India Pluralism

India Pluralism This is about pluralistic India, respecting every one's space and belief in their pursuit of happiness. Please read 'About' before you join. Thank you

Fellow Indians,

Please consider joining this group based on the idea of India described hereunder. Our acts, talks, thoughts, and efforts are directed toward creating a cohesive India where no Indian has to live in fear of the other. If you are willing to subscribe to the idea, join us; it is not an easy journey; we will make mistakes and guide each other to get back on track. Everything begins

with you and me. If we are not, we cannot ask the other person to be caring and loving. Let us build ourselves to be caring individuals, no matter who it is, we are still Indians, and the same blood runs through our veins. I aspire for an India where every soul is free to drink, eat, wear and believe whatever they want. One should be free to live their life in the pursuit of their happiness. Can we grow up having that kind of heart and mind? If you do, read on and join us. We are Indians and don't have to agree with each other, but we can conduct civil dialogue and share opposing points of view - we can live and let live. We will be critical of every political, religious, and civic leader who kills the idea of unity and peace and divides people; instead of calling to be Indian, he calls a group or the other to join him to harm the others. That is not good for anyone in the long run. We are Adivasis, Atheists, Bahais, Bos, Buddhists, Christians, Dalits, Hindus, Jains, Jewish, Muslims, Sikhs, Tribals, Zoroastrians, and every possible grouping. We are Brown, Black, White, Yellow, and green with envy and Phir bhi Dil hai Hindustani (our heart is Indian). Our Motherland is represented by every race, nationality, ethnicity, language, culture, and religion. We see God as one, none, and many; and in every form; male, female, genderless and non-existent, being and non-being, nameless and with innumerable names. We are proud of our heritage - a multi-faith, multi-cultural, multi-regional, and multi-linguistic society. We have come to accept and respect every way people live. For over 5000 years, India has been a beacon of pluralism - it has embraced Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Baha'i, and Zoroastrianism to include in the array of indigenous religions; Hinduism, Jainism, Buddhism, and Sikhism. We may want to start thinking and acting as one people consciously, one within a nation and a community, and one globally. It's like home when we are conflict-free. I hope each of us purges any bias towards the other; there is joy in being free from ill will. Try to be free from it from this day forward, from anything that prevents you from being a part of the whole. Jesus embraced everyone regardless of who anyone was, and similar philosophies are grounded in all religions. Our combined attitudes believe in one world; Hinduism describes the world as Vasudaiva Kutumbukum; the whole world is one family. As Quran puts it, the idea of Ek Onkar(one) in Sikhism, you are all created from the same couple. A majority of every group goes about their way, living their life with struggles and ease and don't even bother others. A few don't follow their heritage and resort to thievery, loot, murder, terrorism, rioting, rapes, infanticide, and other evils destroying society's fabric. We should build upon the 99% of the population and not on the less than 1% that does not follow any principles. On this day, and from here forward, make a pledge to yourselves to talk about in terms of we Indians - and not Malayalee, Gujarati, Bengali or Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Israel. Don't expect others to jump and say the same; give them the time, and if you are consistent for at least a year, you will see others emulating you. India led the way in the freedom movement; since 1947, every country has been liberated from colonialism. Indian democracy is a shining example to the world, where the people have peacefully transferred the powers. Indians are inherently secular and economically capitalistic. They believe in a "live-and-let-live" lifestyle, which is the essence of capitalism. I am proud of my heritage and am proud to be an Indian-American. Through the years, we have expressed the highest degree of maturity in handling extreme situations; the more divergent opinions we hear, the larger our heart grows, the bigger our embrace would be, and we can cushion more differences. Let's continue to honor the concept that there is always another side to the story, as finding the truth is our responsibility. INDIA'S JOURNEY INTO THE FUTURE

The prosperity of India can be compared to a bus journey. If the driver ensures the air pressure is even in all its tires, the trip will become safe for its passengers. Similarly, if all the communities in a nation are on a level playing field, the country's prosperity becomes secure and sustainable. It would be dumb to tell one of the six tires of the bus, "hey, look, we, the five tires (prosperous communities), have worked hard to be effective and have the right amount of air in us. We have prospered, and you are low in the gutters, and you need to work hard and rise and be on par with us; we are not going to give you a ****ing hand; no one gave us." Would it make sense to give a hand to the ones in ditches and bring them up on a level playing field - then the bus journey would be safe, and sure, we all can ride safely. It is in our ****ing selfish interest to bring everyone on par and let them compete from there; when all of us can stand on our own, on a base, then all of us can prosper. Unfortunately, the majoritarian attitudes of "a few" harm India's harmony and adversely affect her prosperity. They harass, threaten and use violence to teach the minorities, women, and the weak how to behave and put them in their place. It is like letting the air out of one of the tires, hurting all of us. The 1984 Sikh Genocide, the demolition of Babri Masjid in 1992, the burning of Hindu Passengers in Godhra and the Massacre of Muslims in Gujarat in 2002, the rapes of Nuns, Dalits and the destruction of Churches are among the ugly cruelties we have witnessed since independence in 1947. It is a shameful blot on the civility of our Mother, India. Then the blood bath of Partition, cruelties of Aurangzeb, raids on Somanth... and we can prepare a long list of incomplete transactions that need courageously acknowledged, forgiven, and brought to a closure. The anguish, suffering, apprehension, and non-restoration of justice for the victims will continue to hurt the cohesiveness of India. As Indians, we need to set aside our pettiness and pull every Indian onto a level playing field; the more people we pull up, the greater the prosperity for all. Deep down, all humans seek justice and a balance in life; without it, they are lost in sectarian warfare. As a member of the civilized nations, we must collectively work towards building a cohesive India, where no Indian has to live in apprehension, discomfort, or fear of the other -- an India where everyone is free to eat, drink, wear and believe whatever suits them. Affiliated sites:


