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Loyal Friends: As I See it:Friends are precious, they are there during the good times and bad...they know no difference!...
06/08/2026

Loyal Friends: As I See it:

Friends are precious, they are there during the good times and bad...they know no difference!

Long term friends have shared the rings of life with you like a tall sturdy tree. They will never betray you no matter what, THEY SHARE YOUR RINGS OF LIFE!

Some went to school with you. Some even became your spouse and made babies with you!

These are the ones who call you, text you; send a birthday greeting; they truly care about you; even love you and you them.

You can count on them to send condolences to your family when you pass; many will even attend your memorial services if they can.

They have cried happy tears with you and sad tears too.

They know your family, spouse, even your kids. Some are even their god parents.

The special ones were your maid of honor or best man.
They are special! They were there often when your children were born and your parents passed.

Friends since childhood are sacred, you grew up together and stayed in touch for decades! They know you secrets, about your falls. They know the color of your bikes, even the names of your dogs. They ate meals at your house and knew your parents when your parents were young.

Friends are loyal, special and will always look forward to seeing you one more time...until that final day when one of you passes and grows wings and flies away and only fond memories are left.

Goodbyes are the most difficult to say to a friend....

AS I SEE IT....

Bad times are like bad gas. They smell like hell, but once there gone, you always feel better!All we need now is a Burma...
06/08/2026

Bad times are like bad gas. They smell like hell, but once there gone, you always feel better!

All we need now is a Burma Shave sign and hope will be right around the corner.

05/28/2026

Time is a measure of our journey, reflecting our past and framing our future.

Accomplishment is the art of harnessing time to create lasting impact.

Our lifetime may be finite, but our legacy, like a timeless stamp, endures.

05/27/2026

Around the World the Summer of 1999 — As I Recall, V2, No. 13:

The year was 1999, and I was working for a large technology company as an international vice president, making client visits and giving speeches all over the world.

The trip began in Calgary, Canada, at the Calgary Stampede, just before the Fourth of July. From there, I flew back to Dallas and then on to Paris, where I was met at the plane door by the American Airlines concierge service and shuttled across the tarmac to the Admirals Club. I freshened up there and met my guide, who would accompany me through much of the journey.

That evening, at the Hilton near the Eiffel Tower, we reviewed the itinerary. It would be a long swing through Europe, Africa, and the Middle East.

The next morning, we were off to Milan, Italy, where we spent the night and met with our representatives over breakfast the following morning. As soon as breakfast ended, we were back in the air, this time bound for Amsterdam, where I had a lunch meeting and gave a brief speech. Into a rental car my guide had arranged and drove on to Brussels for an afternoon meeting with our representatives there, a difficult meeting, to say the least.

When that meeting ended, we caught the train back to Paris, where a dinner meeting had been arranged for that evening.

The next morning, we were back in the air again, this time heading to Tel Aviv. I remember being met by our driver, who took us toward the hotel while pointing out places in the city where shootings and killings had happened in the past. Even then, it made an impression on me. Of course, this was 1999, a very different time from today.

After meetings in Tel Aviv the next morning, it was back to the airport once more, where security screening was intense for our Turkish Airlines flight to Istanbul.

Getting into Istanbul was not easy. Apparently, a bribe to the passport official was the difference between getting through and being delayed, and it cost each of us $100. What a rip-off. We made our way to the Hilton in Istanbul, where security was tight. You had to pass through a metal detector to enter the hotel, and armed guards patrolled the halls.

The next morning, before meeting with our representatives, I could hear the Muslim calls to prayer, a sound that was both unfamiliar and memorable, offering a unique perspective on how many different cultures this world has.

Breakfast with the representatives went well, and the meeting was productive. They invited us to join them and their CEO for lunch at their headquarters, and we accepted.

When we arrived, we were escorted to a top-floor penthouse suite with a sweeping view of the city. From there, we were taken to a patio under a domed canopy, where a long table had been set. We could see the city of Istanbul. I was seated at the end nearest where our host would appear. About ten minutes later, out walked a striking and sophisticated woman dressed in a way that reminded me of I Dream of Jeannie. At first, I assumed she was part of the serving staff, but she was, in fact, the CEO.
She was impressive, highly educated, well-informed on world affairs, and entirely comfortable discussing topics ranging from business to sailboat races involving Israelis. Any assumptions I might have made disappeared almost immediately. Strange things do indeed happen. A wake-up call happened.

As a side note, the Hilton Hotel where I stayed was blown up in a terrorist bombing just two weeks later. My family was traumatized, as this was the first of several disasters that seemed to follow me that year.

From there it was on to Warsaw, Poland. Warsaw struck me as a city divided between two eras: one half still clinging to the gray, heavy look of communist rule, the other vibrant, modern, and full of young people.

