02/10/2026
I got divorced today. After an excruciatingly long, 670 day wait. I am divorced. I have both so many words to say, and none at all. So many lies were spewed in that court room today. So much anger and hatred filled the already-stiff air. It was a very tough few hours. I am mentally and emotionally drained.
I do plan to take time another day soon to discuss this in more detail. I am also waiting on the judge to make her custody ruling, so I will know more in a few days. For now, I owe my body and mind some rest.
So, Iāll leave you with this: upon coming home from school, my soon to be 6 year old bonus son walks right up to me and said āHere you go, Tora (heās still working on ācoraā) this is for you.ā At first, I saw that it was pink and black. He knows my favorite color is pink so heās always gifting me pink things. I thought wow, thatās sweet and thanked him. As he walked away, I turned it overā¦ āRise aboveā, it reads. I instantly got chills. God was watching over me today and used this little pink bracelet to speak to me through my bonus son. Rise above. My family and I, and God know the truth, and that is what matters. Truth prevails, and love always wins.
Remember, no matter what happensā¦bloom anyway, Besties. šøš©·
