Rose in Texas

11/01/2025

DON’T BE TOO MUCH.
🔥 LISTEN UP!!
Sabi nila, “masyado kang madrama,” “masyado kang maalaga,” “masyado kang mabigay.” Pero hindi ikaw ang problema — sila lang ang hindi sanay sa totoong pagmamahal. Mahal mo nang buo, tinawag kang clingy. Nagsabi ka ng totoo, tinawag kang demanding. You showed effort, tinawag kang “too much.” Huwag mong babaan ang standards mo para lang magkasya sa taong mababaw. You deserve someone who will understand your intensity, not someone who’ll make you feel guilty for having a big heart. Ang pagiging totoo ay hindi kahinaan. It’s bravery. Sa mundo ngayon, bihira na ang taong marunong magmahal nang buo at walang laro. The right person will never tell you “too much.” Sila yung tatanggap sa’yo, sa lahat ng lambing, selos, effort, at honesty mo. Bottom Line: 🔥 Hindi ikaw ang “too much.” Sila lang ang “too little” para sa’yo.

❤️— Land of Unspoken Feeling

11/01/2025

They said you were “too much” because your love had no limits — but that’s not your problem. You were real, raw, and honest in a world that’s addicted to half-efforts and fake emotions. People fear what’s genuine, because it exposes what they can’t give.

You cared deeply, and they called it clingy. You spoke your truth, and they called it drama. You loved loudly, and they called it crazy. But the truth is, they just weren’t ready for the kind of love that doesn’t play safe. You were never “too much” — they were just too little.

Never apologize for feeling deeply or loving hard. Your emotions aren’t weaknesses; they’re proof that you still care in a world that stopped feeling. It’s better to be intense than indifferent, better to overflow than run dry.

The right people will never call you “too much.” They’ll look at your fire and say, “That’s exactly what I’ve been searching for.” They’ll match your energy instead of dimming your light.

Stop shrinking yourself to make others comfortable. You were born to stand out, not to fit into spaces that can’t hold your greatness. Don’t tone down your truth just because others can’t handle your volume.

Bottom Line:
🔥 You’re not too much — they just weren’t enough to handle you.

10/29/2025

Insecure people cheat. Not because they don’t care, but because their fear of not being enough drives them to seek validation outside. It’s never really about you, it’s about the void inside them they can’t fill. They betray trust not out of malice, but out of a desperate need to prove to themselves they’re wanted, desired, or worthy. Loving someone like that isn’t a failure on your part; it’s a reminder that some people’s hearts are too tangled in doubt to handle honesty. You don’t fix insecurity by being loyal , they have to face it themselves.

10/29/2025

You don’t owe the world a version of you that keeps everyone comfortable. You’re not here to shrink, to fit into boxes built by other people’s expectations. Growth will make some uncomfortable, and that’s okay

10/28/2025

10/27/2025

“THEY DIDN’T CHEAT… BUT THEY STILL DID.”
LISTEN UP!!!

Let’s be real — some people don’t need to sleep with someone else to betray you. They just need to make you feel like you’re not enough anymore. That’s how narcissists cheat without ever getting caught.

They’ll never leave evidence. No lipstick stains, no text threads, no late-night calls to trace. But somehow, your gut knows something’s not right. Because energy doesn’t lie — their presence changes before their excuses do.

They start replying slower. They scroll on their phone a little too long. Suddenly, “they’re just busy.” You can’t prove anything, but every instinct in you starts screaming. Still, you question yourself — because that’s what they want.

Narcissists are experts at making you doubt your own reality. They’ll call you paranoid, “too emotional,” or “insecure.” They’ll twist every confrontation until you end up apologizing for feelings they caused.

It’s called micro-cheating — the subtle flirting, the secret attention-seeking, the validation they get from others behind your back. It’s not physical, but it’s emotional betrayal. And honestly? Sometimes that hurts even more.

Because it’s one thing to lose someone’s body — but it’s another to lose their heart while they’re still beside you. You start feeling alone even when they’re sitting right next to you. That’s the silent kind of heartbreak that breaks your spirit slowly.

Narcissists thrive on that confusion. They keep you guessing, chasing, explaining, while they sit there calm — knowing they’ve got you wrapped around their silence. It’s emotional warfare disguised as love.

