
08/07/2025
I facilitate trainings on topics most people are NOT comfortable addressing... hence, the reason for my existence in organizations!
Today I ran a training on emotional intelligence for high-level engineers - and let me say they’re one of my favorite audiences because it’s often so out of their day-to-day to discuss emotions.
☺️ I enter with empathy and compassion, understanding that this topic can be out of their comfort zones.
❤️ I build trust by setting agreements to give each other room to grow.
🦋 I manage the flow so everyone is heard and have safe ways to participate. (Today was virtual, but when I do this in person, I bring goody bags for everyone... chocolate, a squeeze ball, etc and my clients love this!). 🍫
I used to think I had to be an engineer to train engineers, and almost talked myself out of projects. I now know that that despite being the least engineery person in the room, that actually empowers me to shine in my own genius.
There’s a feeling of endearment I have for people whose jobs focus primarily on their technical output. I get to come in and recognize their humanity and invite them to recognize each other’s humanity and the impact this has on our lives and work.
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This is what purpose driven work looks like.
(Photo: Reading nook on Greenwich St steps, San Francisco 2025)
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