09/29/2026
My sister kept jokingly calling my husband "her backup option" ā until he finally put her in her place during a family dinner.
After my sister, Eliza, divorced her husband, she rented a house in my neighborhood, just a ten-minute walk from mine.
She started coming over almost every day for a cup of tea. Tearful and completely broken, she was constantly telling me how hard the divorce was for her.
I never minded. I wanted to support my sister in any way I could.
My husband, Andrew, didn't mind that Eliza spent several hours at our house almost every day either.
One day, while Eliza and I were sitting in the kitchen, Andrew came in, politely asked if he'd be bothering us, and then made lunch for all three of us.
Eliza smiled and said:
"God, Andrew is such a perfect husband! I wish I had someone like him."
At the time, I didn't think much of it. It didn't seem like a big deal.
The next day, Eliza came over again.
Usually, she showed up looking like she'd been crying, without makeup and in something close to loungewear. I understood. She was going through a lot of stress, so who could expect her to dress up?
But this time, she showed up in a beautiful fitted dress with her makeup done. I even asked if she was going to some kind of party after leaving my place.
She laughed and said:
"Oh, I just felt like dressing up a little. Maybe I wanted Andrew to notice me, too."
My eyes nearly popped out of my head.
"Eliza, what are you talking about?"
She just giggled and said:
"Oh, come on, it's just a joke! If something ever happened to you, I'd take Andrew for myself."
I nearly dropped my cup of tea.
"How dare you say something like that? Andrew is my husband!"
She just shrugged and said:
"Oh, stop getting so upset. Just think of Andrew as my backup option in case something ever goes wrong between you two. I'm only joking."
Well, I didn't like that at all. I asked Eliza to stop talking about Andrew that way because it made me uncomfortable.
I was trying to keep the peace in the family.
But it kept happening.
Every time she stopped by, she'd laugh right in front of Andrew and say things like:
"You'd be such a perfect husband for me."
Or:
"It's such a shame I didn't meet you first."
I kept trying to explain to Eliza that she needed to stop talking like that.
But yesterday, we had a family dinner. Our whole family gathered at our house.
Andrew was carrying dishes to the table and helping me while I finished up dessert in the kitchen.
Since we have an open-plan kitchen and living room, I could hear Eliza shamelessly flirting with Andrew right in front of everyone.
She said:
"Oh, Andrew, these dishes look amazing. Would you cook for me like this too if we were married?"
I could feel my face turning red with anger.
I was already walking toward her, ready to tell her exactly what I thought in front of everyone.
But Andrew smiled and said:
"You know, Eliza, there's actually something I'd like to bring out for you. Right now. A special dish just for you."
I had no idea what was going on, but Andrew disappeared for about five minutes.
When he came back, Eliza suddenly screamed:
"No! How could you do this to me?"