Mike Ghouse
Committed to a cohesive India where no Indian has to live in fear of the other.

When Gandhi and Mohammed Meet – A Powerful Take on Interfaith MarriagesInterfaith Marriages – A Reality Many Parents Str...
03/13/2025

When Gandhi and Mohammed Meet – A Powerful Take on Interfaith Marriages

Interfaith Marriages – A Reality Many Parents Struggle With
Interfaith marriages are becoming increasingly common, yet many families find them difficult to accept. Some parents outright reject their child’s decision to marry outside their faith, while others—both Muslim and Hindu—use emotional blackmail, saying, “If you marry that person, it will be over my dead body.”

One Hindu parent lamented, “I raised my daughter to be a good Hindu. How could she marry a Muslim? He will force her to convert, or vice versa.” Another parent, a doctor, expressed despair, “I put my son through the best schools, and now he tells me he is gay. I don’t want my lineage to end with me.”

These sentiments are all too common, highlighting the deep-rooted resistance to interfaith marriages in many families.

SETU Presents “When Gandhi and Mohammed Meet” – A Must-Watch Drama

The SETU group is breaking new ground by addressing the complexities of interfaith marriages, particularly between Hindus and Muslims. Subrata Das's play features realistic dialogue and an impactful screenplay that perfectly captures the struggles couples and their families face.

The drama revolves around Neel Gandhi from London and Mohammed Aslam from New Delhi, who meet at a scientific conference in Bangalore. Both face intense opposition from their families regarding their interfaith marriages. This gripping play explores the religious divide within Indian society and beyond, culminating in a surprising twist that questions artificial barriers and emphasizes our shared humanity.

Full story at https://interfaithmarriages.org/when-gandhi-and-mohammed-meet-a-powerful-take-on-interfaith-marriages/

SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR & MIKE GHOUSE Discussing pluralism and the plight of Adivasis in India, he asked me to speak about ...
03/12/2025

SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR & MIKE GHOUSE

Discussing pluralism and the plight of Adivasis in India, he asked me to speak about Islam during his visit to the US last year. I clarified many myths surrounding the religion. We need to sit down and learn about each other so we can live in peace rather than in apprehension and false narratives about all religions by small people who love to denigrate others.

Mike Ghouse
www.CenterforPluralilsm.com
www.InterfaithMarriages.org

Happy Republic Day
01/26/2025

Happy Republic Day

Muslim Intrafaith & Interfaith WeddingsOn Sunday, October 20th, I had the honor of officiating my 467th wedding. Among t...
10/22/2024

Muslim Intrafaith & Interfaith Weddings

On Sunday, October 20th, I had the honor of officiating my 467th wedding. Among these, 415 were interfaith marriages, beautifully blending among nine different faiths, including Atheists and their various denominations.

It was a joy to officiate at the 52nd Muslim Nikah ceremony for a couple from the Nation of Islam. I am pleased to note that I have engaged with a full spectrum of (Intra-faith) Muslim groups, including Sunni, Shia, Bohra, Ismaili, Ahmedi, and others. I've completed a full circle in this journey with the Nation of Islam.

Each wedding is customized through extensive consultations with the couple and their parents. We ensure that everyone agrees and aim to deliver a seamless and smooth ceremony in just 30 minutes, allowing you to concentrate on the joy of the occasion.

I approach the essence of all religions with equal respect, believing that no religion is superior to the other. They all offer divine guidance for living in peace and tranquility.

Many individuals have read my book, *American Muslim Agenda*, and reached out to me for insights into Islam—the progressive vision that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) shared with humanity.

While they express a desire to adopt Islamic values, I push them back, reassuring them that conversion is unnecessary, their faith is equally good, and I share some of their values with them. Nonetheless, 53 individuals have chosen to subscribe to Islamic ideals over the past 15 years. This week, I will be officiating another conversion, this time for a woman who wants to be a Muslim.

