Spectrum and Chaos

Spectrum and Chaos I’m a mom navigating the beautiful, messy, and meaningful journey of raising a son with level 2 autism.

Autism but make it Cheshire cat!Sometimes I catch my kid grinning like the Cheshire Cat — that sly little smile that say...
06/25/2026

Autism but make it Cheshire cat!

Sometimes I catch my kid grinning like the Cheshire Cat — that sly little smile that says they’re exactly where they want to be, even if the rest of us are still figuring out the map.

They disappear into their own world for a minute and come back with a new way of seeing things that makes me laugh, think, and sometimes rearrange my expectations.

They’re not a character in a storybook; they’re a real, brilliant human who needs patience, routines, and people who will listen without trying to fix every quiet moment. I love that their honesty is fierce, their humor is unexpected, and their perspective is a gift. If the Cheshire Cat taught me anything, it’s to celebrate the mystery and follow the grin.

06/25/2026

Being a boy mom is its own kind of magic — you get a front‑row seat to wild imaginations, big energy, messy adventures, and the sweetest unexpected moments of tenderness. It’s watching a little boy grow into his confidence while knowing you’re his safe place in the world. Chaos, cuddles, and pure heart all wrapped together.

06/25/2026

I got over 1,500 reactions on my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉

Let them... Words I want to live by but have a hard time doing because I am a control freak. Learning to just let things...
06/24/2026

Let them... Words I want to live by but have a hard time doing because I am a control freak. Learning to just let things be and people make their own decisions sounds like a foreign language but it's something I am passionate about working on



Just let them 🩵

Me to the child: you need to eat before we go anywhere Him: screeching no at the top of lungsMe: 🫨The dog: 🫨The cat: 💨Hi...
06/24/2026

Me to the child: you need to eat before we go anywhere

Him: screeching no at the top of lungs

Me: 🫨

The dog: 🫨

The cat: 💨

Him: let's go to the library

Me: eat

Him: Oreos

Me: I ate them all

Him: I'm gonna loose it 😂😂

Happy Wednesday friends it's real neurospicy over here today

Also now he's mad because I didn't make a toy story 6... Disney get on that please

🌪️ The Real, Unfiltered Level 2 Autism MomentsLet’s get real for a second — not the Pinterest‑perfect autism posts, not ...
06/24/2026

🌪️ The Real, Unfiltered Level 2 Autism Moments

Let’s get real for a second — not the Pinterest‑perfect autism posts, not the “every child is a blessing” speeches.

I mean the actual Level 2 autism moments that parents like us live through every single day.The meltdowns because there are no Goldfish.
The devastation because the Oreos are the wrong Oreos.

The full‑body grief because you dared to wash the bedding and now the universe is ruined.The elopement — the running off with zero fear, zero hesitation, zero awareness of danger.

Your heart living permanently in your throat because safety is a full‑time job.The sensory needs that never clock out.

The constant movement, the seeking, the crashing, the spinning, the pressure, the noise.

The overwhelm that hits like a tidal wave because the world is just too much.The sleep issues that make you question if you’re raising a child or a tiny nocturnal forest creature.

The vocal stims that are so loud you swear the neighbors think you’re running a dinosaur sanctuary.The crying — the real, heartbreaking crying — because you reorganized something.
Or moved a pillow.
Or washed a blanket.
Or breathed wrong.This is the part people don’t talk about.

The part that isn’t cute or inspirational.
The part that leaves you exhausted, proud, overwhelmed, and fiercely protective all at once.But it’s also the part that makes our kids who they are —
intense, honest, sensory‑seeking, deeply feeling, beautifully wired little humans who experience the world in a way most people never will.

And parents like us?
We’re doing the impossible every day, even when it looks like chaos from the outside.

Always learning!Today we are reading about the history of our state. He is so interested in the world around him 💙      ...
06/24/2026

Always learning!

Today we are reading about the history of our state. He is so interested in the world around him 💙

Good morning friends! Today started at 130am because my dog hates me 😂 and through the I'm definitely not awake yet madn...
06/24/2026

Good morning friends!

Today started at 130am because my dog hates me 😂 and through the I'm definitely not awake yet madness I dropped my already broken phone and busted my screen.

Yay Wednesday 😭

A barely thriving content creator with a busted phone pretty much sums up life lately.

But we are still thriving, right?

Here's to a better afternoon 🫠..

Have a great day friends and remember that even when things that feel like "life's not fair" happens there is still so much beauty in the world

Anyone want to buy a shirt to contribute to the new phone fund 😂😂

Kidding, kind of 🤪

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