Becoming with Sarah La’Joy

Becoming with Sarah La’Joy A soft place for the woman who’s been everything but seen. Here we talk honestly & grow gently

06/03/2026

I have learned 3 lessons this year: To leave people where they at, accept situations for what they are, and not every action needs a reaction.

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06/03/2026

God, thank you for soft mornings, clear minds, and another shot.🩷

06/03/2026

Before you argue with someone ask yourself, "is this person mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of different perspective?" if not there is no point to argue.

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03/23/2026

Happy Monday 💛

I’ve been sitting with this lately…

Growth will have you moving different.
Thinking different.
Even loving people… differently.

Not because you changed in a bad way but because your perspective changed.

And when that happens?

You stop explaining everything.
You stop giving everybody access.
You stop forcing what no longer feels aligned.

And baby… that kind of peace?

You don’t play about it anymore.

✨ It’s not distance… it’s discernment.

I talked about this deeper in my latest episode of Becoming
🎧 God Changed My Perspective — Part 2

If you’ve been feeling the shift lately…

this one is for you 💛

03/21/2026

Everybody can’t come with you everywhere.

Not everyone loves you… some love what you bring.

And I’m finally okay with moving accordingly 💛

03/20/2026

Not everyone deserves access to you…

And that was one of the hardest things I had to learn.

I’m the type of person who wants everybody to feel included.
Good vibes, good energy, everybody enjoying themselves, that’s just me.

But growth taught me something real:

Everybody can’t come with you everywhere.

Some people don’t love you…
they love what you bring.

And when God changed my perspective,
He also changed what I’m willing to tolerate.

✨ Access is no longer automatic it’s intentional.

This week’s episode of Becoming is a Part 2 to something very personal for me.

We’re talking about:

• outgrowing certain dynamics
• being okay with being misunderstood
• when roles in your circle start to change
• and learning that it’s not always loss… it’s alignment

For the most part, I’m grateful for the people around me the ones who see my growth, respect it, and support it…
even if we’re not always on the same path 💛

🎧 New episode: God Changed My Perspective — Part 2: Not Everyone Gets Access

If you’ve been feeling the shift lately… this one is for you.

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