For further reading, consider this article: "Who is a Muslim and what is Islam." https://interfaithmarriages.org/who-is-a-muslim-and-what-is-islam/

For more information, testimonials, and videos, please visit the following sites:

Drs Fatima & Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiants of America\
www.InterfaithMarriages.org
www.MuslimWeddingOfficiant.org
www.Ceremoniasenespanol.com

FEELS GOOD TREATED WELL.I recently officiated my 464th interfaith wedding in Raleigh, NC, on Sunday, October 12, 2024. A...
10/16/2024

FEELS GOOD TREATED WELL.

I recently officiated my 464th interfaith wedding in Raleigh, NC, on Sunday, October 12, 2024. About 100 people attended the wedding. My joy was to meet both the families of the bride and groom, who were from Bengaluru and spoke Kannada. I missed Idli, Vada, Dosa, Sambar, and bisi bele bhat served for lunch as I flew in from Chicago from the 463rd wedding. It was a Turkish wedding.

During the ceremony, I had the opportunity to conduct a mini-workshop on Pluralism. This workshop posed two questions regarding different life situations: "What is my loss?" and "What is the essence?" We explored topics such as worship in various religions, differing clothing styles (like the hijab and bindi), workplace harmony, and more, all within a seven-minute timeframe. We can achieve greater understanding and clarity by reflecting on our attitudes, which can sometimes be biased.

In the picture, a woman guest at the wedding expressed her desire to take a photo with her family and me to promote the concept of Pluralism. It truly feels terrific when people treat you like a celebrity.

Fatima & Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiants
www.InterfaithMarriages.org
www.MuslimWeddingOfficiant.org
www.Ceremoniasenespanol.com

LOVE THE DEDICATION OF THIS WOMANShe is dedicated to him. Although he has been in the correctional facility for over ten...
10/11/2024

LOVE THE DEDICATION OF THIS WOMAN

She is dedicated to him. Although he has been in the correctional facility for over ten years, she has not given up on him. She is the kind of woman every guy would admire for her dedication. He will be out in February next year.

This marked my 464th wedding, a significant milestone as it was the first one held within the confines of a correctional facility. The restrictions were stringent-not even a pen was allowed inside the marriage room. However, after some negotiation, I was permitted to bring in my coat, which was deemed acceptable as religious attire.

It was a customized ceremony for the couple. The groom and bride wanted to take an oath on the Quran. I took a copy, and the guards allowed it.

It was a customized ceremony for the couple. The groom and bride wanted to take an oath on the Quran. I took a copy, and the guards allowed it.

It was a joy to officiate this interfaith and intra-racial wedding.

Fatima and Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiants of America
www.InterfaithMarriages.org
www.MuslimWeddingOfficiant.org

Mahatma Gandhi's birthday - my hero
10/02/2024

Mahatma Gandhi's birthday - my hero

Friends
09/15/2024

Friends

MY 455th WEDDINGThere are unique locations around the DMV area. This place had hills or mountains in the background, wit...
09/14/2024

MY 455th WEDDING

There are unique locations around the DMV area. This place had hills or mountains in the background, with a valley behind the venue. I have become the go-to person for seamlessly putting together beautiful wedding ceremonies between different faiths. Reluctant parents rejoice and come and repeatedly tell me me how good the ceremony was, to me more imortant is support from the parents, which quadrpulese the joys of the marrying couple.

Fatima & Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiants of America
www.InterfaithMarriages.org
www.MuslimWeddingOfficiant.org

At Celebration of India's 78th INdependece Day by NCAIA - National council of Asian Indian Associations
09/12/2024

At Celebration of India's 78th INdependece Day by NCAIA - National council of Asian Indian Associations

WEDDING on THE TOP OF NEW YORKI have officiated weddings in every imaginable venue, from apartments, condos, parks, rive...
09/08/2024

WEDDING on THE TOP OF NEW YORK

I have officiated weddings in every imaginable venue, from apartments, condos, parks, riverside, oceans, tops of the hills, and 12000' tall Estes Park Mountain, Magic Kingdom, and small 12-seater planes. Today was the 454th wedding on top of a building in New York with the Empire State Building in the background.

The bride's father was from Yemen but grew up in Indonesia. He was an anesthesiologist who had served our nation well. The bride's grandfather received the Purple Heart for his distinguished service in the US Army. Everyone in the family was a doctor.

We all gathered on top of the building; everything was organized well. However, the rain started pouring, so we grabbed as many chairs as possible and ran to their unit on the 12th floor. The rain stopped, so we went back up again, and all agreed to stand as the place was wet.

The Nikah+ ceremony lasted 30 minutes as planned. Mothers and fathers were participants, not spectators. Every traditional word recited in Arabic was translated and explained in English. The ceremony included a dash of humor.

I traveled in Amtrak and loved it. There is something nostalgic about trains. I went to work, high school, and college by train. So many memories are associated with trains.

My mother, my siblings, and I traveled in the Narrow Gauge train from Yelahanka to Chikbalapur and Chintamani, about 35 miles, but it took a day. My mother had a metal trunk that we put our clothes in. It was heavy, and either I carried it on my shoulders or the porter carried it for us.

Drs. Fatima & Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiants of America
www.InterfaithMarriages.org
www.MuslimWeddingOfficiant.org

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