwards, I like to try to stay focused on growing and going up!

That’s why I needed something to challenge me more and I found my corporate job in Fort Worth about 10 years ago.

A few years into being in this area, I started volunteering in the LGBTQIA+ community and getting involved in non-profits that focused on safe s*x practices and education. I truly loved it and felt at home.

It was the first time I felt like I could truly be me and it was acceptable and encouraged.

Now in the midst of all those years, I did try out several direct sales gigs but I wasn’t super passionate about them, and I didn’t last long… 😆🤪

However, in 2021, I was asked to checkout Pure Romance and at that time I had just closed on my house. I had always thought it would be amazing to create a space for women where they could feel they free to of judgement to own their s*xuality and be encouraged to be themselves.

And Pure Romance was and is doing just that.

It was a no brained for me. I’m so glad I decided to go all in! I thought I would just be empowering others but I have learned SO much and it’s truly empowered me too!

Did you end up where you thought you’d be?

10/23/2024

Have we met in person? I’m curious how you’d describe me!

I’ve been told I’m the same as I am online, but I don’t know if I entirely agree.

The reason being is that I really struggle with in person interactions. Especially, small talk. 🙅🏻‍♀️

If I feel comfortable with you, I do much better! If I’m not there yet, I will prob be more fidigity and nervous and subconsciously be trying to “mask.”

If you’re not familiar with the term masking, it’s also known as camouflaging, is a behavioral strategy that some people use to appear neurotypical and fit in with others.

Well, you might ask, “Cheyenne, how do you talk about being yourself fully but struggle with masking?”

And I’d respond that that is a very good question! One that I don’t have all the answers too but what I do know is that the more you can be true to yourself the easier it is to feel confident and not worry about what others think.

And that it can be harder than it sounds. You have to continue to really work at this.

I am not perfect and being neurodivergent means that I have certain quirks and that it still stings sometimes when people react to them.

Hence the masking is an unconscious coping and protection measure.

One that I hope I can eventually shed.

My point here though is that we all have our struggles big or small. They are struggles that we might be fighting, but it is easier when we talk about them. 😊

But, “Cheyenne, what are you like when you are comfortable?”

Can we talk about aliens?

What’s your favorite conspiracy theory?

And if you’re comfortable, let’s talk about other taboo topics as those are my favorite!

I love to make jokes. You may or may not laugh, but I will absolutely be laughing.

Yes, I laugh at my own jokes even if I’m the only one 🤣🤣

I also make funny noises! Hahaha Meow!

Are you the same when you meet someone in person as you are online or does it take you a bit to get comfortable too?

10/22/2024

If you’re not from DFW, TX, you prob think all of the professional sports stadiums are in Dallas, but that’s not the case!

I actually live 8 minutes away from where the Dallas Cowboys and Texas Rangers play!

This photo (feat my eyebrow blindness 😅) was actually taken at a Texas Rangers game in 2018 before I moved nearby.

Where is here? Arlington, TX!

I moved here in 2020 when I closed on my first home!

At the time, we had been remote-first at my full-time job for several months. I imagined that could change at some point. While I would have preferred to be closer to Dallas or near Magnolia in Fort Worth, I settled for a more budget friendly home half way between Dallas and work. This way, if things changed and I had to start commuting into the office, I’d be able to make it work.

Thankfully, the most I’ve had to commute into work since 2020 has been 1-2 days a week. 😮‍💨 Even tho it’s only 30-45 minutes. I really don’t like the drive 😆

So, I didn’t pick Arlington to be close to the stadium but more so to be able to easily get to places throughout the metroplex.

I do have living in another country and in the Pacific Northwest on my bucket list, so hopefully I’ll be able to accomplish living in those places at least once in my lifetime!

For now, I’m chilling in Arlington, TX with my doggo Lizzie McGuire.

Where are you in the world? 🌎

10/21/2024

It’s hard to believe that it’s been 3 years since I hopped on board with Pure Romance. 👑

Three years ago a friend invited me to her Pure Romance party. The party ended up being canceled, but I saw a message pop up in my inbox from a stranger.

I don’t usually respond to random DM’s, but I was bummed the party was canceled! LOL

She asked if I had ever thought about working at Pure Romance. I said yes!

I actually had thought about it! Well, not Pure Romance specifically but Passion Parties, which was a similar company years ago.

She invited me to an event to learn more and I got a free social media website to start promoting. It was a no brainer for me to go all in!

I had been volunteering for years with a non-profit affiliated with AIDS Healthcare Foundation and saw how empowering a s*x positive community can feel and the difference proper s*x education makes for us all.

I wanted to be able to help facilitate that feeling of community and empowerment for women.

I’m so glad I didn’t hesitate to get started!

P.S. The artwork behind me says “the future is female!” Isn’t that lovely? 👑💕

05/17/2024

I’ve made so many great connections lately! I’m sure not everyone knows what in the world I do, so let me share!

I am a Pure Romance affiliate (and I work full time in B2B marketing).

A lot of people call me a s*xual health educator. However, I consider myself more of an advocate.

I’m that friend who you know you can talk to about anything, and I prob have some advice for you regardless of how spicy the subject may be.

I’ve been an affiliate with the company since 2021.

I got started to make extra income while empowering myself and others to love themselves more, build confidence, embrace sensuality, and do it all without shame.

I do this in 3 ways:

- An empowerment Facebook group: Bitchin' Babes Girl Gang 👑 , it’s a place to inspire, uplift, learn, and laugh!

- Girl’s Nights, 🎉 where I come to your home and put on a presentation that’s part s*xed part stand up for you and your friends! Everyone gets to shop, ask me questions 1:1, and confidently get goodies to spice up their bedroom or level up their self care!

- Sharing on my main profile page about self care and s-x care products that I love, plus tips & tricks! I enjoy helping folks find new things to try at home that they love too!! 🙌🏼 My messenger is seriously open for personal questions! People often reach out to shop and get my recommendations too.

What questions do you have about it?

P.S. You’re safe to ask! I won’t message you unless you want me to reach out!

05/17/2024

👋 Hiiiiiiiiii, Everyone!

I thought you might like to know who I am! Especially, new friends and followers!

📍I am originally from Stewards Mill, Texas (Freeco). Now, I live with my doggo Lizzie McGuire in Arlington, TX. I mostly work remotely for a Fort Worth-based software company.

My unpopular opinions are:

📺 Revolution was canceled too soon
🥫 ketchup is gross
🎧 audiobooks are better than paper 📕
🤘🏼 UT Austin is the best in all things

Do you agree or disagree with these?

♥️ I love to travel, be outdoors, and create art (mostly color in coloring books). I love public speaking so much that being a motivational speaker would be a dream come true for me!

👯My friends would say I’m a real ride or die that goes from professional to ratchet 🤣 I’m funny like Betty White with Piglet energy. 🙃

😈 I’ve been helping women shamelessly own their personal pleasure for 3 years as a Pure Romance affliate.

🎉For a long time, I thought this would be a fun gig. Plus, I had experience in s-xual health advocacy. When I was offered the option to get started at no cost, it was a no brainer for me.

I’m so glad that I did because it’s helped me become more confident and help others do the same!

If you’re new here and haven’t yet grabbed my freeee 5-steps to building confidence, grab it here: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/852389/120606746294093369/share

P.S. You’re invited to hang out with me in the Bitchin' Babes Girl Gang 👑 to add more spice and supportive people to your life!