The next morning, we went through the same routine and met with the colleagues we had come to see. Once that meeting ended, it was back to the airport, this time for Frankfurt, and then the same drill again the next day.

Our next stop was London, followed by a flight to South Africa; It was an extremely long flight. When we arrived, we were met by a guard who escorted us through Cape Town, which at the time could be rough, especially around the airport, where container cities lined the area.
People ran red lights there to avoid being mugged or worse. One of the worries I carried throughout those years was the possibility of being kidnapped for ransom because of my position and the kind of work I was doing. It had already happened to several colleagues, so it was not an idle concern.

We completed our meeting in Cape Town and then headed to what everyone there called Joburg, or Johannesburg, as the map would have it. Our colleagues there were gracious, showed us around, and later agreed to come to the United States for a function in New Orleans. In time, all three of them ended up staying at my home for a long weekend out on the boat.

The flight back from South Africa was one of the worst I have ever endured. I was supposed to be upgraded to business class or even first class. Still, hunters and diamond brokers had taken all the premium seats, and I ended up in the back section of a completely full 747 with a cabin full of people trying to get to the United States. It was roughly a 16- or 17-hour flight, and about 90 percent of the way through, all the lavatories in the back of the plane had to be closed because the holding tanks were full. It was a miserable experience, especially after years of first-class travel from my days as an airline executive and all the frequent-flyer miles I had accumulated.

Even so, South Africa was absolutely beautiful, though I am not sure I would make that trip again now, given the length of the flight. I arrived in Miami, caught a flight back to Dallas, and stayed home for about a week.

Then it was a quick trip to Mexico, where I often traveled to confer with our representatives and always enjoyed the camaraderie. At that time, Mexico could be dangerous; even the hotels were heavily guarded. We had executives kidnapped there. My Spanish was limited, but I had Edgar, my colleague in Mexico, as a translator and a gracious host.

The next week, I was off to Asia: Tokyo first, then Taiwan, Singapore, Hong Kong, and Bangkok, Thailand. From there it was on to Malaysia and its largest city, Kuala Lumpur.
From there it was on to the Philippines and Manila, then to Australia, including Sydney and Melbourne, both great cities.

After a quick stop in Auckland, New Zealand, I headed back to Los Angeles, stayed home only a few days, and then left for South America: first Santiago, Chile, then São Paulo and Rio, Brazil. On the way back to DFW, a medical emergency occurred on the plane, and we had to return to Rio. By the time I got back to DFW, I was tired beyond words.

I had been to every continent except Antarctica. On top of that, during that same year, I passed through Greenland and made several trips to Canada, not to mention all the stops around the United States. All of this came after major back surgery the year before, and I was pushing fifty.

The air miles alone that I piled up in the American Airlines AAdvantage program were well over 250,000, not counting the other programs.

I can say I set foot in many places across the world, but I am not sure I stayed in any of them long enough to understand what life there was really like in that geo. Most of what I remember is riding in cars, often with a bodyguard or two, being rushed from one speech or meeting to the next, and then being whisked away again.

There were meetings where I met dignitaries, government officials, and some people I was never quite sure how to describe—or whether I should.

Speeches everywhere, meetings everywhere, and very little time to truly experience the cities and countries where I briefly planted my feet.

Still, I gathered a great deal that I later used in my novels. My background in political science (of the research type; apolitical for sure), years running think tanks, and experience in logistics, hospitality, economics, banking, and other fields helped me understand business, cultures/customs, and regional concerns. It is indeed a small world after all!

Today, I am just an old man in his mid-seventies with a sweet wife who doesn’t cut me any slack, a dog, a cat, and a boatload of grandkids and great-grandkids.

As I recall...

05/24/2026

A special day to remember those departed who gave much to this nation and each of our lives.

Many were immigrants who arrived at our shores with nearly nothing, by themselves or with a family. Some were indentured servants or worse, slaves.

All endured to become proud Americans. These are our grandparents, great-grandparents, and more!

Many died building, chasing, or defending the American dream. Most had to learn a new language and customs.

All brought with them religious rituals, food choices, and even skills. America was becoming that proverbial 'Melting Pot,' which makes us unique.

They respected and held close our
The Bill of Rights, even if they couldn't read our Constitution.

They wanted the guarantee of religious freedom to believe what they believed, or not at all, without prosecution or persecution. They understood that religion and government were separate. They gained voting rights in time and finally had a say in their own destiny.

They built skyscrapers, canals, railroads, and highways, erected telephone lines, and manned assembly lines. They were the sons and even daughters who built the monuments, went to the moon and back, and developed the vaccinations and technologies we use every day!

Later, they served the nation in foreign wars; many made the ultimate sacrifice. The daughters of immigrants served this nation by putting clothes on our backs, even by riveting planes.

Scholars, doctors, lawyers, professors, researchers, and more, as their descendants...many of all the aforementioned are also gone.

