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12/06/2025

ITS NOT ON THE OTHER PARENT...⬇️ Pulling out from having your child is not something the primary parent really gets a choice in as they are with the child most of the time If they are ill, tired etc...they still have to show up🤔 Yet SOME non resident parents will pull out at the last minute without seeking any other help from their side of the family first I fully agree with coparents supporting each other however some people have a habit of pulling out at the last minute in order to throw the other parents plans off or because they feel something better is now available❌️ This is your weekend therefore it is your responsbility to show up or make alternative arrangements💯 Remember...this is only my opinion but as always be sure to let me know your thoughts/experiences in the comments as they help so many others 🙏🏼

12/06/2025

THE OVERALL COST...⬇️ The main parent will most likely have a larger outgoing cost than you due to them living with your child your outgoing cost towards your child will only ever increase if you CHOOSE to do extra The primary parent doesnt have the luxury of choice most of the times Some parents are told what to pay by the CMS and this will be all they give - please understand this amount will MOST LIKELY only be a small dent in the overall cost it takes to support your child each month For this reason there are many parents who give more or go halfs to support additional expenses Either way...taking away money in MY OPINION should never be an option unless you have decided to increase your overnight stay arrangements with your child on a full time basis or extended period Doing this because its a school holiday period or you are taking your child on holiday does not count (again...this is my opinion) Look at the overall cost of living and what is being spent and really think about how much you would be spending if you were the primary parent 🙏🏼

12/06/2025

INCONSISTENCY THROWS THEM...⬇️ I've said it 1000 times but will continue to scream it📢 YOUR CHILD NEEDS CONSISTENCY 💯 Consistency doesnt need to be 5 times a week it just needs to be a pattern your child recognises and understands for e.g some see their parent once a week, others every tuesday and wednesday..others every other week They know what to expect and also know how to prepare for these moments🤔 when we chop and change what we do and jump in and out based on our own wants, we have a negative impact on our child❌️ i understand things will change and some days may be swapped however, if you are consistently inconsistent...you are making life more difficult for a child that needs so much more from you 🙏🏼

12/05/2025

DID WE HAVE MUSIC VIDEOS...⬇️ I am really lost as to how old my child thinks i am🙈 The more i show him about my childhood the more i realise....I AM OLD!!!! 😫😫😫 These are great conversations to have with your kids to not only reminisce but to also allow them to know more about you and your childhood 🙏🏼

12/05/2025

WHAT I WISH I UNDERSTOOD....⬇️ I want to allow this video to speak for itself but i will say that both of these tips places your future in your hands🙌🏽 Dont react to situations instead plan for them and ensure you are in the best possible position with the best person for you💯 The older version of you will either be happy or vex with the decisions you make at this stage in your life 🙏🏼

12/05/2025

WHAT DO YOU LOVE....⬇️ We can often find ourselfs in relarionships that have stopped being right for us a long time ago maybe we remember a great period of time at the start of the relarionship which you keep hoping you get back to maybe you've had a child and that is now your reason or maybe youve been together for so many years that the length of time becomes your reason for not letting go⏳️ not EVERY relationship deserves you for life❌️ not every person deserves your loyalty and love❌️ please take a moment to ask yourself what it is you love about the person thats actually keeping you in this space🤷🏽‍♂️ and if you really cant answer that question then maybe this space is no longer for you 🙏🏼

12/04/2025

ALL DETAILS ARE IN MY BIO 🙌🏽

12/04/2025

REPEAT after me!...⬇️ let me know in the comments if you got confused or will even try this on your own children 🙌🏽

12/04/2025

WHERE ARE THEY....⬇️ Those that grew up before mobile phones will understand the searching you would have to do at times to find out where your friends had gone...🤷🏽‍♂️ i went on some serious adventures trying to locate people just to hang out💯 how easy life is now for these kids 🤷🏽‍♂️

12/03/2025

IMPACT OVER OBJECTS...⬇️ There is nothing wrong with buying your children material items but what are they getting from you ontop of this What are they seeing from you🤔 What are they learning from you🤔 Are you setting a positive example🤔 We cant keep using a man not being in the home as an excuse for how our children turn out, and instead work harder to ensure we still have a positive impact and influence on our children 🙌🏽 When you do not live with your child its important you work harder to have that impact 💯 Them not living with you should'nt mean they miss out on learning, understanding and seeing certain things from you as a man however... This is on you, not the other parent 🙏🏼

12/03/2025

ARE YOU CONSISTENT....⬇️ So i googled "Consistency" and found that in relation to parenting it means the following; "Consistency in parenting means you are predictable in your expectations, reactions and actions. You will follow through and do as you said you would do." I think this makes alot of sense and will provide your child with a sense of safety and security that is needed whilst they grow.💙 The problem we often have is we want to blame the other parent for what WE are choosing to do.🙈 If you have access to your child and are choosing not to be consistent and refusing not to provide them with a routine... Then when your child doesnt feel as content or happy around you, that is not the other parents fault.❌️ It is not the child being difficult either. ❌️ This is an outcome of YOUR inconsistent behaviour.✅️ If i google the word "accountability" it tells me the following; Accountability is the acceptance of responsibility for one's own actions.💯 Are you holding yourself accountable? 🙏🏼

12/03/2025

DONT LET THEM GROW....⬇️ I've admitted previously to telling my childs mum years ago that "no1 will want you because you have a child" this comment wasn't just rude and uncalled for, it was a blatant lie I was simply trying to put doubt into her mind in the hope that she would want to make things work with me that she would think "oh...i better stay with him then" As a man i have seen my childs mum have a very successful relationship and be happy away from me which is a blessing I've also been in relationships since where seeds where planted into my mind and i spent some time watering those seeds and being in a bad place because of it remember exactly who you are and understand the value you bring to someones life this will not make you less because of your past but there will be people trying to tell you otherwise Stay strong 🙏🏼

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