11/28/2025
As empaths and highly sensitive individuals, we are already attuned to emotions and energy without the added complexities of the holiday season. The overstimulation from family dynamics, work demands, bright lights, music, and crowds make self-care essential.
I keep a sign that reads: “Self-care is not selfish.” Let that sink in.
The holidays bring together people carrying a range of emotions joy, stress, frustration, and grief. As empaths, we naturally absorb this energy, which can feel overwhelming in crowded spaces like shopping malls, airports, or family gatherings. These environments heighten emotional overload.
The season’s idealization of perfection perfect meals, gifts, and moments creates stress we can unintentionally absorb. It may also bring up unresolved emotions in others, such as grief, strained relationships, or personal disappointments. As empaths, it’s easy to mistake these emotions for our own.
So how can we navigate this? Through the power of a pause. Pausing before responding helps us ground ourselves, reflect, and respond intentionally.
When we pause, we:
✨ Reduce reactive behavior.
✨ Maintain energy boundaries.
✨ Process emotions logically and compassionately.
Techniques to practice pausing include:
✨ Grounding: Deep breaths, visualizing calm, or stepping outside.
✨ Phrasing: Saying, “Let me think about that and get back to you.”
✨ Body awareness: Noticing tension and releasing it before reacting.
If affirmations help, try:
✨ “I am not responsible for others’ happiness.”
✨ “I choose peace and calm within myself.”
✨ “I respond with love and clarity.”
As the holiday season unfolds, I encourage you to pause daily to protect your energy and well-being.