Jalen and Cacie

Jalen and Cacie We help couples build strong, purpose-driven marriages through faith, communication, and vision.

Coaches | Speakers | Authors
Our mission: teach you to discover your marriage purpose, craft a vision for your relationship, and execute a practical plan

06/17/2026

“Should husbands listen to their wives?”

Wisdom isn’t limited to one person in a marriage.

Some of the best decisions we’ve ever made came from conversations where one spouse saw something the other didn’t.

A wise husband doesn’t feel threatened by a wise wife. He benefits from her.

What’s some of the best advice your spouse has ever given you?

06/17/2026

“Why is it so hard to tell your spouse what you need?”

For a long time, I thought communicating my needs made me look weak.

But eventually I realized that expecting someone to meet needs you’ve never communicated isn’t fair to them.

One of the healthiest things we learned in marriage was how to have honest conversations about what we actually needed from each other.

Do you think most people struggle to communicate their needs in marriage?

06/17/2026

“Should your spouse be responsible for your happiness?”

One of the easiest ways to create disappointment in a marriage is expecting your spouse to carry a responsibility they were never designed to carry.

A good husband or wife can support you, encourage you, and care for you.
But when we make another person the source of our happiness, we’re often setting them up to fail.

06/17/2026

“Can you be too selfish for marriage?”

One of the biggest misconceptions about marriage is that it’s primarily about getting your needs met.

The healthiest seasons of our marriage weren’t the seasons where we focused on what we were receiving. They were the seasons where we were intentional about what we were giving.

Marriage gets difficult when two people are keeping score.

Do you think selfishness is one of the biggest threats to a marriage?

🚨 MARRIED COUPLES: WE GO LIVE IN 2 HOURS 🚨Nobody plans to have an affair. Nobody gets married thinking they’ll one day c...
06/17/2026

🚨 MARRIED COUPLES: WE GO LIVE IN 2 HOURS 🚨

Nobody plans to have an affair. Nobody gets married thinking they’ll one day cross a line that damages their marriage.

That’s exactly why boundaries matter.

Today, we’re teaching a FREE live webinar called:

How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

We’re going to discuss the guardrails every healthy marriage needs, why good people still make bad decisions, and how to protect your relationship before problems start.

This isn’t about fear; it’s about wisdom.

If your marriage is worth protecting, this conversation is worth having.

Registration closes soon.

https://jalenandcacie.com/webinar

Tag your spouse and join us in 2 hours!

06/16/2026

Can trust ever be restored after betrayal?

Rebuilding trust requires more than words. It requires consistent actions, healthy boundaries, and transparency over time.

If you had to choose, which matters most: consistency, boundaries, or transparency?

If your spouse got a text message tonight from someone of the opposite s*x and immediately deleted it, would that be a p...
06/16/2026

If your spouse got a text message tonight from someone of the opposite s*x and immediately deleted it, would that be a problem?

Most people answer that question by talking about trust. But what if that’s the wrong conversation?

What if the real question is:

“What boundaries have we agreed to in our marriage?”

Healthy marriages aren’t protected by trust alone. They’re protected by boundaries.

That’s what we’re talking about in our FREE webinar tomorrow:

How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

We’re going to discuss the practical guardrails every couple should have around friendships, texting, social media, transparency, and emotional connection.

You don't have to expect the worst but you do need to protect what's valuable.

Join us tomorrow Wednesday June 17 at 11am ET for this FREE webinar. Reserve your seat here: https://jalenandcacie.com/webinar

06/16/2026

Do you think honesty strengthens a marriage or does it create more conflict?

One of the hardest things we ever did was stop hiding the things we were struggling with and start having honest conversations about them.

Those conversations weren’t easy, but they helped us heal much faster.

What’s the hardest truth you’ve ever had to share in a relationship?

06/16/2026

Did marriage reveal things about you you didn't know about yourself?

We’ve found that marriage has a way of bringing out both your strengths and your weaknesses at the same time.

What’s something marriage revealed about you that surprised you?

06/15/2026

Do you believe the first year of marriage is the hardest year?

Some couples say yes. Others say every stage brings new challenges.

One thing we've learned is that the issues you ignore early rarely disappear. They often become patterns that follow you for years.

What was the biggest challenge during your first year of marriage?

Let's talk about it below.

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