This is what I see when I think of this day. People of every color, origin, and belief.

What unites us is our solid determination to ensure the American Dream for all, from people experiencing poverty to the very fortunate.

What will be our downfall is what drove the immigrants away to give up everything to flee repressive regimes in their homeland.

When people use that phrase, 'Have a blessed day,' remember who sacrificed everything so you could see this day!

It matters little whether you are Red, Blue, Purple, or Pink-dotted. It matters that you remember why we have this day, and why it exists at all.

America from sea to shining sea, this day for you to see!

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05/24/2026

It was a secret to be of Service - As I Recall - V2 number 10: (a long story, but a good read if you'll join me for the ride, please).

I was 21 and was getting deeper into the political machine in Kentucky. I had already managed a couple of campaigns, been to the White House, and was the President of the County Young Republicans. The GOP was grooming me to make a run one day.

One spring day, my phone rang, the voice on the other end identified himself as being an officer with the Secret Service... Oh no, what did I do?

Quite to the contrary, I had been selected to be part of the President’s Advance Team for that summer in the Area along with six other people, including Mitch McConnell, whom I had worked with ever since I moved to Kentucky in 1968.

Wow, everyone else had their JDs and I I was working on my BA in Political Science. We all had been deeply vetted.

The first of two assignments was the Appalachian Regional Governors Conference in Louisville.

The Secret Service group was really outstanding; almost all had their JDs, and very few lacked a military background or some form of law enforcement or FBI experience.

Their plans were very serious. My assignment was to be part of the Airport Arrival team of Air Force One, which was carrying President Nixon and a contingent of dignitaries.

Awaiting the arrival were the Governor, the Mayor, the two US Senators, and the Kentucky Congressional delegation. There was a ton of exposure at stake.

I was not armed, but to be specific, I had to procure dozens of buses to form a half circle on the tarmac to act as an outer wall around Air Force One, and the Presidential Limousine was parked along with Secret Service, local police, and state troopers' vehicles, all ready for the motorcade to the Federal Building.

Armed agents took the high spots and to the rear of the buses behind a fence, where a large group of protesters was expected. This was the time of the Vietnam War, amongst other things.

I worked with the team to select a group of welcomers to greet and meet POTUS. They wanted to see many young faces in the crowd to counter the demonstrators behind the bushes and along the streets where the motorcade would pass. (In retrospect???)

Extreme security measures were taken; manhole covers were welded shut, and agents, both uniformed and in suits, were stationed along the motorcade route. Local and state police had specific assignments as well. Any potential persons of interest were rounded up, held for a day or two, and then released.

This was not just an arrival, but also the departure at hand. To make things even more critical, the 1972 election was just a year out.

Keep in mind that a president had been assassinated less than ten years earlier in Dallas in a similar arrival and departure situation.

I am not disclosing many details for obvious reasons. The tight control of the optics and security at the airport was critical, as the risk of exposure for POTUS, VIPs traveling on Air Force One, and dignitaries on the ground.

We completed the mission. Later that summer, we repeated the scenario with the arrival of Vice President Spiro Agnew.

This was a tremendous experience; the entire process was enlightening. I was told that after I graduated (strongly suggested with a JD), if I were interested in joining the Treasury Department, which was where the Secret Service reported, I would have been seriously considered.
It never happened. I was in a high position in the county GOP's campaign in 1972 and part of the Committee to Re-Elect the President.

That whole experience was an eye-opener for me, and the entire Watergate agenda soured my image of politics from the inside.

Yet, my opportunity to work with the Secret Service was impressive. I kept in touch with them, and we met a few more times. I enjoyed those times immensely.

I did not pursue the JD for many reasons; it was a dumb move on my part that devastated my father and wife.

I knew I did not have the thick skin required to be a candidate. I also fought an inferiority complex as a result of a speech impediment, which I later conquered.

After Watergate, I became an Independent, pursued a career in IT, and created Think Tanks, using my polisci degree to identify trends in which demographic changes would lead to economic changes and, in turn, political changes, plus or minus.

Life brings many experiences and even
opportunities; some you need to avoid. Epiphanies happen at these junctions

Kermit the Frog (a great philosopher), along with Kenny Rogers, said it best:

Kermit: "Someday we'll find it, that rainbow connection. The lovers, the dreamers, and me."

"Life's like a movie, write your own ending. Keep believing, keep pretending."

"Take chances... and you might just find that what feels like failure isn't failure at all, it's what inspires you to dream even bigger."

Kenny Rogers:

"You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away and know when to run
You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin''s done".

I have guided my choice with these two in mind, made some wise choices and some not-so-wise choices. Frank Santra sang 'That's Life'...I hear it in my mind every day.

As I recall....

Goodbye tomorrow to CBS Radio News, a proven and reliable source for news.'That's the way it was....' (WC)
05/22/2026

Goodbye tomorrow to CBS Radio News, a proven and reliable source for news.

