Committed Husband

09/11/2023

Turns out we can learn a lot about personal growth from Frodo Baggins...

The world of Middle-Earth, with its enchanting landscapes, mystical creatures, and epic tales of heroism, is a treasure trove of life lessons. At the heart of this world is a young hobbit named Frodo Baggins. Now, you might wonder, “What does a fictional character from J.R.R. Tolkien’s ‘The Lo...

08/24/2023

I wrote this as a part 2 to my previous post. I think more than any post I've written that one garnered the most questions, so here is my follow up.

WARNING: This has the potential to anger some but the truth be told, we're all to blame. Yes, you too.

I hope you enjoyed the last post where we talked about the role of emotions in masculinity and how emotional intelligence and vulnerability can redefine what it means to be a man. I wanted to continue that conversation and go a little deeper. In this follow-up, we’ll explore the specific aspects o...

08/17/2023

Some of you will not agree with this post, and that's okay. Some of you will applaud it, and that's okay too. Either way, let's have a discussion. Head on over to blog and leave a comment and let's discuss.

Today, we’re going to talk about something you’ve probably heard a lot about: gender roles. These are like unspoken rules that tell us how boys and girls should act. For example, boys are often told to be strong and not to cry, while girls might be told to be nice and caring. But who decides [.....

05/19/2022

It is the burden we all carry, and the most difficult of all human problems. If two people (any two, in any kind of human relationship) can find the desire, faith, will, and energy to do the work at finding a way to address this ANCIENT obstacle to fashion a bridge that works in both directions, then the possibilities are heavenly.

If not, it's sheer misery. Misery. Over and over again until the lesson is learned.

04/29/2022

Interesting Marriage Fact:

In the USA right now about 450 men a month search for ways to prove their undying love to their wives with a tattoo.

390 married men a month search 'How to Show Your Wife You Love Her."

Nowhere in the top answer pages anywhere on the internet are there any suggestions to go take torture implements to your skin to turn your marriage around, nor any Psychologist or Marriage Counselor showing up on The View decrying the lack of tattoos as a way to wedded bliss.

So, 390 guys a month want to know how to show their wife she is cherished beyond measure, 450 guys ignore all the best advice and go rolling out the door to get a tattoo.

The future looks bright, indeed! 🤣

Lesson? Ask her. If you don't know what to ask her, find out. Go directly to the source or somebody who can tell you what questions to ask.

That's If you really want to cut to the chase, get back in the flow, and not waste time being roughed around by some old sailor with hairy knuckles and the word, 'MOM' emblazoned across his forehead trying to chisel a smiley face into the epidermis of your arm.

You can also check out David's Committed Husband Course at https://committedhusband.com/course-info/ - that's much easier and cheaper than a tattoo.

When marriages go bad they effect every single other aspect of your life; from your health and well being, to your career and other relationships

04/29/2022

A well-dressed businessman walks up to you and hands you his card, saying, "You, my friend are the winner of a brand new car and I am here to deliver it. You have four choices, and they are as follows:

1) A rusted hunk of junk that just sits there helping the encroaching weeds look nostalgic.

2) A be**er that works now and then as long as you pour expensive repairs into it regularly.

3) A boring but reliable, mostly unnoticeable, and unremarkable sedan that doesn't cost you much but at least you're not hoofing it. The good thing about this model is that the windshield is wide and clear enough for you to marvel at your next option, wishing you had chosen it instead.

4) Our Premium Luxury Model Sedan with Unlimited Warranty, Miles that get LOWER the more you use it, and a ride in which billions of people hope for but never bother to freely, voluntarily choose and make a consistent effort toward.

Let there be no misunderstanding, my good friend, those are your choices, and because you have already won, we are delivering all four to you and it is only a matter of daring to sit in the one you really want, put it in your driveway, and each day you wake to get into that car only, dismissing any temptation to ride in anything less.

I see that you are already sitting in what you previously chose. Why don't you just bring it by my shop so we can get it upgraded to our Luxury Standard?

No, for this upgrade we only need you. We'll see how she reacts as the work gets done and you finally take it home."