01/14/2026
The garden tells on us. When we stop tending, weeds move in, walls crack, and what once promised a harvest turns into loss. That same law runs through our faith, our families, our work, and our inner life. I share how a decade of backyard gardening became my clearest classroom, especially for men, on why everything you want to see grow only grows because you tend to it—and why neglect always decays the things we love.
We dig into the practical meaning of cultivation: setting daily habits that align with purpose, starving distractions, and watering what matters. I draw from Proverbs 24 to spotlight the cost of laziness and from The Compound Effect to show how tiny, consistent choices add up to transformation. If your time, attention, or household feels scattered, this conversation offers simple ways to reset your inputs, build guardrails, and choose rhythms that create real momentum.
Then we get honest about accountability. “Iron sharpens iron” is more than a phrase; it is a discipline that requires contact, humility, and the courage to be seen. I tell the truth about blind spots, pride, and why cheerleaders rarely make leaders. From King David and Nathan to the promotion problem with old friends, you’ll hear why choosing challengers over comfort is the only way to stay sharp. We wrap with direct questions you can use today to pick one area to cultivate, one habit to start, and one person to hold you to it.
If you’re ready to stop drifting and start tending, press play, take notes, and share this with someone who will ask you the hard questions. Subscribe, leave a five-star review, and tell me the one habit you’ll plant this week. Let’s grow what matters—on purpose.
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