08/23/2026
White people do not have “easy hair.” Neither does anybody else.
Different textures simply distribute the grooming work differently.
Straighter hair may need more frequent maintenance throughout the day. Sweat, humidity, wind, hats, and movement can completely change the way it looks.
Afro hair can often stay in one style for a much longer period of time. But when you decide to change that style, the time and labor required can be significantly greater.
So when you look at grooming as a whole—not just how long it takes to do one hairstyle—I believe it balances out.
Some textures take longer to perform the same task. Other textures require that task to be performed more frequently. Different maintenance rhythms. Not easier hair.
And this is where I think we have to be honest about living in a Western society.
A lot of the grooming practices, products, tools, schedules, and beauty standards that surround us were developed around the hair, bodies, environments, and lifestyles of the people who created them.
So when our hair takes longer, when a routine feels inconvenient, or when something simply doesn’t fit into our lifestyle, that does not automatically mean our hair is “difficult.”
Sometimes the system was never designed around our ecosystem in the first place.
I believe every head of hair is the flower of the body. Every strand is its own ecosystem, responding to its environment, its “soil,” and the grooming practices we expose it to.
There is no universally easy texture.
There are just different ecosystems—and we have to learn how to groom accordingly.