01/22/2026
I still miss my dad.
Not in a way that overwhelms me,
but in the quiet spaces where memories live.
I miss him when the day feels heavy,
when life asks questions I don’t have answers to,
and when I wish I could hear his voice
steady and reassuring,
telling me I’m doing just fine.
Some days, I feel grounded and capable.
Other days, I let myself sit with the absence he left behind.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve.
There is only love continuing in a different form.
I wish he were here.
Not because I am unable to live without him,
but because life felt softer when he was part of it.
More secure.
More whole.
My dad didn’t disappear when he passed on.
He remains in my character,
in the compassion I offer others,
and in the quiet lessons he taught simply by being himself.
Time hasn’t weakened my love for him.
It has transformed it —
into gratitude,
into patience,
into a gentle strength I carry forward.
Dad, I miss you.
Always.
Not as a scar,
but as a beautiful reminder
of how deeply I was loved.