07/31/2025
If your love life feels like a loop, same wounds, same partners, same ache, you’re not broken.
But something is asking to be healed.
In this episode, I sit down with spiritual dating coach Jen Youngquist to explore what most people avoid:
The invisible ways early emotional wounds embed themselves into the nervous system… and silently script your relationships.
This isn’t just psychology.
It’s physiology.
That ache in your gut when you feel rejected?
That shutdown when someone gets too close?
That compulsion to chase people who feel just out of reach?
That’s not your “attachment style.”
That’s your nervous system doing its job, protecting you from pain you never had the tools to process.
- We talk about how emotionally unavailable caregivers shape your biology.
- How “daddy wounds” distort your sense of safety and worth.
- How the gut and immune system mirror the chaos we normalize in love.
- And how true healing starts when you stop asking, “Why am I like this?”
and start asking,
“What did I have to survive?”
Jen’s story is raw, powerful, and deeply validating.
Through spiritual awakening, physical healing, and nervous system repair, she reclaimed the part of herself that never stopped wanting love, she just stopped trusting it was safe.
This isn’t an episode about relationships.
It’s about remembering who you were before your wounds taught you to settle.
🎧 Listen to Episode 46: Healing Childhood Scars for Better Relationships (link in bio)
If this one cracks something open… it’s because you’re ready.