And the worst part? You’ll still try. You’ll lower your walls, your pride, your standards — just to save something that’s already gone. Because deep down, you remember how it used to feel. And you keep hoping that version of them still exists.

But here’s the truth: you can’t fix what they broke on purpose. They know exactly what they’re doing. They just don’t care — as long as you’re still the one bleeding quietly while they keep their hands clean.

So stop waiting for closure from someone who feeds off your confusion. You deserve peace, not puzzles. You deserve honesty, not half-love. And you deserve the kind of love that doesn’t make your gut ache every night.

10/26/2025

💔 “WHEN LOVE FADES QUIETLY”
🎙️ LISTEN UP!!

Hindi mo agad mapapansin — kasi sa simula, parang okay pa. May “good night,” may “ingat,” may “miss you.” Pero habang tumatagal, napapalitan na ng mga seen, ng mga delayed reply, ng mga tahimik na gabi.

Dati, masaya ka sa simpleng “kumusta ka?”
Ngayon, parang nakakailang na. Parang ayaw mo na ring sumagot kasi ramdam mong hindi na rin niya gusto marinig.

Hindi mo alam kung kailan nagsimula, pero naramdaman mong unti-unting lumalamig ang lahat.
‘Yung dating sigla sa bawat tawanan, napalitan ng mga pilit na usapan.
‘Yung dating “ako at ikaw,” naging “ikaw lang” — kasi ikaw na lang ang lumalaban.

Tapos mapapaisip ka…
Paano mo ipaglalaban ang isang bagay na matagal nang sumuko?
Paano mo ipipilit ang koneksyon sa taong ayaw nang makinig?

Minsan, kailangan mong tanggapin na hindi lahat ng katahimikan masama.
Kasi minsan, ‘yun na lang ang natitirang paraan para maprotektahan mo ang sarili mo.

Hindi na siya babalik.
At okay lang ‘yun.
Kasi sa dulo, matututunan mong mas piliin ang kapayapaan kaysa sa paulit-ulit na sakit.

⸻❤️ Rose A. Land

10/26/2025

WHEN LOVE FORGETS YOUR NAME
🎙️ LISTEN UP!!

Minsan, hindi mo mapapansin kung kailan nagsimulang magbago ang lahat. Hindi naman agad-agad, pero unti-unti — hanggang sa dumating ‘yung araw na parang hindi ka na niya kilala.

Yung boses na dati, puno ng saya tuwing maririnig ka, ngayon… wala na. Walang emosyon, walang sigla. Para bang nagbago ang timpla ng hangin tuwing mag-uusap kayo.

Hindi mo alam kung saan ka nagkamali. Binigay mo naman lahat, ‘di ba? Oras, effort, pang-unawa — pero bakit parang hindi na sapat? Parang kahit anong gawin mo, hindi mo na siya maramdaman.

Tumatakbo ang mga araw, pero ikaw, naiipit sa mga alaala. Habang siya, abala na sa bagong mundo niya — isang mundong wala ka.

Ang totoo, hindi lang siya ‘yung nawala. Nawalan ka rin — ng tiwala, ng saya, at minsan, ng sarili mo. Kasi sa pagkapit mo sa kanya, nakalimutan mong kumapit sa sarili mo.

Pero darating din ‘yung araw na marerealize mo: hindi mo kailangang habulin ang taong nakalimot sa pangalan mo. Kasi may mga alaala talagang hindi na dapat buhayin.

At doon mo makikita — hindi mo kailangang makilala ulit ng mundo para maghilom. Ang kailangan mo lang… makilala ulit ang sarili mo.

⸻❤️ Rose A. Land

10/25/2025

🎙️ LISTEN UP!!

It’s strange how one day, you stop waiting. Not because you stopped loving — but because you finally realized there’s nothing left to wait for.

You start waking up without checking your phone first. You stop replaying the last conversation in your head. The pain doesn’t disappear overnight… it just becomes quieter, like an old song you’ve heard too many times.

You pass by the places that used to remind you of them — the coffee shop, the street corner, the late-night calls — and suddenly, it doesn’t sting as much. Maybe this is healing, the kind that doesn’t happen with tears, but with acceptance.

