It Matters, Co.

10/13/2025

Honoring our true founders. Happy indigenous people day.

09/01/2023

One foot in front of the other…the possibilities are endless. Resources as vast as the ocean come to me. Jump…

It is said that before entering the sea
a river trembles with fear.

She looks back at the path she has traveled,
from the peaks of the mountains,
the long winding road crossing forests and villages.

And in front of her,
she sees an ocean so vast,
that to enter
there seems nothing more than to disappear forever.

But there is no other way.
The river can not go back.

Nobody can go back.
To go back is impossible in existence.

The river needs to take the risk
of entering the ocean
because only then will fear disappear,
because that’s where the river will know
it’s not about disappearing into the ocean,
but of becoming the ocean.

~ Khalil Gibran

10/05/2022

We would be honored if you joined us!

What does it take to create a life that you love? 💖

Join me and my friend on Insta live tomorrow, Thursday Oct. 6th, at 930am EST for a conversation on this juicy topic!

Brandi is the founder of Von Tabor & Co, a coaching and consulting company that guides singles to create a life that they love.

07/30/2022

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07/22/2022

Results are in! Here are the results from my self sabotage hack yesterday.

Did you try it?

Post your comments below 👇🏼 and share your results.

07/21/2022

What if all the pain could be regenerated for change?

What if we chose to leverage it to transform our lives, our world, our relationships?

Pain is real and it’s hard. Each of us gave a choice in what we do with it. When you’re ready give it a try.

Hymn For The Hurting by Amanda Gorman

Everything hurts,
Our hearts shadowed and strange,
Minds made muddied and mute.
We carry tragedy, terrifying and true.
And yet none of it is new;
We knew it as home,
As horror,
As heritage.
Even our children
Cannot be children,
Cannot be.

Everything hurts.
It’s a hard time to be alive,
And even harder to stay that way.
We’re burdened to live out these days,
While at the same time, blessed to outlive them.

This alarm is how we know
We must be altered —
That we must differ or die,
That we must triumph or try.
Thus while hate cannot be terminated,
It can be transformed
Into a love that lets us live.

May we not just grieve, but give:
May we not just ache, but act;
May our signed right to bear arms
Never blind our sight from shared harm;
May we choose our children over chaos.
May another innocent never be lost.

Maybe everything hurts,
Our hearts shadowed & strange.
But only when everything hurts
May everything change.

07/21/2022

Challenge accepted?

Your self worth affects how you enter the room. How you interact. How you speak and are heard.

Investing in yourself is never a bad move. This is a small hack to try today to shift from self sabotage to a more confident version of yourself.