UntoldMe

UntoldMe UntoldMe is a story of survival, change, and growth... life with Disassociate Identity Disorder & Complex PTSD. One has high blood pressure. One wears glasses.

“UntoldMe: Living With DID in a World That Doesn’t Understand It”
UntoldMe is my outlet — the place where my voice finally has room to breathe. Without photography and writing, I don’t know where I’d be. I advocate for people living with invisible mental disabilities, and I speak up for Idaho’s homeless population, because the truth is simple: most of us are just one paycheck away from losing ever

ything. I live in one body, but my brain has divided itself into separate parts. This is Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), a condition that takes years of intensive therapy to diagnose and often stems from childhood trauma. Trauma is personal — what devastates one person may seem ordinary to another — but its impact is real. My brain splintered into different versions of me. I am the Host, but my alters each have their own identities, behaviors, preferences, and even physical traits. One loves red lipstick. One smokes Marlboro Reds. One is a man. Together, we form our system, and we protect my inner child, Kimmie. Every system is different. I’m not a doctor; I can’t diagnose anyone. I can only share my reality. When an alter fronts, I lose time. It feels like sitting in the back seat of a car I’m supposed to be driving — watching everything, yet unable to control anything. When I return, my head aches, I yawn, or my eyes feel hot. I dissociate 69.29% of a 12‑hour day. I didn’t know any of this until I saw myself on video and said, “That’s not me.” But it was — just not the version I knew. My wife of 13 years has carried more of this burden than anyone. She’s lived through the confusion, the repeated conversations, the missing memories, the strange behaviors, the endless lists, the emotional storms. None of us signed up for this, but love doesn’t come with warning labels. People with DID or complex PTSD often barely exist in the world. Life can feel like hell until you accept who you are and what you stand for. I stand for those who cannot stand for themselves — the ones without a voice. Help me end the stigma surrounding mental illness. It’s time to remove the jacket society has forced onto us. Thank you for stopping by. UntoldMe —

08/31/2026

There is nothing like self-love. How is someone supposed to love another.. If you do not have self-love?

Is it even possible?

Hmmm?? Who knows..

I amI am strong I am worthy I am enough I am doing what needs to be done I am my future I will not waver from the path I...
08/13/2026

I am

I am strong I am worthy I am enough I am doing what needs to be done I am my future I will not waver from the path I choose my path I choose my direction for I am me. I will not allow everything to crumble and fall My will is strong My determination is even stronger My desire to make it past the threshold will keep me moving in the right direction…...

I REFUSE TO ALLOW EVERYTHING TO GO TO S**T!!!I will do whatever it takes to get where I wanna be in life. I've worked tw...
08/13/2026

I REFUSE TO ALLOW EVERYTHING TO GO TO S**T!!!

I will do whatever it takes to get where I wanna be in life. I've worked two fu***ng hard to go back. I will not stop until I get there. Because there's a fire that burns inside of me... And that's to prove that I am worthy of a real life. A good life. The life that I was meant to lead....

I will do whatever it takes to get where I wanna be in life. I’ve worked two fu***ng hard to go back. I will not stop until I get there. Because there’s a fire that burns inside of me& #…

07/08/2026

I can only control HOW I RESPOND & HANDLE my current situation at hand. Even, tho I am freaking the f-word out inside... on the outside.. I am as cool as a mother effin' cucumber... reports been made... everything will work is way out, the way it's supposed to be! I got me, the universe has me and mother nature has my back.. I am good... I am SOOOO GOOD!! Be kind to others! You never know you could be someone's sanctuary & not even realize it!

Watching….I get the biggest kick out of a watching our elders with our grandchildren. It warms my heart everytime we are...
07/05/2026

Watching….

I get the biggest kick out of a watching our elders with our grandchildren. It warms my heart everytime we are all able to come together and be a family. I really wish it was with all of our children and their children. Things sometimes don't always go as planned. And that's okay. It sucks, but still that's okay, I have to look at the brighter side and see where the focus desreves to being given....

I get the biggest kick out of a watching our elders with our grandchildren. It warms my heart everytime we are all able to come together and be a family. I really wish it was with all of our childr…

06/28/2026

I am…

I am a leader in my own pack, tribe, family... call it what you will. I do not follow... I will NOT comform... I am... who I am... For reasons, not even I fully understand... just yet... hold on... for its most likely going to be a rough rocky ride! Hello World... Welcome to UntoldMe...

We all have our piw. M?mb%If ygou could change the ending of any book, which one would it be? Mine.... I can honestly s...
06/25/2026

We all have our piw. M?mb%

If ygou could change the ending of any book, which one would it be? Mine.... I can honestly say, it would mine, and it's not fully finished.. that's okay, because I am a work in progress♡

If ygou could change the ending of any book, which one would it be? Mine…. I can honestly say, it would mine, and it’s not fully finished.. that’s okay, because I am a work in p…

When family tends to misunderstand, the Who’s and Why’s of who you are and what you stand for…To have to put distance be...
06/24/2026

When family tends to misunderstand, the Who’s and Why’s of who you are and what you stand for…

To have to put distance between yourself and a loved one. Is horrific, especially when you know inside of this person they love you. Or so I really do hope. Recently, I helped my little sister leave a domestic relationship. This was the sister who I had been astrained from for over 9 1/2 years. The one who i am closest to in age....

To have to put distance between yourself and a loved one. Is horrific, especially when you know inside of this person they love you. Or so I really do hope. Recently, I helped my little sister leav…

The anger within…Being disappointed in a loved one is very unsettling. It shatters hearts, it breaks everything within y...
06/08/2026

The anger within…

Being disappointed in a loved one is very unsettling. It shatters hearts, it breaks everything within you. Nothing ever seems to make it better. In fact, it feels as if your smothering.. you're lungs filling full of anger & dispair... a very very slow death. You hit a part of total denial. So many uncertainties... Where you once exhaled clairvoyance.. insecurities now reside....

Being disappointed in a loved one is very unsettling. It shatters hearts, it breaks everything within you. Nothing ever seems to make it better. In fact, it feels as if your smothering.. you’…

06/07/2026

Love the version of you that needs it the most, your inner child.

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