12/05/2025
It’s so evident that God has been completely sustaining my sweet Mama. I’m sorry I haven’t shared an update sooner—this week has been a whirlwind of decisions, emotions, and waiting for answers.
On Wednesday, at her pre-op appointment for hip surgery, my mom told her doctor she’d been having shortness of breath, a cough, and extreme fatigue. They ordered an EKG, and it showed signs of intense stress and trauma to her heart.
A cardiologist was called immediately, and they rushed her into a procedure to check for blockages and prepare for potential heart surgery.
I got the phone call while I was at work, and it hit me like a wave—bringing me straight back to the moment I heard about Nathan’s wreck. We had no idea anything was wrong with her heart when she was here for Thanksgiving… and she drove 5.5 hours alone back to Rapid City the day before. God was clearly with her every mile, protecting and sustaining her.
In the chaos of trying to figure out how to get to her—car rentals, childcare, weather, waiting on updates—the only thing I could do was pause, pray, and breathe.
Miraculously, there was no blockage and she didn’t need emergency surgery. We are so relieved. But her heart is only functioning at about 50%, so we still need answers and direction for what the next steps look like. This also means her hip surgery is postponed, and she’s still in a lot of pain.
My heart is full of a million emotions. I’m thankful—so thankful—that the Lord protected her. I’m frustrated for everything we’ve lost and how long we’ve waited for redemption. I’m discouraged that we can’t support her the way we want to or move her closer to us yet.
And once again, I’m faced with the choice to trust God’s sovereignty… or let doubt take over. I’m choosing trust, even when it’s hard.
To everyone who has prayed, texted, called, offered to watch my kids, or was prepared to help financially with travel—your love has meant more than you know. Thank you for rallying around us and holding us up. 🤍
I will most likely be starting a GoFundMe for her to help alleviate financial pressures from currently being unable to work and needing to stay home to heal. 💕