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dearalex_ 💄 Real mom VS soft life
👶🏽 6 kids • 2 beds • 0 peace
🎥 Sharing the chaos so moms feel less alone

I've just reached 100 followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each one of you. 🙏...
08/21/2025

I've just reached 100 followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each one of you. 🙏🤗🎉

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 5 💎This dress didn’t just fit…It understood the assignment.The color? Rich.The fit? Unapo...
08/19/2025

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 5 💎
This dress didn’t just fit…
It understood the assignment.

The color? Rich.
The fit? Unapologetic.
The vibe? “I’m soft, but please don’t play with me.”

I didn’t put this on to prove anything.
I put it on because it felt like me — grounded, grown, and glowing from the inside out.
And honestly? If confidence had a uniform, this would be it.

It’s not about the dress, though.
It’s about finally seeing myself in something and not picking myself apart — just breathing in the beauty and owning the mirror.

💙
Tag someone who needs to romanticize getting dressed again.

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 4 🤍Listen… I didn’t know this dress was gon’ hug like this 😭I thought I was just trying s...
08/13/2025

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 4 🤍
Listen… I didn’t know this dress was gon’ hug like this 😭
I thought I was just trying something on.
Next thing I know, I’m in the mirror like:
“Ma’am… you’re the vibe.”

The knit? Smooth.
The stretch? Respectful.
The energy? Grown, grounded, and glowing.

I didn’t need this dress.
But this dress clearly needed me. 🤍✨

This season is about softness that holds you, clothes that speak your name, and confidence that doesn’t ask for permission.

Would y’all wear this one out or keep it cozy for the house? 👀

Pls don't get pregnant thinkin there is a village to help u cause there's not….
08/07/2025

Pls don't get pregnant thinkin there is a village to help u cause there's not….

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 3 💙Yes, I bought the dress.Because it made me feel beautiful.Because it fit the moment an...
08/06/2025

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 3 💙
Yes, I bought the dress.

Because it made me feel beautiful.
Because it fit the moment and the mood.
Because I deserve softness, even on a random Tuesday at the mall.

This dress said “main character,” and I answered.
No occasion needed. No second-guessing. Just vibes, comfort, and confidence in motion.

This season is about choosing what feels good on my skin and in my spirit. And this? This felt like a little luxury wrapped in light blue.

Would you rock this one too? 👀👇🏽 Let’s talk try-ons and treat-yourself energy.

Made these little frozen bites with love & a lil’ chocolate drizzle. My official taste tester gave it a whole thumbs up!...
08/03/2025

Made these little frozen bites with love & a lil’ chocolate drizzle. My official taste tester gave it a whole thumbs up! 👩🏽‍🍳✨ Y’all… the way she looked at me like I was on Chopped 😭😂

Should I add this to my Walmart storefront or just keep it in my cart for late night snack runs? 👀🍫
COMMENT “SNACK ATTACK” if you want the video & Walmart cart?







Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 2 💜I used to think softness had to be earned.That I had to prove myself, survive somethin...
07/30/2025

Soft Glam Try-On Diaries, Vol. 2 💜
I used to think softness had to be earned.
That I had to prove myself, survive something, or shrink to deserve rest, daintiness, or ease.

But this version of me?
She shows up in lavender. She sits tall. She speaks softly and still takes up space.
This is my Dainty Era — not because life got easier, but because I chose softness anyway.

I’m still a mom of six.
Still budgeting. Still healing. Still figuring it out.
But now I’m doing it with moisturized skin, gold jewelry, and the kind of self-respect that whispers, “we’re not rushing anymore.”

No one handed me softness. I built it.
Brick by brick, boundary by boundary, outfit by outfit.

If you feel yourself shifting too — into peace, into power, into a version of you that’s not begging to be understood — welcome. You’re in your Dainty Era now too. 💜✨

the nerve i have to walk around here looking like a compliment—for me! No occasion. Just reclaiming my mirror time. Conf...
07/27/2025

the nerve i have to walk around here looking like a compliment—for me!

No occasion. Just reclaiming my mirror time. Confidence doesn’t need a co-signer 💅🏾

07/26/2025

Support Black brands year round not just February

Who else hears Mariah Carey thawing out?
07/25/2025

Who else hears Mariah Carey thawing out?

It’s the late-night shuffle for me.Still in my Joyspun pajamas, standing in the kitchen like I’m about to do something p...
07/24/2025

It’s the late-night shuffle for me.
Still in my Joyspun pajamas, standing in the kitchen like I’m about to do something productive—but really just holding a baby who refuses to sleep unless he’s on my chest.

The bottle’s cold.
The dishes are judging me.
And I’m trying to remember if I even ate dinner.

Motherhood is wild like that… how you can feel so overstimulated and undernourished at the same time. How you’re tired of being touched but still the only comfort they want.
I’m somewhere between “I need a break” and “don’t take him from me.”
Between “I can’t do this” and “I’ll do anything for him.”

Nobody told me that this would be the kind of tired that sits in your bones… but also the kind of love that softens your whole spirit.

So here’s to the moms still standing in their kitchen at 9PM, hair undone, arms full, and heart wide open.
You’re not invisible. You’re just doing the kind of work that doesn’t always make noise—but it matters.

🧡

Tag a mama who needs to hear this tonight.

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