'That's the way it was....' (WC)

05/21/2026

To all the studios I've loved before - As I recall - V2. - Number 8:

I always loved the radio since I was given an AM radio for my eleventh birthday.

My favorite stations were WIBG, WIP, and later WFIL, where I went to the studios, met Long John Silver, and got to sit in his chair. He inspired me a bunch.

I wanted to be a DJ or the news guy, but as I have shared before, it was a long reach for a kid with speech difficulties.

But this story is a salute to 'All the studios I loved before'. WAKY in Louisville, where I would sit and talk with the DJs and learn what it took to do it.

A college station where I was a DJ a long time ago; honestly, I was just ok, but I learned a lot.

KRLD in DFW, a pioneer in radio, where I recorded in the same studio where Dan Rather became famous on that terrible day JFK was assassinated.

We did 1600 of the 90 Seconds for the 90s commentaries there... thank you, Alex Burton, Randy Wiles, and Richard Walker!!

Also in DFW, KGBS, formerly the Mighty 1190 powerhouse, KLIF. Morton Downey Jr, was a shock jock there and stunk up the studio with his chain-smoking! We did 90 for the 90s there. I also did analysis therevon the. night of the 1992 presidential election on election, they were a CNN affiliate and uploaded the stories.

My kids were my runners that night, providing me with updates, which made it extra special! BTW- my son ToddP later went on to be a DJ; was into Indie Rock in NY and at South By Southwest, and later produced the same in Mexico. He is famous! My daughter is a journalist with decades of expertise. My older son has worked in emerging IT for many years.

I recorded my first commercials for Crest Cadillac at a studio in a Dallas suburb. The actual studio I recorded in was used regularly by the famous Willie Nelson, way cool! Later, they replaced me with a coach named Jimmy Johnson, he didn't last long. Leslie Neilson, or something like that, replaced him...hmmm, good company or a lucky break for someone?

There were lots of radio and TV interviews in studios where famous people had already been. Not bad for a kid with a stutter and a face for radio.
Some were intimidating for me, but the studios didn't eat me alive, and I survived after all.

One of the more interesting studios was in CBS news trailer deep beneath the venue and parking garage where the 1990 G7 Economic Summit was held in Houston.

I met the CBS big names at that time, rubbed elbows with them, and even did a segment. I even went upstairs to the main hall, where I was part of the press corps, when President George HW Bush and other world leaders were there, including a bald Russian leader with a huge birthmark on his head: President Mikel Gorbachev. Note: I kept my mouth shut and listened in awe.

Then there was the studio I built at the ranch in Texas, so my buddy Steve Putney and I could record the 'Men in the Middle Shows'.

Steve had the master studio in Connecticut and later in Burlington, Iowa. He was the producer, handling all the tech and smarts to broadcast. I was called 'the crazy professor' more than a few times; maybe just 'the crazy political scientist.' I brought the facts and even a bit of laughter; believe it or not. My studio had 6 monitors carrying news sources, weather, etc., it was mass overkill! I felt like a big leaguer (not).

As reported earlier, Steve and I have never met in person. Still, with the power of Skype, we connected with powerful guests from around the world as we broadcast on WECS and KBUR radio studios and podcast over the internet and the ionosphere, well, maybe some aliens listened, even. 300,000 listeners tuned in weekly. Had I made it, not at all, but I had a great time and a good ride with my buddy, Steve!

Now, I have the remnants of my former studio in my office in North Texas, hoping that the phone might ring for an interview, perhaps a new show. I am ready for TV even, oh well....

For all the studios I once loved before, this man, in his mid-70s, has fond memories of a dream that did come
true...never give up! You, too, might even become a legend in your own mind!

As I recall....

05/17/2026

A profound force drives humanity forward, fueled by the collective efforts of countless good people who embody integrity, hard work, and compassion.

They are the pillars of families, communities, and nations, often making a lasting impact as devoted parents, grandparents, and contributors to society in diverse ways.

Active in their communities, schools, churches, and charities, they give selflessly, seeking recognition only in the form of understanding and appreciation.

Their influence extends far beyond financial wealth; it is measured in the positive difference they create.

Although some individuals may prioritize self-interest, displaying unkindness and rudeness, their actions do not define the majority.

In a world where many have a say in electing their leaders, it's disheartening that few exercise this fundamental right, often resulting in a silent majority.

However, Hungary's recent example demonstrates the power of registering and voting.

Imagine the transformative impact if all individuals who value kindness and integrity exercised their voting rights!

Thoroughly research and thoughtfully choose your candidates, remembering that registration and voting are crucial to being counted.

The world's freedom hinges on your participation. Every person on this planet is part of a shared journey; let's strive to make it better for all – by casting our ballots, we can ignite positive change.

Thank you.

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