You begin to understand that love doesn’t always end with anger or betrayal. Sometimes, it just ends because people grow in different directions. And no matter how hard you hold on, some connections aren’t meant to last forever.

But here’s the truth — not every ending is tragic. Some endings teach you how to choose yourself again. How to find peace in your own silence. How to love without losing yourself.

So if you’re reading this with a heavy heart, remember:
You didn’t lose them. You found yourself.
And that’s a kind of love that never fades.

⸻❤️ Rose A. Land

10/25/2025

LISTEN UP

10/25/2025

WHEN EFFORT ISN’T ENOUGH

LISTEN UP!!
You can give everything — your time, your energy, your heart — and still not be enough for someone who doesn’t see your worth. That’s the cruel part about love. Sometimes, it’s not about how much you give, but who you give it to.

You stayed when they were distant. You fought for the connection when silence started taking over. You tried to understand their moods, their cold replies, their sudden changes — all because you thought love could fix it.

But no matter how hard you tried, they still made you feel like you were doing too much… or not enough. You became afraid to speak, afraid to ask for more, because every time you did, it turned into another fight.

You started shrinking just to fit in their world. You stopped saying what you felt because you didn’t want to sound “too emotional.” You stopped asking for effort because you didn’t want to look “needy.” You stopped being you — just to keep them.

And that’s when the realization hits — love should never make you question your worth. Effort should never be one-sided. Kasi kapag ikaw na lang palagi ang sumusuyo, napapagod din ‘yung puso mo kahit gano’n mo pa siya kamahal.

You kept hoping they’d notice the small things you do — the late-night messages, the sacrifices, the patience. But they didn’t. Because people who take you for granted rarely realize your value until you stop giving.

Then one day, you stop trying. You stop explaining, you stop fixing, you stop waiting for the same energy you’ve been giving. And that silence — that’s when your heart finally speaks the loudest.

You’ll realize that effort means nothing without appreciation. That love isn’t about proving yourself — it’s about being accepted for who you are, without begging for validation.

Sometimes, walking away doesn’t mean you stopped loving. It means you’ve finally learned that love without balance destroys you slowly. That it’s better to lose someone than to lose yourself.

And when that day comes… you’ll smile through the pain. Because you’ll finally understand — you were never asking for too much. You were just asking the wrong person.

10/24/2025

''You’re Not Too Much; They Were Just Not Enough''
LISTEN UP!!

You’ve been told you’re “too emotional,” “too sensitive,” or “too intense.” But the truth is, you just feel deeply. You love hard. You care more than most. And in a world that’s grown cold and distant, that’s not a weakness — that’s your rarest strength.

The wrong people will always make you feel like your passion is a problem. They’ll call your honesty “drama” and your love “clingy.” They’ll take your consistency for granted because they’ve never met someone who gives without holding back.

But listen — it’s not that you were too much. It’s that they were never ready for the kind of love that doesn’t give up easily. The kind that stays when things get messy. The kind that fights for connection even when silence gets loud.

You were trying to build a bridge while they were still standing on the shore, afraid to cross. You gave them pieces of your heart they didn’t know how to hold, and when they dropped them, they blamed you for breaking.

Don’t let someone’s inability to receive love convince you that your love was wrong. Some people can’t meet you where you are because they’ve never been that brave. They confuse depth for chaos, vulnerability for weakness.

You deserve someone who says, “I love how much you care.” Someone who sees your fire and doesn’t fear it — someone who matches it. Because the right person won’t tell you to quiet your heart; they’ll sit beside it and listen.

One day, you’ll realize your “too much” was exactly what someone else was praying for. The way you love, the way you show up, the way you pour into people — it’s not excessive, it’s extraordinary.

Don’t shrink yourself just to fit into someone else’s small world. You weren’t meant to fit — you were meant to expand, to inspire, to remind people that love can still be pure and real.

The right people won’t make you feel like you need to apologize for being yourself. They’ll thank you for it. Because your “too much” energy will finally meet someone who gives the same kind of effort back.

So don’t dim your light just because someone else couldn’t handle the brightness. You were never too much — they were simply not enough to see the beauty of everything you are.