Asher Witmer

22/07/2025

Part of what makes the immigration crisis extra concerning right now is that the Trump administration has been arresting and deporting people who are abiding by the laws of getting proper documentation.

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22/07/2025

One of the issues I never learned about in books before I got married were the many ways I can accidentally make my wife feel ugly. Maybe one could change the word ugly for small or unwanted, but the point is after a few years of marriage, I slowly wake up to the ways I unwittingly made my wife feel like mush.

In case you, like me, never read a book addressing any of these issues, I'll share nine of them to help you better get "ahead of the curve." 😉

Read the article here 👉

Before getting married, I thought being a good husband was about “being ahead of the curve.” In an effort to do so, I devoured as many books on marriage and women as I could possibly find. And I learned a lot! But there were a many things I never learned about in any of those books. One things w...

19/07/2025

Nothing makes a wife feel uglier than when her lover is fantasizing about other women. Even if she doesn’t know he’s looking at po*******hy, she can tell his mind is not on her. His heart is not connected with hers. He is not brightened by her presence, and it makes her feel ugly.

Seemingly small, mere glances at other women also weakens trust and magnifies her insecurities. She begins wondering if she’s enough. If her husband is looking other places for pleasure and beauty. It seems to me a man who takes his marriage seriously will do whatever he possibly can to protect the moral purity of his personal life.

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18/07/2025

How would Jesus interact on social media?

I've been thinking about that a lot lately.

Not just what I say online—but how I say it.

And honestly? Most social media "conversations" aren't conversations at all. They're people talking past each other.

In this video, I share a simple rule I follow to help me engage more like Jesus and less like…well, the comment section.

If you've ever wondered why I didn't reply to your comment—or how we can all be a little more thoughtful online—give this a listen.

16/07/2025

We call immigrants "criminals" for crossing a border… while ignoring how we break laws ourselves. Like skipping permits for a project. Let's talk about what really dehumanizes people—and what it reveals about us.

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15/07/2025

The problem is when we develop our doctrines based on a lifestyle we wish to emulate. We want certain outcomes, and so we cling to specific doctrines. Doctrines that can be backed-up in Scripture, no doubt. But the Scripture was found to support the doctrine, instead of doctrine coming purely from what we have studied and know of God.

However, people are seeing through the hollow foundation. And what is most dangerous is that when people discover they've been duped into something that isn't taught in Scripture, they reject even the scriptures used to teach it.

They reject the very thing that shows how the doctrine was wrong. They reject the very thing that will show more of God and how He intends things to be.

When we don't care about theology, about what God is doing and his plan for the world, for people, we lose sight of the Person of our faith. We miss out on deep relationship with God.

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15/07/2025

People want to frame undocumented and illegal immigrants as criminals... while turning a blind eye the laws they themselves break in their own backyard.

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13/07/2025

I once heard a speaker say that the church is going to lose the next generation because of poor theology.

I believe he's right. He was not saying we don't teach enough about modesty or family or non-resistance. He was saying we don't teach enough about God, about His design and plan for redemption.

In my experience, when we do teach about God, it is based on what we want to see happen around us. Teaching God in that way is like walking on thin ice.

However, the ice has cracked. It did long ago.

People are seeing through the hollow foundation...

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God is intensely relational. When we focus on right or wrong beliefs but fail in our relationships, we have misunderstood God because of poor theology.

12/07/2025

Who do you think commits crime at a higher rate: U.S. born citizens or undocumented immigrants?

Several studies show U.S. born citizens commit crime at a rate of almost twice as much as undocumented or "illegal" immigrants.

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11/07/2025

I think people are leaving because the church is burning up. The place is on fire.

What kind of fire am I talking about?

I'm talking about relationships.

People walk away because the relationships of those within their church were based more on a common way of thinking than on the fact that they were human and worth being treated and loved with dignity.

You can read the full article here 👉 https://www.asherwitmer.com/when-people-walk-away-from-something-it-begs-the-question-why/

11/07/2025

Why does it appear as though I talk more about immigration than I did abortion? Because I wasn't seeing Christians justify abortion like I see them justify not caring for the immigrant.

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10/07/2025

Many people wonder why I speak out about immigration. Some ask, “Why didn’t you speak up about abortion or LGBTQ+ issues?”

Here’s the truth: I believe in legal immigration. I care deeply about obeying Jesus. And I’ve spent most of my adult life among immigrants—so this isn’t just politics to me. It’s personal.

In this video, I share:
-Why undocumented doesn’t always mean “illegal”
-What we’re missing when we label immigrants as “criminals”
-How our politics have shaped us more than the Gospel
-And what it really looks like to follow Jesus in this moment

This isn’t about siding with Trump or Biden. It’s about being faithful to Christ.

👀 Watch now. Think deeply. Let’s grow in being theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well.

📚 Related blog post:
https://www.asherwitmer.com/americanism-immigration-and-a-low-view-of-the-gospel/

📈 For clarification on the crime rates referenced, see https://www.cato.org/policy-analysis/illegal-immigrant-incarceration-rates-2010-2023 andhttps://docs.house.gov/meetings/JU/JU01/20250122/117827/HHRG-119-JU01-20250122-SD004.pdf

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